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LilMissFavvy:
You are so full of yourself, pride they say goes before a fall. Imargine you saying you feel a prince should never sleep alone at night, or a prince should never make love skin to skin, nonscence. I am not trying to promote unprotected sex, but your statements are so archaic, primitive, senseless, and full superstition. Grow up.

If at 30yrs, you feel you are too young to keep a fiancee and marry within the 2yrs interval she gave you, then it means you have planned your life to marry in old age, so be it.

As for the lady, yes, the two of you are compatible, and probably in love, as a smart girl, she is ready to leave you if you cannot make a decision within two years. In two years time you will be 32, I wonder how marriage can stop you from achiveing your dreams. Atimes couple's need a little space to clear their their head in relationships, it is not wise to call off the relationship now.

. Sorry about my past, I am not proud of it. I have friends and family members who influence me when I was much younger but I am a change person. I gladly marry her in two years, hope my financial goals will yield results. Thanks for your advice.

cococandy:
My advice to both of you if y’all are for real would be to figure out what you want to do with your lives first. And see if you both fit into each other’s life goals.
If not, don’t let any opportunities to find suitable partners pass you by. But not before you’ve done your best to make it work.

You’re both in a rut so to say. OP at 30 doesn’t know exactly what he wants to do and the girl is right to be worried. Baby girl while still young at 25 doesn’t mean you’re not mature enough to have stuff figured nor does it mean that you have time to wait until you’re older before you start figuring it out.

It’s not necessarily about making a good income (even though that’s important) but it’s also about stability and
a clear cut direction in life.

. I have a clear cut goal in life even before my girl come into the picture. I am the type that draw a plan and ways to fulfill my plan.I went back to school for a reason, I should have just settle for less.

Harlequeen:
Hello everyone,I'm the girl op is talking about.

This is another long epistle

A few months ago I created a thread stating my difficulties finding men and a lot of you had wonderful advice to give To get more background on the matter, you could peep at the thread.

After that thread, I decided to be open minded, and a few weeks later, I met op. We have hit it off, and things happened, and are still happening fast. Also, I am 25 not 30, that must have been a mistake on his part....no biggie

Now on to the matter. I never really expected to meet op. He is a wonderful person. We love each other no doubt. Now the issue is so complex, To be honest, I don't even know what's wrong with me for distancing him like that. This emotional thing is a real hassle

Our relationship is long distance. Op has had experience with something similar, I haven't, and let me tell you. It is hard, very hard.

Also, I think it may have to do with my personality. I can be reserved at times and quite the loner. Also, emotions are not something I am used to. But I do know this. Op is someone who has a similar vision to mine. I just wasn't expecting fate to deal me the card that it did.

Although factormatt6 is determined, he's just starting afresh. One of the fears I have, is building with a man and making sacrifices for a man, and can you blame me? I see a lot of women get burned for trying that and getting discarded. I grew up in a home where I witnessed my parents fall out of love because one sacrificed her dreams to stay at home, get a small job and look after kids. She was so focused on making sure she trained us well, that she was a mother first,while he advanced in his career to put food on the table. Once he started making it. He started seeing his wife as too behind, too fat, too unsophisticated,too histronic for him or to be seen with his stingy ass. I don't hate my dad, but I will call a spade a spade, I also have a cordial relationship with both parents and tired of being a mediator so I left them to fate. They seem happy with their arrangement. Now we are grown up, and she's almost finished with school but she's also getting older. They still stay married because they are used to each other, besides I don't think there's any other woman who would let my dad get away with the BS my dad does like my thick skinned mom. A loveless relationship where they are just flatmates and happy with themselves. Growing up like this has shaped my personality. I told myself that I will not make the same mistake of putting myself on hold for a man, or his children. That's why I'm career oriented. What if something similar happens to me in future. He loves me now, but people always change. What will the future bring?


When I met factormatt6, What shocked me was the fact that he's starting school again, but that will take some years to finish, then he also had to go for his master's and PhD, what if things don't work out as planned, does that mean I'll be feeding a man and being the breadwinner? That's emotionally exhausting. What if I end up being a surrogate mother to a grown ass man? I cannot wish that situation on my enemy. That's why I act cold to him. Op has a mommy complex and I told him to deal with it. He then asked if I could be like a big sister, that sent alarm bells to my head, and we argued about it

So I find myself fighting between my common sense and my heart. I am struggling to convince myself that I am making the right choice. This is in no way his fault.He seems to know this too. It makes me act in ways that makes him feel like I don't trust him. My cold, blunt, introverted and loner nature isn't helping either.

About the matter of an ultimatum, it wasn't really an ultimatum per se. I don't know. One of the first things, I told him was that I only deal with results. So, he needs to put his life in order. I was I won't mind waiting for him for only two years for him to structure his life so that we can both go to my parents and I will not be embarrassed to present him to them. We could then focus on our career and start childbearing when we are more stable. I know he wants to marry me, but I tell him we aren't ready yet. This causes me to put a lot of pressure on him.


I know he's trying and giving it his all, but it seems like I am fighting myself. The battle to not see other people, and keep my options open, he calls me constantly, and I call him at times too, but we can spend 2-3hrs on the phone, and it doesn't help that factormatt6 is a great conversationalist. At times, I just feel like I am not in the mood for conversation but don't want to put it across to him, so as not to hurt his feelings.

Also, Op can be very insecure, It was one of the things I have noticed about him so he can take somethings I say or do personally , he then starts to sulk, so I find myself watching myself so that I don't hurt his feelings . But I also feel like I am in a landmine with him sometimes. He's also an intense person and that scares me, I am more laid back. He can also be a monitoring spirit at times but it's cool.


Then to top it all off, is this terrible lockdown, we try to keep things afloat by chatting a lot. But I find myself feeling drained. I started the lockdown earlier than everyone else and staying at home,leaves me drained. I feel like I don't have the energy anymore to read, chat with him, or even go outside. I find myself feeling heavy. All efforts made by my sisters to make me leave the compound prove abortive. Here I am, unemployed when I am supposed to the working and gathering finances for our visions and I am stuck at home. I am even resenting my family members for taking it so well. My parents still go to work because they are in essential services but I feel useless and just want to be left to myself. I feel like a failure. I'm scared of failing. I'm scared of being poor, and I'm poor right now.

factormatt6 I'm sorry if I made you feel bad for asking for space. I love you. It's not your fault. I'll come round soon. I know the lockdown is affecting him too. I keep arguing with him to make new friends or talk to more people online. But it's hard to do so this lockdown. Guess I am being my paranoid, afraid and unreasonable self as usual. It's not your fault dear. I love you.

. I put too much pressure on you, I take a lot of your time, I am truly sorry. After the lock down, a lot of things will occupy my time. Please bear with me. If you choose to be patience with me, I won't by anyway treat you with any form of disrespect. I truly love you. If you choose to let go,I won't take it personal rather it will help to make me a better person in future.

crackland:
Is she going to read this? Lol..

Okay so the simplest way is effective communication.
You both need to sit down face-to-face and talk. And I don't mean arguing, I mean talk. You give her your own timeline and state the reasons why you would like her to be patient with it - she should not respond when you're talking, only listen.
When you're done, tell her it's her turn to inform you of her own timeline again and state the exact reasons why it is really important for her to get married within that period. You should not respond either, only listen.

The next step is to reach a compromise.
But you have to know that reaching a compromise is not only your responsibility, it is equally hers as well. She must first have it at the back of her mind & understand that she will not get exactly what she wants, you must also have it at the back of your mind & understand that you will not get exactly what you want either.
Once you both have this mindset, half the job is already done.

Now depending on the reasons you both had provided earlier, you can draw up a plan together that will place both of you somewhere with the semblance of a middle ground. Remember this conversation has to involve a whole lot of things - financing, personal goals, educational commitments (if included in the reasons), etc..

None of you should emotionally try to blackmail the other person.
She may feel the urge to tell you that there are men who have been asking her hand in marriage and she has been refusing them because of you - this is emotional blackmail, and is a warning sign.
You may also feel the urge to tell her that there are women who have been offering you their hearts and bodies who are ready to wait for you - this is emotional blackmail too, and is a warning sign.

By the time the conversation is over, there's a very high probability that both of you would have agreed on something IF you were ever truly in love with each other.

. I don't know if I senior you but you are my big brother. Thanks

sassysure:
If u actually see she is an asset.
But why is she forcing you?
Make your enquiry well.
I wouldn't tell you to walk away.
No.
Girls are in constant war when it comes to marriage because of time factor.
Her approach may be wrong.
But,
If u think know u are there to stay, go and do court. It will calm her nerves. Who knows, all her friends at that age are hooking up and she isn't sure of where she is with you.
Also, men are coming, the other voice is there.
Court is cheap. It will keep u 2 focused more.

But u talk like person wey go hard to trust o.
Hmm.

. She is more than an asset but that why I am with her(has met better girl than her before who was ready to do anything for me). We naturally attract to each other. My heart relax any time I am with her.

sassysure:
I have to agree with you on this.
U are right.
She went about it the wrong way.

. I did argue with her and she gave me her reasons. She is a result orientated person. Useful advise on how we can drive our relationship will make sense thanks.

crackland:
Come sef, the girl the OP is talking about is 25yrs old.

Not like that age makes it okay to keep any woman waiting without defining where the relationship is headed. But for someone who feels she needs to be wedded within a specified time, there are much better ways to go about it than using threats and ultimatums.

. Please can you suggest ways to go about it?

yeyeosoronga:
Your wahala is too much.
You're confused about your career choice, you need advise on this
You're confused about your relationship sturvs, you still need advice on this
And you're probably confused about life in general.
Take a break man, and try to figure out your life before bringing someone else on board

Read my write up careful please, I already fashion out a career path.
I am not confused about my relationship. I need advice to know if I should build with my lady or allow out to go while I figure out things for myself. Thanks for your comments

sassysure:
I missed that part

Maybe, I need the food more than you

My submission is still the same for the guy.
As for u, (ishi òkpùkpù) , look for translator
Don't make your woman reach that position or better, go for a woman who can waste away 4 yrs or more without blinking and age is still on her side. Mid twenties.

Though, I will not outrightly tell you to do it today or tomorrow, I will look at your actions, if nothing, I go vamoose

@@op is the type that will disappear
His tone at the beginning summed him up. We still have court marriage.
I did mine with 15k or was it cheaper?
Have forgotten. So cheap. Two or 3 witnesses and court officials and viola, I have fulfilled all righteousness

. Are you suggesting I do court marriage with her,so as to assure her of my commitment?

crackland:
Bruv, I'll be honest with you.

1. If you let her go, you will be doing both of yourselves a huge favour in the long run.
She gets to be with someone who is ready to marry her ASAP, and you get to focus on those things which are more important to you while nurturing another relationship with someone else.

2. If you marry her, you will be doing it as a favour to her because of the attitude she's putting up and not because it's really what you want.
You may grow to resent her because of this somewhere down the line, or you may not and everything will work out fine.

The choice ultimately is yours.

. She just been calm yesterday and today not that she is given me attitude. I just want what is best for both of us. I never resent her rather if she can be patience with me, I respect and value her the more.

crackland:
Giving you two years to get married to her or she walks, is an ultimatum and a threat bruv.

. Funny I did tell her that but my love for her, I over look it. I have history with a lot of ladies, I never believe I could fall in love but with this girl the world can come to a stand still.

cococandy:
Sounds like you need a life coach and/or a mentor.

Very beneficial

. My mentor never support our relationship. He feel it will affect my academic but when I make a strong point,he agreed with me.i also read good books . BTW I don't have friends anymore due to my past life. I don't want to go back to what I left behind. Any good advice here will be useful thanks.

cococandy:
If that’s what you want, then I’m sure you can do it.
There’s no way to know the future for sure.

Besides a good life and good family is a joint effort. So if she wants the same thing, I don’t see what the problem is.
Sit down and outline your goals, the timeline at which you’d love for each goal to be reached and work to support each other. Start small. No one makes it big overnight.

Small wedding, Try not to have kids right away or if you do, space them to avoid too much responsibilities that will weigh you guys down while you’re still trying to find your footing. If she’s committed too, your resources will grow. surely.

. We talk about kid. We intend waiting for the right time. We planning relocating to western country before raising kid. I don't if I am to continue buying and selling stuff or go into IT. I need an advice on this also.

crackland:
Lmao...you dey try

I got 99problems but a bi*** ain't one... - Jay Z
This should be the credo stamped on the forehead of every sensible man when to comes to women they are not married to.
It's probably part of what helped him become the most successful rapper of his time.

Girl problems are just not worth it.

If she wants to walk, she should walk. The last person who gave me a deadline to marry her learnt regrettably that there are some men you just don't give ultimatums to.

I don't think it ultimatum, you know when there is no aim, abuse is inevitable. She doesn't want to joke with her youthful age. She is not desperate though.

cococandy:
Sounds like she’s too good for you.
She knows what she wants but you’re afraid of being responsible and committed.

. Nope. I am fully committed to our relationship. I have had female friend who offer to help with money to boost my business in exchange for sex, I declined because of her. How do I know I will be able to give her a family she deserves and a good life is what is disturbing me.

cococandy:
All the irrelevant details

. Oh I am so sorry. I need a solution to my trouble

Richy4:
You can solve the puzzle if you can identify the reason(s) why she wanted her space. From there every thing will be clear to u like 7UP.

You can even figure out if she can wait for u or not...

. She doesn't say she wants her space, but her actions. Her mum is also engaging her on house chores since yesterday. She accepted waiting for me but she is the type that need result in anything she is doing. I want to take a decision I won't be regretting. I don't want love or relationship to mess me up.

sassysure:
I will ignore the first part of your post.
Not necessary.

The said lady is already 30 yrs and if I were her, I will be worried.
She is aging, fact is she is not sure u will tie the knot with her in the next 2 yrs or more, the other part of her brain is telling her u will ditch her later( don't ever try exonerating yourself here, most guys that did so swore by their dead parents graves) and her chances of starting afresh is slimmer.

Of course she will tell u her parents want her to develop her career but will never tell you that side talk she always have with her mum in the middle of the night.

In Nigeria we have court marriage. U can plan and do that to calm her mind down and u two will continue with whatever u are doing.
She is naturally reacting to circumstances around her of which u are at the middle of it all.
Or,
It could be that a better guy is making a serious move and she want to shake u to know if u are really serious or not.
Still, the 2 instances need open and honest communication backed with doing something tangible for everybody to know she is yours.
Right now, she isn't and is 100% free to make another choice.
So are u.
Goodluck

. I will gladly discuss the court marriage with her, but I don't want to take advantage of her. Secondly she is 25 yrs old

factormatt6:
My story is going to be lengthy, because I need you to understand my situation and offer useful advise. Please pardon any Grammatical error. Help me with advice.
I lost my dad when I was 11, mum take care of me and my education in all possible ways. She die immediately I finished my waec. I have grown up sisters and brothers.
I am from a humble Christian background. My dad denounced an idols practices and even make effort for church to be planted in my village.So basically, I never lack love.After my mum's death, everyone chart his or her part in life. I went with my uncle, struggling to gain admission but was fruitless.
I started hustling by myself and by 23 I had my first car, get a plot of land and start building. I lived in one of the Nigeria oil city so girls wasn't a big deal.
One of my mentor advice me against falling in love. I live with this principle, one girl for one day. No matter how beautiful you are, the moment we have sex, I will lose interest.
Been from a royal root, I strongly believe that a prince should not sleep alone at night, so I always have girls around me but never get to love them, we have fun and it ends there.my Anty taught me how to use a condom (she is a nurse) so I never for once sleep with a girl without condom because I don't want a commoner to exchange blood with me unless I am to marry her.
I always wanted the best for myself. After seeking admission for quite a while, a friend introduce me to a consultation who gave me admission in one of the West African university. Something happened and I had to go to my embassy which I was strongly advise to visit Nigeria. I did, only to be told by ministry of education that NUC doesn't recognize my school and the course I am into. So I lost all, become depressed. Start drinking, traveling to places, have a lot of fun, I just wanted to end it all.My late mum talk to me in a dream and from that day I stop everything fun, I start dreaming again.
After some year I make up my mind to start afresh. I wrote waec, used my ND gain admission this year. I have a dream to go into space science or oil exploration. So basically I'm am living my dream. I make up my mind that no girl will be in the picture, having traveling to five countries in Africa, I don't want to live in Nigeria, Can't raise my kids here, it a very toxic place.
I got engaged in a business, I make some good money. My family member requested for an help in her building project. I discarded her plan, instruct the building planner to draw another plan. I start the project for her, money got finished, she ask for my help. I told her,I can only help her with my capital, she beg and I release 400k to her. After paying for my admission process, school fee and my feeding, I had little left. I left the building at roofing level. My Anty didn't refund my money, I plead, make trouble, involved police,she refused to give me back my money. This is the third time my family has dealt with me financially. I make up my mind not to have anything to do with my family members.
Now here is the real story.
In one of my business deal, I met a girl. Natural skin, flesh in right places, very smart and intelligent. The more I get to know her the more I desire her then for the first time in my 30 years,I fall in love. We both want the same thing, we have the same dream. She visit me in a neutral place, I emptied my account to part pay for the place we will be staying, I even help her to acquire one of her document.
We instantly connect.I make love to her skin to skin ( my very time of doing that),did other things I won't dare with any girl. She is so real and sincere,she is truly amazing and an angel. For three days we stayed together we never had a dull moment. I saw in her a future,to a point that I call her my mum name. I told her everything about me.we make a lot of financial plan because she give me two years to get married to her or she walk.
She is already a graduate but she accepted to marry me while I complete my studies then we move to Europe,or Australia.
She make some sacrifice, give me some fund to add and start a business,but the lock down affect our plans.
Here is the problem
She has started acting up. We video chat for hours every day but since two days ago she wants her space.
Now I need advice: 1: Can I stay with her and we continue planning our life together or I should let her go and concentrate with my studies? Note she doesn't affect my ability to study negatively.
The most important question now
2:If I should allow her to wait for me,how is it possible that I will achieve my dream and make a family with her? I don't want to frustrate her, I care about her to a point I can let her go and hurt my self.
Please anyone who has gone through this before can share his or her story. I will share it with her freely and we take a decision. Also anyone with useful advise PL drop.
Please note, I am not obsess with her. I am truly in love with her.

. Another very important point,Am I taking advantage of her love for me by asking her to wait for me? I want to be free with my conscience.

tripplephi:
It is clear you LOVE each other, but sadly you both have STRONG HEAD for each other.


You both need to meet a counselor that will talk and guide both of you. And as for you Mr Royal Christian background....pls be PRAYERFUL O.... I hope you know that your father didnt become so very old before he died, it may have been a spiritual attack. You have to really take GOD serious.

You will make it in life and NO WOMAN can stop you. Just that, you should not always get angry easily or read danger to every little sign, you already know how women can do drama, so be very patient and turn it to joke with her, draw her close before you correct her.

As for the Lockdown, don't worry it will soon be over then you can move on. Pls I strongly suggest you MARRY HER... your royal blood has mixed with her already so she is now partially a royal person through you. Na real man you be, so things can NEVER be hard for you, just be more understanding with her and patient.

I celebrate you

God bless you, I take your advice.

roseb1:
U ended up confusing us the more. U need to learn how to orgainise

. I am sorry try and read through then give me useful advise as if I am your brother, thanks

tripplephi:
It is clear you LOVE each other, but sadly you both have STRONG HEAD for each other.


You both need to meet a counselor that will talk and guide both of you. And as for you Mr Royal Christian background....pls be PRAYERFUL O.... I hope you know that your father didnt become so very old before he died, it may have been a spiritual attack. You have to really take GOD serious.

You will make it in life and NO WOMAN can stop you. Just that, you should not always get angry easily or read danger to every little sign, you already know how women can do drama, so be very patient and turn it to joke with her, draw her close before you correct her.

As for the Lockdown, don't worry it will soon be over then you can move on. Pls I strongly suggest you MARRY HER... your royal blood has mixed with her already so she is now partially a royal person through you. Na real man you be, so things can NEVER be hard for you, just be more understanding with her and patient.

I celebrate you

. My dad die at old age. Only my mum die Young.
I will never break my vow with her but I don't want to frustrate her. I am willing to take any possible step (legitimately) to make her mine. She love me from her heart but I guess there is a lot of pressure on her, not from her parents (both want her to build her career).

Amanee:
This epistle sha

. Sorry , I need to paint a picture of who I am. I need your honest opinion thanks

My story is going to be lengthy, because I need you to understand my situation and offer useful advise. Please pardon any Grammatical error. Help me with advice.
I lost my dad when I was 11, mum take care of me and my education in all possible ways. She die immediately I finished my waec. I have grown up sisters and brothers.
I am from a humble Christian background. My dad denounced an idols practices and even make effort for church to be planted in my village.So basically, I never lack love.After my mum's death, everyone chart his or her part in life. I went with my uncle, struggling to gain admission but was fruitless.
I started hustling by myself and by 23 I had my first car, get a plot of land and start building. I lived in one of the Nigeria oil city so girls wasn't a big deal.
One of my mentor advice me against falling in love. I live with this principle, one girl for one day. No matter how beautiful you are, the moment we have sex, I will lose interest.
Being from a royal root, I strongly believe that a prince should not sleep alone at night, so I always have girls around me but never get to love them, we have fun and it ends there.my Anty taught me how to use a condom (she is a nurse) so I never for once sleep with a girl without condom because I don't want a commoner to exchange blood with me unless I am to marry her.
I always wanted the best for myself. After seeking admission for quite a while, a friend introduce me to a consultation who gave me admission in one of the West African university. Something happened and I had to go to my embassy which I was strongly advise to visit Nigeria. I did, only to be told by ministry of education that NUC doesn't recognize my school and the course I am into. So I lost all, become depressed. Start drinking, traveling to places, have a lot of fun, I just wanted to end it all.My late mum talk to me in a dream and from that day I stop everything fun, I start dreaming again.
After some year I make up my mind to start afresh. I wrote waec, used my ND gain admission this year. I have a dream to go into space science or oil exploration. So basically I'm am living my dream. I make up my mind that no girl will be in the picture, having traveling to five countries in Africa, I don't want to live in Nigeria, Can't raise my kids here, it a very toxic place.
I got engaged in a business, I make some good money. My family member requested for an help in her building project. I discarded her plan, instruct the building planner to draw another plan. I start the project for her, money got finished, she ask for my help. I told her,I can only help her with my capital, she beg and I release 400k to her. After paying for my admission process, school fee and my feeding, I had little left. I left the building at roofing level. My Anty didn't refund my money, I plead, make trouble, involved police,she refused to give me back my money. This is the third time my family has dealt with me financially. I make up my mind not to have anything to do with my family members.
Now here is the real story.
In one of my business deal, I met a girl. Natural skin, flesh in right places, very smart and intelligent. The more I get to know her the more I desire her then for the first time in my 30 years,I fall in love. We both want the same thing, we have the same dream. She visit me in a neutral place, I emptied my account to part pay for the place we will be staying, I even help her to acquire one of her document.
We instantly connect.I make love to her skin to skin ( my very time of doing that),did other things I won't dare with any girl. She is so real and sincere,she is truly amazing and an angel. For three days we stayed together we never had a dull moment. I saw in her a future,to a point that I call her my mum name. I told her everything about me.we make a lot of financial plan because she give me two years to get married to her or she walk.
She is already a graduate but she accepted to marry me while I complete my studies then we move to Europe,or Australia.
She make some sacrifice, give me some fund to add and start a business,but the lock down affect our plans.
Here is the problem
She has started acting up. We video chat for hours every day but since two days ago she wants her space.
Now I need advice: 1: Can I stay with her and we continue planning our life together or I should let her go and concentrate with my studies? Note she doesn't affect my ability to study negatively.
The most important question now
2:If I should allow her to wait for me,how is it possible that I will achieve my dream and make a family with her? I don't want to frustrate her, I care about her to a point I can let her go and hurt my self.
Please anyone who has gone through this before can share his or her story. I will share it with her freely and we take a decision. Also anyone with useful advise PL drop.
Please note, I am not obsess with her. I am truly in love with her.

proffemi:
Yes, I always call black black.
When NCDC mess up, I call "black".
But right now, people like you are also clogging their bandwidth, thereby compounding the problem you think you are exposing. So, yeah, I call "black".

. Maybe you are benefiting from the loot hence you are blind to see the truth. I am exposing government inadequacy, lies and ineffectiveness.

proffemi:
NCDC may have their issues, but you do realize that people crying wolf like you are part of the problem, don't you?
I heard an unsubstantiated report that well over 50 % of calls and messages to NCDC are spam calls or people "trying to sure they are what they claim".
Please leave them alone, let them do their work to the extent possible.

. You clearly didn't want to you that there is ineffectiveness in the system. So many lies we have been told. Call black black don't look the other way.

EmekaBlue:
so if they had agreed to come pick you up u for japa with no more response

am a responsible person, I thank them for their effectiveness and disclose I am healthy. Stay safe don't spread the virus.

budaatum:
Hmm, it's worse than that.
We don't have enough functional Nigerians!

. A country full of educated fools

immaq8:
you came from Ghana, no fund.
probably Ncdc is avoiding 'April Fool'

. I want to believe you are a child. Go and read my conversation with your supposed government agency

EmekaBlue:
R u really having those symptoms or just testing their effectiveness?

I never trust the system hence I needed to be sure they are what they claim to be. Quick response my ass

Lipscomb:
It seem you are talking to robot...call not texting.

. It not robot Dear, I know a little about tech to know when robot is responding. Read the message very well.

budaatum:
You'd think Nigerians would know this already, but apparently, there's some Nigerians with their heads in the sand who think otherwise.

. Hmmm a sad reality, we don't have a functional government.