Justbehave:
And those ones abandoning their new born babies in the trash bins are not mother's abi?

I think he already said 'normal mum's,

Wahala no dey finish.

Congrats

Gerrard59:


Please some questions;

- Which foreign country?
- What did you study?
- When did you graduate?
- What is your age range?
- Did you apply for jobs? If yes, in Nigeria or the foreign country? If any, how many?
- How many aptitude tests have you written? How many did you ace? How many interviews did you get called for?

It is your prerogative to answer them, but these questions are pertinent to understand what the issue could be.

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I wish he answers these questions.

Omg!!

I was so emotional watching that video.

There's hunger in the land.
The Govt created this menace called poverty.
But what surprises me is that, some of the folks who have the privilege to take the bag of rice didn't want to share it with their fellow.

It's disheartening..

elonize:
instead get property n more cash... But if u look at it.its not abt d parents but they want a secure future for their children's children. Ntin sure pass like dis

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Even such people can still afford a better life for their kids in Nigeria. They can afford a better school, a better house and sometimes travel abroad for vacation. Those people don't really need Japa.

elonize:
if one has good pay job, dey av a house,dey r doing very well.dey dont need abroad

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Exactly what I explained there. Such people can explore rather than Japa...

Can you explain in details here, pls?

OboOlora:
They know most yorubas don’t understand English 🤣

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Really ?

Are you sure of this ?

Jman06:
Develop a country where my vote doesn't count You shouldn't expect patriotism from Nigerians after rigging elections and forcing yourselves on the people. It doesn't work that way!

A country where people beg and bribe just so they can have a job is not worth any iota of patriotism. Go to the West and you see job boards established by goverment to ensure everybody is working and contributing to economic growth while in Nigeria, getting a job is a prayer point!

Nigerian leaders are not yet ready to make the country workable. When they're ready they'll do the needful. For now, Nigerians who have the opportunity to japa should not hesitate to do so.

Exactly...
At the bolded, getting a job is a prayer point in 9ja. What amazes me most is that, it's not yet done on some people that Nigerian govt are demonic, and they've failed in doing their duty.

It's a crazy World here.

Migration is part of our existence,
And this isn't the first time migration will be happening in Nigeria...
Even in the Bible, people migrate..


But oftentimes, we do complain and let me say we don't know the exact thing that we want.
We complain a much. The fact is no country will even give you 100% of what you want. It's impossible. 9ja no even reach 50%..

What exactly do you want ?
What are you looking for ?
Why do you want to Japa?
What's your motive for japaing?

But just like what happened to Naomi in the Bible, she left her present place because of famine in her land. Her husband died and she also lost her two sons but later came back home with one of her son's wife.

The fact still remains that, people travel for various reasons and however, you can't discourage them once they make up their mind especially when they're desperate.

The most important thing is to know the exact thing you want and why you want to Japa and not just following the Japa syndrome.

Honestly, there's suffering and hardship in Nigeria. If you're doing fine , thank God for your life and the privilege.

The numbers of unemployed graduates in the land are umpteen and keep on increasing. Many atrocities; debauchery, rituals, frauds killing to justify the state of the nation.

For graduates to learn reasonable skills, you'll still need money to do that.
It's so hard even as a graduate to breakthrough unless there's a strong Grace and God's favour upon your life in this nation.

If you're still struggling in this country especially as a graduate and you've the opportunity to travel out, pls do. As long as you going with the right motive, as long as you know why you're going.
Pls, do and work out your ass over there to save up.

But if you're already doing fine here, with some carer achievements, earning good salary , plus job security and other benefits, I don't think at this moment you really need it except you're going there for various reasons. You can be going there based on vacation and exploration.


But selling your houses, properties, closing down your businesses all in the name of Japa, I think it's better to think twice.


If I've the opportunity and the resources today, I'll Japa for the right motive.
I'm fed up and I already gave up on this nation.


For the God factor, it's important you pray for directions if truly your success is in japa.
Naomi in the bible regretted her move ...

TheGift:
They are telling you people from experience but you won't hear. So go and see for yourself.

For those asking why they don't come back, some do, but many don't because they can't. They sold everything to Japa. There is nothing to come back to. But bills from
People who expect that they should have become multi millionaires in Naira, by now.

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This is one of the reasons why people should think twice before japa.

I can't sell my house, cars, and other properties to Japa. No!

Atleast, if I've my 🏠 and car that means I'm still doing a little bit better I just need to double my hustle.

We've gotten BRT in Oyo State.

peacwoods:


I had my interview with them yesterday. And I have been accepted into the program. The acceptance mail came in minutes after the virtual interview.

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Have you received success mail?

@Cedar, your digit isn't on whatsapp

Eriokanmi:
You may not know the problem they're facing in their closet. Remember success isn't only measured by how rich you are. What of health? I had a boss back in the days. He's late now. He was so rich and popular. If I mention his name here, many would know him. He had his house in ikoyi. Each time buhari visited lagos in those days before dreaming of being president, he'd lodge in my boss house. He rarely used hotels.

After a brief vigil one night, I fell in a short trance and I saw him in his office. He was full of life. His friends came to visit him. He was laughing out loud at their jokes...he was a humorous man too. So there was this woman, who was busy squeezing his body and some fluids were dripping down inside an old calabash from his bor. I didn't see the face of that woman, she turned her back at me. I woke up suddenly. I had left his company for another one by then but I narrated what I saw to a close colleague who was still working there. He said well, I wish I could tell my boss to be careful but you know these rich people naw, they don't count such things. He was dating one lady then who was known to us.

About 3 months after that revelation, that colleague called me and said his boss was sick. I asked what happened and he said he had leukaemia. Leukaemia is cancer of the blood. He was flown abroad. When he was about coming back home, he died there. I was shocked. Leukemia attacks white blood cells and these are the infection fighters in the body. Once these cells are overpowered by the cancer( leukaemia) cells, wahala don happen be dat. Sadly, it has no cure. So, those still engaging in a lustful act today may not know what will become of them any moment

Wow!

Thanks for sharing this.

I've learnt something.

Dtruthspeaker:


They do not prosper forever. Keep watching them you would see that their lives must change to a horrible miserable one even if they are still rich.

You will see that they are never happy, they can never have good marrisges, and they always frustrated.

That is how their curse wouof look like. If it is not poverty, then it is this one.

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Nice perspective!!

tasalanoni:

I'll attempt to answer this question soon.
I won't be able to exhaust it in a few sentences

Alright

Eriokanmi:
It's a deep spiritual thing. Sex is a powerful tool used by the devil to destroy the lives of many generations today. Just go outside OP, and see the way many great talents are wasting away cos of common 5 minuts enjoyment. Many great stars had become dim.

Both fluids of the parties engaging in it are involved, you share in each other's spiritual problems, bondage and DNAs when you sleep with some women/men...you can now imagine how many problems you're putting on your bead, doing this.

A friend who once flourished in his business suddenly became bankrupt. He couldn't tell how those monies were disappearing. If machineries don't brake down today, it's a brand new equipment breaking down tomorrow and he always spent huge amount, fixing them. The moment he said bye to sexual sin, everything was restored and he recovered all. This also happens to females who indulge it it. I met a lady sometime ago, who confided in me some of her life issues, including that of health. She could sleep with a min of 2 different guys in a week. She said something shocking...she said the money was never enough and she couldn't even know what she was spending the money being paid on.

If you're flourishing and you just want to put your success to test, just indulge in sexual sin. You'd see everything vanish before your very eyes. Even strange illness that has never hit you before would just walk in.

Despite my profession, I can't remember the last time I put ordinary paracetamol into my mouth. Live holy, though seems hard, but you'd definitely see its reward

Profound!

But my question is, how about those who indulge in it and yet, they're still prosperous. They're progressing in career, academics etc.

What do you think?

Jalingo in the news ?

Just hearing them for the very first time.

Most people do say that to succeed in life, you need to go out from your comfort zone ? But the question is, is there any comfort zone if you're born in a struggling family?

Of course, it's good to take a bold step. However, I'll advise you to stick to that 80k job in sokoto. Abuja or Lagos you're going to, you've not gotten the job, yet. Imagine if you resign and move to Abuja and Lagos without any Job; it will be frustrating and disastrous.

I don't know what you desire ?

But I'll still advise you stick to that 80k for now.


It's not easy out there if you don't get a stable income.

I've been surviving on my Freelancing Skills..

Pls don't lose your job ooo

After praying, if you can afford therapy/counselling session, pls do.

Bless you!

isabi2lof:
Thanks dear, his background affected him , he's from a divorced home , I know it's not his fault but at the same time, it was weighing me down , the father gave us tough time , we persuaded him for two years before he finally came to see us , even that same day , he was using his son weakness to talked down on him in front of everyone..

I just wish him all the best ..

I know he's from a dynsfunctional family.
Pls, move on.
Wish you all the best...

isabi2lof:


Alpha male and feminist stuffs especially here on NL will do more harm than good in the nearest future ..

Honestly, if someone has told me before, that I will still be single by now , I will say it's a lie , cos to me , I thought I was in a committed relationship but then life happens..

I literally saw those red flags , should I say I was being naive then or I was thinking it was true love , even if he's coming back with private jet to marry me now ,I don't want to ever end up with him , I was traumatized in that relationship,to the extent my family was like I'm the one forcing myself on him , someone that's older than me with good eight years , during those period , I wasn't finding anything interesting ..

What pains me the most was that , he made me look foolish in the eyes of my family, cuz the more I was covering up for him , the more he was exposing his weakness to them to crown it all , he doesn't listen to advice..

The truth is that I was ready to be with him despite knowing his weakness, he's this kind of person that , you must tell him what to do before he will actually knows what to do ,once I decided not to say or do anything, this guy will stay like that , without moving an inch .. .it gets to point, I was like , it seems I'm the man in this relationship, and that's not what I need , I actually want my man to lead why I follow..

Oh! So pathetic.

However, I think you need to be healed. You need a therapy/counselling session.
Your past experience would affect your imminent relationship; if you're planning to go into a new one.


I understand that a man is the head. A man should have that leadership traits in a relationship/Marriage.

A man should be a Priest, father and a husband.

But from what you've just explained, it's possible that his background; the way he's brought up has affected that Manly trait in him hence, it affects his relationship and turned to his weakness.

Apparently, we're two imperfect beings coming together to be perfect. Therefore as a result of this, we need to work on ourselves first before thinking of going into a relationship/Marriage.

I hope you heal soon.

Congrats

Dammie199:
Good evening house.... please I need a teaching job around Basorun, idi ape, akobo and gate axis in Ibadan.....I can teach computer science, data processing and basic science

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Check your area first what do you observe?

Do a feasibility study !

jackmrandy:


could be

I don't get you