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Lildav:abeg. send me the details to fabunmi.emmanuel@gmail.com thanks |
valemtech:Can I still apply but base in Ibadan? |
femside:Which one exactly do you want me to give you? |
dominique:Just subscribe and start browsing. It works on any device because it's Android plan. |
cocolovey:Hmmmmmm. But will they get me a good job? |
mtstyle:Pls is there any other vacancy available in the company? I know Jetheight office, I will submit my CV after I am back from Service next month. |
How Prepared Are You For Marriage ![]() The alarming rate of divorce cases is no longer news. A wedding today and divorce in barely 3months, some for what the society would say just manage to stay put in the marriage, while they die in silence. People are taught to be good spouses, but not how to be wise spouses. Statements like: he/she is perfect for me makes most people forget they are married to humans and not angels. When the challenges of marriage beckons, we here things like: he's a totally changed person since I married him, she's not who she portrayed to be before I married her, etc. Again I ask: how prepared are you for marriage? A lot of people get into marriage only to discover they weren't half prepared for marriage as they felt, even with all the marriage books they read and counselling attended. A woman is prepared for divorce once her husband cheats, but doesn't prepare to see help him not cheat. A man is prepared to throw his wife out once she cheats but never prepares to see his wife doesn't cheat. No one thinks about: what if my spouse changes in a negative way, how do I deal with it? What if they start nagging, how do I manage it? Preparing for the sweetness of marriage without preparing for the challenges is a sign of immaturity. Life is not an express way, there's are bumps, turns and hold ups that you must prepare for? When a friend of mine wanted to Wed his wife, I asked him : what if this your very quiet wife becomes a tigress tomorrow, what will you do, he quickly said : God forbid? A year later, he's running helter-skelter looking for how to deal with a nagging wife.... I did my best for him, still. Preparing for marriage amongst other things entails : 1) preparing for these person's new habits 2) characters 3) personalities that will evolve over the years. A ọnce sexually active spouse could become less interested in sex, how will you cope with it? A once dotting spouse might get laid back, what will you do? Your very trusting spouse could become extremely suspicious, how will you deal with it without loosing your marriage or peace of mind? Are you prepared for an absentee spouse? Are you prepared for delay in conception? Are you prepared for in laws? Are you prepared for annoying friends and relatives of your other half? People grow up, and change in certain ways, are you ready to face these physical, psychological, emotional and attitudinal changes that comes with it. Are you prepared for when they start listening to third parties? And when they start comparing you to their Exs and friends' spouses? Preparing for the big day and living together is not enough, it's just a little of it all, a very little. A successful single life is not one spent just on getting a job job, building a career or business and grooming yourself as a good spouse, but also spent preparing for a successful marital phase. |
How Prepared Are You For Marriage ![]() The alarming rate of divorce cases is no longer news. A wedding today and divorce in barely 3months, some for what the society would say just manage to stay put in the marriage, while they die in silence. People are taught to be good spouses, but not how to be wise spouses. Statements like: he/she is perfect for me makes most people forget they are married to humans and not angels. When the challenges of marriage beckons, we here things like: he's a totally changed person since I married him, she's not who she portrayed to be before I married her, etc. Again I ask: how prepared are you for marriage? A lot of people get into marriage only to discover they weren't half prepared for marriage as they felt, even with all the marriage books they read and counselling attended. A woman is prepared for divorce once her husband cheats, but doesn't prepare to see help him not cheat. A man is prepared to throw his wife out once she cheats but never prepares to see his wife doesn't cheat. No one thinks about: what if my spouse changes in a negative way, how do I deal with it? What if they start nagging, how do I manage it? Preparing for the sweetness of marriage without preparing for the challenges is a sign of immaturity. Life is not an express way, there's are bumps, turns and hold ups that you must prepare for? When a friend of mine wanted to Wed his wife, I asked him : what if this your very quiet wife becomes a tigress tomorrow, what will you do, he quickly said : God forbid? A year later, he's running helter-skelter looking for how to deal with a nagging wife.... I did my best for him, still. Preparing for marriage amongst other things entails : 1) preparing for these person's new habits 2) characters 3) personalities that will evolve over the years. A ọnce sexually active spouse could become less interested in sex, how will you cope with it? A once dotting spouse might get laid back, what will you do? Your very trusting spouse could become extremely suspicious, how will you deal with it without loosing your marriage or peace of mind? Are you prepared for an absentee spouse? Are you prepared for delay in conception? Are you prepared for in laws? Are you prepared for annoying friends and relatives of your other half? People grow up, and change in certain ways, are you ready to face these physical, psychological, emotional and attitudinal changes that comes with it. Are you prepared for when they start listening to third parties? And when they start comparing you to their Exs and friends' spouses? Preparing for the big day and living together is not enough, it's just a little of it all, a very little. A successful single life is not one spent just on getting a job job, building a career or business and grooming yourself as a good spouse, but also spent preparing for a successful marital phase. |
rothomkri:I will be glad If call upon. |
rothomkri:The first email is bouncing back but have send my CV to the second email and I guess is yours. Pls, help me look into it. I am going to be through with NYSC few weeks from now. Pls, I got all requirements for the job and also have some experiences in supervisory job. I am living in Ibadan as well. I will be glad if they consider me for this position. Thanks. |
rothomkri:Thanksssss |
rothomkri:Pls how can I submit my CV because I am not in IB right now but based there. No Email that I can submit through? I will be glad if you can help? |
SEX and VIRGINITY SEX IS SWEET BUT... Have you ever wondered why God carefully positioned a membrane of blood in a lady’s sexual opening? It is a thiny membrane that partially or completely covers the opening of the vagina. It is called the “HYMEN”. Why would God- Our Maker put a breakable tissue full of blood at the very door of the sexual opening of the female? Why is it so carefully placed at that entrance, like a ribbon tied at the entrance of a new house about to be launched? Why is it filled with blood that spills away when it is broken? Why? Without doubt, the HYMEN IS A GATE! It was God (our creator) who set that blood- filled vessel there as a covenant blockage, a sign and a token of a covenant between the bearer and whoever plunges into her opening. Before God, the disvirginity of a lady is not a casual act of fun. It is a serious covenant struck and confirmed by the blood shed on that day. This is God’s way of saying, “Whoever plunges into this woman shall only be able to do so by making a blood covenant to be joined to her for the rest of his life, from that point onward. Little wonder why sexual intercourse was designed by God to take place only and only after the marriage contract is sealed. The one who made the body (the hormones, organs, nerves, tissues, e.t.c)God said it in clear terms, the body is not for fornication”. Anyone who chooses to use the body for fornication must know that he/ she is working directly against God’s plan and there would definitely be a consequence either now or at old age!There is a spiritual bonding, a supernatural process that takes place in a lady’s heart to the first guy that enters in to her especially at that particular time when the hymen breaks. There is no covenant without blood: this is why the membrane contains enough of it. As a matter of fact, what happens the first time a lady has sex is not just sex but an immersion and a bathing of the man with her hymen blood to initiate a covenant that is highly recognized in the spirit realm of both light and darkness! The first time this happens just marks her opening day covenant ceremony and each subsequent experience goes on to further refresh or strengthen that covenant or establish another version of it with another person. Many have washed useless boys with that hymen-blood. Many have struck irreversible covenants with men that have nothing to do with their destiny. Many have shared that hymen blood in sexual activity with demon-possessedmen while some others have struck such precious covenants with candle sticks as they exercised sex with it. If only they knew,many girls who carelessly allowed themselves to be disvirgined in a bid to be among the so called “big girls” would never have done so. Then let me say it in clear terms: “Or do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot (through sexual activity) is one with her ? This is why many girls are not yet married yet their spiritual composition is already shattered and imbalanced, because they have mingled their souls with that of different men. Dear Singles,know today that there is a definite proportion of your virtue that leaves you each time a man enters into you and when that man leaves you, he leaves with it. Just imagine how much of yourself would be lost each time a man enters into you without any properly signed marriage bond or contract. Sex is a spiritual affair. A giving of yourself to another. All of these things have strong and terrible spiritual implications. A broken hymen opens you up to the spirit of the man that broke it, any other spirit whatsoever that may have mingled with that man’s spirit, those who have mingled theirs with him and the spirit of any other man that enters into you thereafter. The fun part is that pre- marital sex is not funny at all. What happens between the lines could be deadly and dangerous. The very first day a lady, or a man does that there will be spiritual transfer of destiny. The sin of fornication gives demons and occultic people direct access into your God's given destiny. So guys,zip up! Girls wise up!! It doesn't matter but it matters a lot. BIG THINGS COME FROM LITTLE THINGS WE DO!!! I know a soul has been touched today, remain blessed! And for those who have lost it may the Mercy and Grace of God find you to sin no more. |
pucelle:Thank sis |
STFUareyouGod:Hmmmmmm. Give them brain naaa? |
Synzu:Sarewagba kini? |
‘He dumped me’ is most commonly used words after ‘I love you’ from ladies. Statements like ‘After what I’ve done for him, he still dumped me.’ I pity some ladies who have invested their Bodies, Souls, Time, Money, and Energy in relationships/ marriages and at the end, everything still crumbled. The question is ‘what went wrong?’ Sincerely, women are more devoted than men in both relationship/marriage but they got little appreciations back from boyfriends/Husbands. Nobody is perfect but something can be done better. The word ‘He dumped me’ makes me feel terrible when a lady is explaining her ordeal in her current or previous relationship. Which prompt me to do little write up on this topic. The problem he dumped me starts the day you lose your value and respect to a man. We all know that “No matter how you satisfied your Boyfriend with Sex, it doesn’t me he loves you or ready to marry you. Knowing your stand in a relationship really matters a lot. As far as you are not raped, or forced to do something, it means you did it willingly and intentionally. For example, sex is pleasure for both parties, as far as you enjoy it together, everything is equal. So, you are not dumped. Sometimes as well, men are being used and dumped also. Dear ladies, being single doesn’t mean you are cursed or have spiritual problem. Have standard and taste! There is difference between ‘Pride and Proud’. Don’t start a relationship you don’t feel secured, appreciated, respected, and valued. These things mentioned are easy to know in a relationship but only for matured minds. Love is a beautiful thing, but the probability of falling in love and being jilted is 50/50. So, don’t think you can just fall in love without being hurt or have broken heart. That is why some women are highly appreciated in the society; they get out of problem that can weigh them down easily. Mentality does it better! I urge our ladies, be fit and mentally ready before going into any relationship. No crime in waiting or being patience. Age is not maturity but age is important in achieving a goal and target. Very hard to see or hear our so called Billionaire children love life. They code it and marry from their elites circle. Women are one of the most beautiful creatures from God that is why they can be deceived, jilted and dumped because they mostly have weak hearts. It pains me the way our men treats our women and at the same time, our women causes some parts of those problems. Prayer is the master key! Before going to any pastor, Alfa or Herbalist for consultations about who to marry and about your marriage, kneel down in the corner of your room and pray to God for what you want. God don’t leave his own people during difficult periods. Even God still answers sinner’s prayer. Everything is about your heart. You can’t be dumbed if you don’t use yourself anyhow or you leave yourself anyhow to be used. Let your dignity be intact. I do tell some ladies that, if you have standard, is not anyhow man that will come your way. In African mentality; a lady must not achieve up to her man which is totally wrong. Achieve more, don’t limit yourself. Stand out from others and see the kind of men that will approach you. Use yourself very well and feel good. Don’t look up to a man before you feed and cloth yourself.......Respect number 1. Don’t stay idle, work no matter how that salary is, big or small.......Respect number 2. Don’t dress anyhow; decency sometime brings trust and value........Respect number 3. Don’t turn to sex slave/machine, to satisfy him..........Respect number 4. Something try to force him to fast and pray together.........Respect number 5. Have a plan together both personal and collectively...........Respect number 6. Don’t rush him to marry you..... Respect number 7. Early in the morning, pray for him on phone if you not together.........Respect number 8. Let your yes be yes and your no be no........Respect number 9. Be understandable enough to understand situations.........Respect number 10. GOD BLESS OUR HUSTLE! #fabem |
benedictuyi:Yes. |
rushman003:fabunmi.emmanuel@gmail.com |
CzarRex:Thanks |
winningwinner:it is not all airtel sims that is eligible for it. It is for selected sims and is called 1+1 offer. Firstly dial those code to know if your eligible before you recharge. |
iamgiggssleaky:I am using the opera mini bundle as well. Pls tell me about that night plans and how I can use it on hotspot with my laptop? Thanks! |
StPete:How is the test like? I couldn't make to the venue. |
pat077:You can see Sagamu from Iwo road. Go to lag park after the bridge. You will see ikorodu/Sagamu, then drop at express and take bike to the hotel. |

