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BornSnner9:
oh ok..

Truth is some relationship are best at friends level..

Bro
If you have ever fallen in love, you would know it's impossible to remain friends with that person.

dingbang:
be there crushing when she is getting laid elsewhere

I honestly don't care.
That's her business.
I just wanna get over her.

akaahs:
Just use her bad attitude/character to suppress the feelings each time d though crossess her mind from u ll write her off from our mind.

That's the problem.
She's almost perfect in terms of character, her only problem back then was she had this habit of snubbing but apart from that her character was perfect.
She even said I was her exact type of guy, so when she turned me down it created a temporary kind of hatred towards her within me.
Now after seeing her pictures and video, i can't stop thinking about her

Enudapan:
Nna eh! No qualms
This is so unsophisticated
Don't be a simp, bang other kpekus
And most importantly, always take mushin weed (it helps)

If you read what I wrote then you know I'm nothing like a simp.
When she turned me down, I didn't ask her out again and she came back begging for my forgiveness.

It's just that I have fallen so hard for this girl.

BornSnner9:
You love her but don't want to marry her??

I am not understanding

No.
She said she would prefer we got married instead of dating because she fears we would stop talking even tho I pointed out she still relates with her ex.

This is going to be long one.

I'm hopelessly in love with this girl I met back on sec school.
She talked to me at first and we immediately clicked it's as if we knew each other for ages.
Fast forward 2 months later I ask her to be my girlfriend after I had noticed she felt the same for me, she'd try to kiss me but me being a shy person and suffering from extreme social anxiety back then secondary school even with my good looks I was still very very shy.
Anyways she turned me down, I asked her why and she had no reason, I respected myself and didnt ask anymore.
The next day she started ignoring me, I swear it torn my heart to see the way this girl would snub me, 2 days later she came back begging and I forgave her we went back to being extremely close she'd tell me everything even her personal family matters which I found very weird.
Fast forward half a year later, we're so close most think we're dating and even herself would tell me she talks to me and often forgets I'm not her boyfriend.
I try again and ask her out, She rejects me again telling me she fears when we break up, we would stop talking even tho she still talks and relates well with her EX whom bad mouthed her publicly and she'd like us to get married instead of dating (This honestly pissed me off and I found it extremely difficult to communicate with her)

Presently now (almost a year )we don't talk, I deleted her number so as to get over her.
Truth be told i can't stop thinking about her and it's driving me mad, i recently came across a video and some photos of her online and it just originated those feelings for her.
I'm hopelessly in love with this girl and I'm sick of it.
All I ask is for advice, how do I move on?
I'm a person of that values self respect ALOT and i can't bring myself to talk to her after she turned me down TWICE.

P.S She even told me she had a crush on me, so it honestly left me confused when she turned me down the second time.

I'm frustrated and slowly becoming depressed.
I just calculated all my losses and I have lost up 70k.
I'm just 17 years and I'm devastated.
At first I was winning like no man's business, doubling my money constantly but now I'm losing left and right.
I have tried stopping.
Deleted the app but I always go back, I just lost the last cash at hand and i feel drained and devastated.
How do i over come this addiction ?

I saw these images on twitter and thought it'd be best i forwarded them here at least.
Romance section is the most active here so hopefully 1 or 2 people might help.
The womans account number is in the image
Better still forward to fp�

Luckydubby7:
. For jumia I have worked there I must tell you that jumia have been incurring loses since they started.

For Shoprite, I'm currently working with a company that supply all supermarket equipment from shelves to refrigerator to accessories. Competition is just too much. Everyone want to own a retail store.

Wow boss seems you're a big man.
Abeg your boy fi drop him account details