Please, i need your advise on this issue.

Yesterday night, my new girlfriend invited me to her church. I wanted to impress her so i left my ward to her church. We had our usual discussion until she told me a guy slapped her that evening and that she would want a revenge.

After much talking, she finally admitted that the guy dumped her and they had a fight. She told me things about the guy and how she did a lot for the guy in the past. I was angry but as a guy i was able to console myself with a chill and even made her say more to effect.

The annoying part is that she called the guy to wish him happy new year when we were together. She said she promised the guy she would before the fight and it was only appropriate to fulfil her promise to him. It seemed i was an obstacle to the guy's relationship. I wanted out but couldn't do a thing because i could be wrong with my insinuations.

I left her about 1am when we started having a bad body language. She noticed my countenance changed and even asked me why.

I seem not to understand why all my relationships are ending on a baseless course. I have not been able to hold a girl for long. At a time, i started enticing them with little funds but it still wasn't enough to hold anyone to me for too long. I have even gone broke trying to impress a girl.

Well, i called her this morning to wish her a happy new year and she agrees to meet me up by 2. Still waiting though.

I need an advise on what could be wrong. I really need a cure please.

Telling you all she did for a guy and never dedicated a sentence to say..he did this good to me too.. shows selfishness. No matter how bad a person is, something must have attracted her to him. You were used as an emotional temperature coolant last night and when the emotional engine totally cools up, another coolant will be on the ready spot.

She's confused. Don't be confused also. You didn't tell us ur age, her age and ur present status as in if you've finished school or thereabout. You may not really enjoy girls until you come across a working class girl who have come of age, broken many hearts, may have recieved curses down for her unborn children, aborted the amount she intensionally and mistakenly want and has her mind focused on settling down. If you're working by then too, you won't need much stress except a few lies to get her commitment.

Good luck!

Bro, it seems you're giving her so much attention than our national anthem, reduce it for some time.

I don't have any of my "Ex" contact, I delete it when the relationship hits the rock, and I don't keep them as friends... You might wanna ask why but the truth is, it is better to keep your distance to avoid any confusion or "illegal discussion" The minute we agree to go our separate ways, then it's over for real. I don't care if her father is the Prime minister of Central Bank.

Now, if she comes, entertain her very well, make her feel comfortable and then tell her you don't like that bullshit behaviour of hers. Be authoritative and tell her to cut off any ties bonding her and her "Ex" else you'll have to end things. If she agrees, give her 2 weeks to see if she has changed.


This is 2019 Bro, nor let any girl use your head like dustbin. #Many fish dey water. #No basket for rotten mango.

I wish you well.

Oluromantic:
Telling you all she did for a guy and never dedicated a sentence to say..he did this good to me too.. shows selfishness. No matter how bad a person is, something must have attracted her to him. You were used as an emotional temperature coolant last night and when the emotional engine totally cools up, another coolant will be on the ready spot.

She's confused. Don't be confused also. You didn't tell us ur age, her age and ur present status as in if you've finished school or thereabout. You may not really enjoy girls until you come across a working class girl who have come of age, broken many hearts, may have recieved curses down for her unborn children, aborted the amount she intensionally and mistakenly want and has her mind focused on settling down. If you're working by then too, you won't need much stress except a few lies to get her commitment.

Good luck!

Thanks bro.

JasonScoolari:
Bro, it seems you're giving her so much attention than our national anthem, reduce it for some time.

I don't have any of my "Ex" contact, I delete it when the relationship hits the rock, and I don't keep them as friends... You might wanna ask why but the truth is, it is better to keep your distance to avoid any confusion or "illegal discussion" The minute we agree to go our separate ways, then it's over for real. I don't care if her father is the Prime minister of Central Bank.

Now, if she comes, entertain her very well, make her feel comfortable and then tell her you don't like that bullshit behaviour of hers. Be authoritative and tell her to cut off any ties bonding her and her "Ex" else you'll have to end things. If she agrees, give her 2 weeks to see if she has changed.


This is 2019 Bro, nor let any girl use your head like dustbin. #Many fish dey water. #No basket for rotten mango.

I wish you well.

Thanks bro.

Your head no want girl, become a f*ckboy and thank me later.

bros let go, she is not ready to let go of the other relationship

JasonScoolari:
Bro, it seems you're giving her so much attention than our national anthem, reduce it for some time.

I don't have any of my "Ex" contact, I delete it when the relationship hits the rock, and I don't keep them as friends... You might wanna ask why but the truth is, it is better to keep your distance to avoid any confusion or "illegal discussion" The minute we agree to go our separate ways, then it's over for real. I don't care if her father is the Prime minister of Central Bank.

Now, if she comes, entertain her very well, make her feel comfortable and then tell her you don't like that bullshit behaviour of hers. Be authoritative and tell her to cut off any ties bonding her and her "Ex" else you'll have to end things. If she agrees, give her 2 weeks to see if she has changed.


This is 2019 Bro, nor let any girl use your head like dustbin. #Many fish dey water. #No basket for rotten mango.

I wish you well.

baba you're just like once you're or me done with each other i don't see reason to keep contacts what should we be friends for sef gan na
OP Really Need to step up
HAPPY NEW YEAR

Rule of thump,
don't ever follow a girl to her church cos you want to impress her. At the end you will surely loose out.

ExposedWicked:
Please, i need your advise on this issue.

Yesterday night, my new girlfriend invited me to her church. I wanted to impress her so i left my ward to her church. We had our usual discussion until she told me a guy slapped her that evening and that she would want a revenge.

After much talking, she finally admitted that the guy dumped her and they had a fight. She told me things about the guy and how she did a lot for the guy in the past. I was angry but as a guy i was able to console myself with a chill and even made her say more to effect.

The annoying part is that she called the guy to wish him happy new year when we were together. She said she promised the guy she would before the fight and it was only appropriate to fulfil her promise to him. It seemed i was an obstacle to the guy's relationship. I wanted out but couldn't do a thing because i could be wrong with my insinuations.

I left her about 1am when we started having a bad body language. She noticed my countenance changed and even asked me why.

I seem not to understand why all my relationships are ending on a baseless course. I have not been able to hold a girl for long. At a time, i started enticing them with little funds but it still wasn't enough to hold anyone to me for too long. I have even gone broke trying to impress a girl.

Well, i called her this morning to wish her a happy new year and she agrees to meet me up by 2. Still waiting though.

I need an advise on what could be wrong. I really need a cure please.

1. Girls love bad guys
2. You are not successful yet. Cos girls love successful guys.
3. She doesn't love you yet. She simple using u as a counsellor

She def sees you as nothing but a spare tire

Am very sure you are still below 24, my advice.....focus more on your work/studies for now, wen you grow to a certain age, with legimate income, soooooo many mature ladies will be presurising you for relationship

CreepyBlackpool:
She def sees you as nothing but a spare tire

But that is not what i am. Infact, see is completely proud of me anywhere and even talked about moving in with me

ojuu4u:
Am very sure you are still below 24, my advice.....focus more on your work/studies for now, wen you grow to a certain age, with legimate income, soooooo many mature ladies will be begging you for relationship

Thank u.

Yes, am below 24 and i appreciate ur contribution

Onyeka64:
1. Girls love bad guys 2. You are not successful yet. Cos girls love successful guys. 3. She doesn't love you yet. She simple using u as a counsellor

Thank u.

My ex still gives me some pussy whenever i'm konjified and there's no one to help. She's rescued me so many times from the cold hands of Konji. If not for her konji for kill me the other day, i for no reach new year...She's a good gal, a sisterkeeper if that would suffice.

Abortions:
My ex still gives me some pussy whenever i'm konjified and there's no one to help. She's rescued me so many times from the cold hands of Konji. If not for her konji for kill me the other day, i for no reach new year...She's a good gal, a sisterkeeper if that would suffice.

he or She , Are you a lesbian or just confused ?

Abortions:
My ex still gives me some pussy whenever i'm konjified and there's no one to help. She's rescued me so many times from the cold hands of Konji. If not for her konji for kill me the other day, i for no reach new year...She's a good gal, a sisterkeeper if that would suffice.

Lol. A fact well stated sarcastically. Thank u