I have been with Rachael for some years now and i love her dearly. Even though i wasn't around most times i would suck some activities over to call or even visit her.

It came as a surprise when she first lied to me that she lost her virginity as a result of rape forcefully by her daddy's friend. About a year later after that lie, she told me she lost her virginity to her ex boyfriend. The point of the matter is, up till now, she still sees the guy and even go to his place most times. I confirmed this from a friend and when i asked her, she confessed to it and promised to change but she didn't.

Have been a sucker for Rachael and seriously, i wanted our relationship to work. I tried all i could but she was only making things hell for me. She lies, she cheats and she pretends. I know i haven't been a saint myself, but i have tried. I have tried to be a responsible boyfriend.

Just when i was so fed up, a new girl came in and she wasn't as stressful as Rachael. She loves me according to her standard and i appreciate her every effort even with little effort from my side.

So, right now i want to make a decision. If i should persist with Rachael or settle down with my new girl.

Advise needed.

no man is perfect, do the 2 of them and save urslf the trauma

kids n relationships...

Whichever rocks your boat! go for it!!

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I have been with Rachael for some years now and i love her dearly. Even though i wasn't around most times i would suck some activities over to call or even visit her.

It came as a surprise when she first lied to me that she lost her virginity as a result of rape forcefully by her daddy's friend. About a year later after that lie, she told me she lost her virginity to her ex boyfriend. The point of the matter is, up till now, she still sees the guy and even go to his place most times. I confirmed this from a friend and when i asked her, she confessed to it and promised to change but she didn't.

Have been a sucker for Rachael and seriously, i wanted our relationship to work. I tried all i could but she was only making things hell for me. She lies, she cheats and she pretends. I know i haven't been a saint myself, but i have tried. I have tried to be a responsible boyfriend.

Just when i was so fed up, a new girl came in and she wasn't as stressful as Rachael. She loves me according to her standard and i appreciate her every effort even with little effort from my side.

So, right now i want to make a decision. If i should persist with Rachael or settle down with my new girl.

Advise needed.

what a lucky man u are to have keys to heaven n hell .... we all know heaven is better