Na this one be the lockdown proper. This governor now want make anybody come take bribe open the border again

This lady has lost her humanity and brazenly enlists other less-informed innocent ladies into her abject chronic spinsterhood. Her worst victimization is that she is ungodly! She has nothing good for the humanity that gave life to her. Too unfortunate!

In what significant way has this experience and the special favour Baba enjoyed from God impacted in his administration as a head of state for the second time? I always cry when I see people who benefited so much from divine mercy laugh at the society by this kind of empty story. OBJ didn't ensure justice and fair play as a head of state. He did not take any extra measure to enthrone good governance to protect the underdogs of the society. He, by this singular experience is most favoured to be like Mandela in Nigeria. It is well anyway.

Violence against any person is wrong.
If you know your husband has predominant disposition to violence, don't dare him. Most often violence comes when the other squares up issues. Manage situations to stay alive. No amount of sympathy will recompense for getting hurt. No amount of punishment to the violator will undo the damage suffered. There are less dispute resolution approaches one can adopt to get going. Play safe to stay alive.

Mr Peter Obi was merely being figurative in that expression. This does not call for any literal interpretation. Anyone who knows the man cannot deny his sense of conservative economy. Above all, his performance as a state governor was quite above average. One cannot deny that he raised Anambra State to a higher pedestal generally. Till tomorrow, he can talk with his head very high in any forum or platform. I can't resist admiring his sense of humour even with his shrill feminine audition.

"I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner.

In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our heads not our hearts.

It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline; because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you. Self control will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going.

With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings and is the great arsenal that do destroy those unhelpful impulses.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there; but that can only last for just the first 3 - 6 months of the relationship.

After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped and it's now your responsibility to make the relationship work, not love's responsibility.

Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence.

On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment.

Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.

That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream.

It's always tough. At some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together. You can scale through the trying times by staying focused and committed.

The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong and be self disciplined.

Please imbibe and share with the young adults, married and unmarried couples.

"I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner.

In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our heads not our hearts.

It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline; because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you. Self control will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going.

With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings and is the great arsenal that do destroy those unhelpful impulses.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there; but that can only last for just the first 3 - 6 months of the relationship.

After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped and it's now your responsibility to make the relationship work, not love's responsibility.

Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence.

On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment.

Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.

That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream.

It's always tough. At some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together. You can scale through the trying times by staying focused and committed.

The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong and be self disciplined.

Please imbibe and share with the young adults, married and unmarried couples.

The presentation and distortion of facts in the story say much about the credibility. As a result, I look at the issue purely from a human background.
The saying, no man is an island, is not an Igbo or African saying. Every society acknowledges it. Therefore anyone who isolates himself from his kith and kin remains on his own. No one should blame others for what someone willfully bargained for himself. It is only a lesson for the living. What makes you an Igbo man or a Yoruba man isn't just blood. You must be identified with the group.
It is a statement of truism that Anambra people have a very high sense of value and respect for human person, nay, human life just like the Igbo people in general and every sane human society.
Incredible and depraved posts as this can at best betray the human propensities of their authors than detract the Anambra people.

Quite a pity but I guess it's time to mend rather than continuing.

Well, the whole story sounds dirty. But I pick the husband as the prime suspect. He knew so many shady deals about his wife and did nothing all this time. Is his brain pap? Does he not have any atom of pride about his marriage or reputation as a man? He has even heard the hint that he was wanted to be snuffed out as a means to reap his assets and he has done nothing serious except seeking confirmations. What was his reaction to the news of the woman's death and to questions he was asked about his possible suspect. Like some guys talked about motive, the strongest motive to kill the woman resides with the husband whose vineyard has been unrepentantly and flagrantly desacreted. The woman was only a harmless but debased goodtimer that should have been left alive even if divorced to relish her vainglory. Now what has been achieved if not more scandal and trauma for the family for life.

This not a herbal tradefair. Witches in Africa are different from their counterparts in the West. Just hope they will allow us to vote and not bewitch us.

Swiftboy:
GMB you made promises when you overthrew Shagari's government,hope you're not making empty promises like back then. You abused us back then saying we're not disciplined and your uniform men flogged us on the street like dogs...hope you're not here to finish what you started? You became corrupt and power drunk back then one reason why your government was overthrown.You denied freedom to the press hence ruled without being challenged by the opposition. Sir,we want to believe you've changed but you have made dangerous utterance that suggested the contrary and everybody knows word of mouth reveal whats in the heart. We want to believe you can solve common man's problems in Nigeria...we're still waiting for you to tell us how. What do you want to do and how do you want to do it? What will happen if you eventually loose the election? Will there be bloodshed as your supporters did the other time you lost? We have questions needing your answer. Yes we want change but we want to know the type that you're bringing. Some People say you're a BH sponsor,am sure you're not but your comments in the past seems to sympathize with them tho you later comment to the contrary. Sir, President Goodluck's administration is not really the worst in the history of the nation.Infact,some school of taught said if it were not for the BH activities his administration would've been fair to say the least as his Transformation Agenda is showing some reasonable improvement. I never get on train before untill now though its not the fastest there is. Roads are taking shapes amidst other cool stuffs. Well we know the current administration is not the best we can get,so if you're bringing change hope its not only BH you want to stop? We have other sectors as well like corruption and our finances which you fail to deal with before you were overthroned no thanks to general IBB. Sir,I will vote for you if you can answer the common questions we common Nigerians are asking. We even thought its better you dont contest again if you loose this one so that young and vibrant minds can come onboard to chat the course of this nation. Another suggestion of mine is if you dont win,you can as well make your impact felt in the coming administration by giving advice rather than thinking you can only affect the nation only by ruling it. Am sitting on the fence waiting for which one to choose between your change and president GEJ's transformation agenda because I know I have to choose wisely! Thanks.

Old boy, you said it all. People like want a change for the better but the figure of GMB throws up a lot of fears. If only he can retract some of those reckless unstatemanly utterances ascribed to him and then, and very importantly too tame his tongue to be less frivolously exuberant, we can give him a benefit of the doubt. His carriage smacks of deeply entrenched emotions. He should be more interactive to ventilate those emotions that burst out giving him out as less reasonable. This interaction with the Yoruba youths ought to be a national broadcast because he touched on burning issues hanging on his neck. Every Nigerian is interested in knowing his culpability or otherwise but if he thought differently, he could as good stop campaigning and wait for his election. We earnestly deserve a good change that will detribalise Nigeria!

It remains ironical but true. Such parents use force to get their children go to church as a necessary good but the overtime effect on such children is very often a development of aversion to going to church. Children should be encouraged, not forced to go to church. They should be made through any other means to see going to church as a pleasurable experience to indulge in. This will engender in them an inner desire to want to go church even outside their parents purview. They won't begin to see going to church as doing their parents bidding. It might not be easy on the start but once achieved, it remains a healthy habit.

That is a story for their new world. It doesn't make sense here any more

There is nothing particularly wrong in a maid serving the man of the house, except the maid is subhuman. They all eat the same food from the same pot.
Again, it depends on the man's moral strength. Any man who derails because his maid serves his meals can do worse things outside and still get at the maid if he desires her irrestibly.
Unless again, the man can't pay his bills in which case he can equally torchlight a neighbour's vineyard