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gigfx:
I sold my house and everything to Japa and I am not regretting it. Thanks to my wife that have good foresight. I know how much I pay on school fees alone in Nigeria while here school is free for my kids, I only pay for food £12 per week.

While in Nigeria before the month end like this, I am already looking for who to borrow money from to fuel car to go to work.

Within 6 months I know how much I don safe here in the UK despite working part time oo because of the kids, If I wan build another house for Nigeria I can do it but I won't.

For you to know how terrible things are in Nigeria, if I tell my 5 years old daughter that we are going back to Nigeria. She will start begging me that daddy no oo am not going I like it here.

Honestly, Nigeria has been damaged beyond reparation.


Though migration is part of human existence, however, the question we should ask ourselves is if 9ja is good to live in, why are many people travelling out?


Why don't we have Americans, British, begging for our visa ?

Governors working remotely? 😂

sheddyboy01:
You are completely okay.

The problem is not that you can't speak in public

The real stuff you need to work on is your self image;

Chances are that, you are a perfectionist

You are too serious on yourself,, life is too short, leave room for mistakes, take a time to laugh at yourself

You feel mistakes are bad, and you want to be as perfect as anything

Again you value people's opinion more than yours

Self-love is a struggle for you, work on it, true love is letting people including yourself and things be the way they are while acknowledging the fact that you are a work in progress

I would recommend the following book;

✓7 habits of highly effective people

✓The four agreements

✓Spiritual solutions to all problem by Wayne Dyer

You've said it all.

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lavylilly:
Eyah sorry, what's the update now

I'm managing somewhere...


It's not good to be idle..

morethanletterswriting@gmail.com

Toorh

L.. lol..

Haas

Lol...


I don't think it's what we think

eteebanky:
None

All the first class baggers I know all secure scholarship in short period of time to further their studies abroad

From 2nd class below, na on God ooo

Go hustle lazy youth, stop looking for white collar job

Rich and well connected people will and always secure the meagre slots in civil service, nothing for the poor Man

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You've made your point.

First class you know.

It doesn't mean there are no first class that aren't jobless..


You saying 'go hustle lazy youth'
I think the OP is only seeking for help and it doesn't mean he's lazy.

Meerahbel:
for someone looking for a job?

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It's not funny ooo.


Job searching is a job on its own...

sacajawea:
Very Few... very, very few

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Yes, very few..

Meerahbel:
if they refuse virtual interview, it san indication that they are archiac and stick with old ways of doing things.

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Exactly.

Most job seekers can't even afford cab fare for the interviews.

It's not easy.

I think it's also important that recruiters should employ virtual interview..

sacajawea:
Rare to see 1st class Graduates complaining of no Job, or poor Jobs...
What does that mean?

You mean there are no first class graduates jobless?

Toorh

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Long post..
Confused!

Something must happen.

They're recruitment agency.

They also recruit for banks based on contract. They'll definitely collect some amounts on your salary as agent fee..

Hm....

Like seriously

Rostikol:
IT IS ALL DEBT.

He is paying a mortgage on the house and most likely paying monthly hire purchase bill on the Merc.

Technically, these things are not 'his'.

You don't even need to be a doctor to access these loans in those countries.

Even taxi drivers, plumbers, and electricians can show this picture of themselves ''living large'' on debt.

Yes, you're right.

Atleast it would've been better if we can have such system here.

Houses, cars are basic needs; it shouldn't be for only the rich alone just like we've it here in 9ja.

Nigeria system has limited our mindset to the extent that we see all those things as achievements and success, thereby going to churches for testimony.

An ordinary cleaner can afford those things in abroad.

Location and our mindset can make us view success in different ways.

Emekaonline:
This is what you would expect Fake pastor Eneche to focus on. This is part of his flock but instead he will be focusing on politics as if that was his calling. Under him a good woman and excellent gospel singer suffered domestic violence leading to her death but all such sad occurrence will not bother him but politics. What a shame!

Was Pastor Eneche the cause of her domestic violence? Did the deceased speak out? Was she ready to be helped? Did she speak out and the Church authority refused to help her ?

And as regards this Building Collapse, hanky-panky could have happened underneath from the Engineer.

But was the pastor the only one in the building?

Emekaonline:
This is what you would expect Fake pastor Eneche to focus on. This is part of his flock but instead he will be focusing on politics as if that was his calling. Under him a good woman and excellent gospel singer suffered domestic violence leading to her death but all such sad occurrence will not bother him but politics. What a shame!

Was Pastor Eneche the cause of her domestic violence? Did the deceased speak out? Was she ready to be helped? Did she speak out and the Church authority refused to help her ?

And as regards this Building Collapse, hanky-panky could have happened underneath from the Engineer.

But was the pastor the only one in the building?

So this things also happen there?

But the funniest thing is that, some people in Africa try to ignore it and claimed it's doesn't exist; there's no spirit realm.


The spirit realm is real.

The question is, is Adeboye the problem of Nigeria?


Some Nigerians are hypocrites.
The same people that are shouting that Adeboye should curse; say something about politics, are the same people that will shun any Man of God for interfering into Nigerian Politics and tell them to mind their Church work.


If all the Men of God in 9ja starts cursing all the politicians, would that be a panacea to the menace on ground?

Channel your anger and grief to the right place. That's if the demons and evil you called politicians will listen.

@OP, ignore those that are fond of insulting people on this platform.

Back to your question, I experienced similar thing during my service year. But the most important thing is that, don't quit now if you don't have alternative Job at hand to take care of yourself.


During my service year, after school I don't involve in any extra activities; be it school lesson or anything related to school.

I don't even like having conversation with the school proprietor. Mostimes, I greet him and any attempt to create a conversation, I ignore immediately.

He only cares about his school growth. He'll overused you once he noticed that You've potentials.

You said you teach his kids on Saturday and Sundays, you caused this. You should've told him that you've something important you do on Sats and Sundays.

Pls, don't give him a smiling face at all till you get another place. The grass isn't always greener at the other side.
Most of these school proprietors behave like demigods. Go to Ogun State, you'll understand better. . Don't allow him to use you.


I'd have advised you to talk to him as regards the incessant calls but na 9ja we dey, only few reason properly like human being..