Lalami3232:
Let me ask you this question, bro. You no sure say your own version of mumuness too high? Which kind of people we even get nowadays? When some of us dey think of how to make mama and family proud, you dey think of your ex unclothedness. No be juju be that? Some of una just get preeq as men but una brain na amaka kind of brain. Continue masturbating with her pic if you think it's good for your life. At this juncture of my life eeh, I no get time to advise anybody, not even myself. Make everybody do wetin dem feel say it's right abeg.

Tuehhhhh!!!


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "E better make you born thief instead of to born mumu"

Do these insults make you feel bettee?

noCAP:
I was fvcking attached to my ex that I felt I couldn't do without her. When we eventually broke up, I made up my mind that we aren't getting back together. She came back begging, but unfortunately, my mind was already. After the break up, I fought a tough battle to get over her. And it worked. Now, 6 months into the break up, I don't feel an atom of emotion for her.

So OP, make up your mind, delete her pictures, block her everywhere. Then give yourself time to heal

Thank you for this bro, I'm so fucken attached to her, our bond was so strong.

I'm trying to move on, I really am.

TheWolfen:
It is called sexual bond.
She was able to move on but you couldn't. You guys already bonded.
My point here is for you to imagine one creating a sexual bond with different people just by sleeping with them.
Look at guys who do it. Look at girls into runs/olosho/prostitution. You see how damaged they are and got a lot of issues within themselves

This is what nobody wants to talk about.
It damage the soul but unfortunately the new world encourage it. That is why they approve abortion in most countries. It only gonna get worse..

My advice:
You eat too much that is why u still have the strength to masturbate. How about you go on 7 days fasting. 6am- 6pm and only drink water. Mind you u must keep yourself pure this seven days. At the end of the seven days fasting. Delete every pornographic content on your phone. Remove the sexual provocative pictures of your ex. The final step is to unfollow the people displaying sexual content or girls displaying their body on all your social media

I eat too much?

This is very funny honestly because as am speaking right now I haven't eaten any food since yesterday morning and it was a plate of spaghetti and Pepsi I ate that morning.

So believe me, food isn't the problem.

I have done a lot of researching these past few hrs and am trying my best to turn a new chapter.

LordVoldermort:
Been there

Step 1: DO NOT delete her pictures instead make it slightly difficult to access, save it on a separate memory card or drive and store somewhere else.

Step 2: Search for pictures of hotter sexier girls online and self-service to it, anytime you think about wanking to your ex, self-service to them instead

Step 3: Start reading the redpill thread from beginning to end

Do this exercise for one month, you'll see that when you finally see the picture of your ex she no longer looks attractive any more...
But for now you need to focus on the process less on the thoughts.

I actually did exactly this for 2 months and it worked but as I said, I ended up stumbling across her ig and instantly fell apart.

I'm dying inside but I made a vow yesterday to move on!

Jeon:


KEEP MASTURBATING IT'S GOOD FOR THE HEALTH.

It felt good at first but these days I feel horrible after doing it.

I can't sleep or sometimes concentrate without doing it, I'm feeling suicidal.


Edit: So I have read the advices and insults and I thank those who gave actual advices while those with insults I don't blame you tbh cuz this am honestly very pathetic tbh.

Yes I have deleted all her pictures and am trying to move on.
I'm not a very social person so finding another girl will be problem especially since my ex was an extremely attractive woman so finding someone on her level would be difficult( I'm also an attractive guy).
As someone said, my issue isn't the masturbation it's that it's if am obsessed over someone that has moved on from me, Our bond was so strong.
I find myself stalking her social media at times(I recently vowed never to do such since yesterday and haven't till now).


I'm just mentally tired and depressed.

Gentlerespect76:

Chaaii, bondage.

It's not funny at all bro, I feel mentally down these days and am not happy at all.

I'm reaching in a depressive state of mind.
I can't stop masturbating towards pictures of my ex, I had stopped for 4 months but I immediately backslided one day and now am back doing it chronically.
We recently talked and it was 100% obvious she had moved on from me but I still haven't moved on.

I need counseling pls not insults or jokes.

Na wa ooo

Jeon:
YOU SAID YOU ARE HANDSOME, BUT WHERE IS UR PHOTO?

I never said I was, I said that's what the women in question tell me.

This is an issue that seriously annoying me, I have been friendzoned 3 times.
Now let me break this down.
The first girl told me she had a crush on me and found me very attractive even up to call me her ideal man, rating me 7-8/10.
Now the second girl as well, said she found me extremely attractive and among the cutest guys she knows but yet I still ended up being friendzoned when I tried to have sex( but she wanted a relationship)

Third girl: First night she immediately complimented my looks and did it constantly at times but at the end of day, she doesn't want to have sex only wants to be friends with me because she sees me as a friend.

Now, As you can see.
Attraction isn't the issue because all 3 girls have claimed to find me very attractive but yet I always end in the friendzone which is annoying.

What am I doing wrong?

I honestly did some self evaluation i feel it might be because I talk to girls like I talk to my male friends, very casually and friendly even calling them "guy" at times.

Could this be the reason?

I would prefer replies from the women to know

stixxy:
move on. No doubt you love her but she is a hoe. Hoes ain't loyal remember?

True but I have invested so much of my time and effort.

stixxy:
Another guy dey bleep the love of your life and you dey come tell us. Her pant sef you no go see

So what should I do from here?

motymop:
Why are all of you so full with hate and too much anger and negativity, who did this to you?

A guy here is bleeding in pain and see the trash been spilled out.

If you have no empathy, rather than comment why don't you ignore the post.

Thank you, my brother.

BoredBerry:
So what do you want us to do?

She's not loyal... Meaning she's not a partner but a bedmate...

You want sex... Why come here like you're the victim?

I'm the victim because she lied to me and would even try to stop me from going out with other girls.

At a certain point, I couldn't even post other girls.

stixxy:
Another Simpson found. You dey allow girl to friend zone you for this 2022?

How did I simp, uncle?

BoredBerry:
You don't care that she's giving her love to him?

So it's sex?

Hug a transformer then...

The first question got me thinking actually.

I already said the only reason I never asked her out for a relationship is because she doesn't seem like a loyal person at all which turned out to be right.

BoredBerry:
I know your kind... You come here with your sad sob stories... Then ask if you should stick around to screw her... You receive a go ahead from the redpillers... Blah blah blah...

You don't deserve her... It was never love...

If you're so Hot... Go get a hoe... You can afford that, right?

Or like your brothers, you need free sex?

I don't deserve her but I was the one lied to

If you knew how much I sacrificed, you wouldn't spew this nonesense.

Nicepoker:
Op the E newspapers will eat you raw

Omo, am just confused oo

I was the person that was lied to here.

BoredBerry:
You just want sex...

It's not your heart that's aching buy your wrinkled balls...

Go and masturbate... It would ease the pain

How would you feel after a woman you invested so much time and energy into is giving her body to another guy?

Obviously you would want your own at taste atleast.

I just don't know if I can bear giving off fake vibes till then.

BoredBerry:
Slice of the cake! Shut up!!

Seems you don't want reasonable comments... Wait for the redpillers then... Since you're obviously down for their idiocy...

Next time... Humble yourself...

If you didn't have any meaningful contribution then why comment?

You're attacking me, when am the victim of heart break here.

I would be lying if i say, am not in serious heart ache after reading those messages of their sexual activities but I at least want my own share of the cake.

I just don't know if I can bear the pain long enough to do it.

This going to be a little long because am in a state of mental confusion and heart ache.

I'm close friends with this girl and we have been friends for about 5 months, we got extremely close in a short period of time and would every now and then do some romantic things like touching each other or going out on little dates.
So flash forward to 5 months later
During this 5 months we have fought countless times that includes blocking and deleting each other contacts but one of us has always tried to get back together.
Either she does or I do, so ye it's kinda toxic.
Our last fight was the worst, we didn't talk for months till she called me and told me a lot.
Even told she told her mother about me because of the fight we had. (I was shocked)

Now why am making this post is because I recently logged into her account and found out she is dating someone.
Yes, she has been in a relationship with someone since last year and has been having constant sex with that person even after she told me various times, she is single and has no interest in a relationship.
It leaves me heart broken even tho we're still friends (only reason I never asked her to be in a relationship with me is because she just doesnt seem like a loyal person to me and I was proven right yesterday)

So since yesterday, I've been debating in my mind.

Should I stay with her and bear the pain till I can have sex with her because at least lemme have my own share of the cake

Or should i completely cut her off because I won't lie, this thing dey pain me cuz I really gather mind for this girl.

I'm getting serious irritated with my skin, almost every weak I must have one pus filled acne or another but it's been getting worse.
Now I have 3, I'm seriously frustrated because my face is starting to look like a mess. I have extremely oily skin am starting to think maybe I should bath 4 times a day but google health says that'd be unhealthy.
I have gotten talk backs that's it due to puberty but am already 19 years
What can I do?
It's running my self esteem

Xenry:
First step, change your username.

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Well, thank God that I don't even have interest in football, not to talk of betting.

I can't
This account reminds me of how foolish I am as a human being.

I'm lost, how do I tell my parents I have just wasted the money I was sent yesterday?

Xenry:
First step, change your username.

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Well, thank God that I don't even have interest in football, not to talk of betting.

I can't
This account reminds me of how foolish I am as a human being

I want to stop, I just lost 10k out of 15k of my allowance.

I'm deeply depressed

Pls how do I stop??
I'm just 18 years and shouldn't be harboring these thoughts.

Arimann:
remember you can't fool everybody @ same time.. Stefaniz

I don't know who you're talking about and I have already sold the card.
I have been on NL since 2019 with one of my post even making FP.
So biko stop
Not everyone is a scammer.

Cr0nus1:
if u like hide under different accounts I will fish u out..

Just because you were scammed doesn't mean you must attack every seller you see like a headless chicken bro.

Check my account age.

Mrcalxy:
It’s welcomed boss
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Already found a buyer, I'll message you if the deal doesn't fall through tho.

I have $20 giftcard for sale.
Escrow is allowed but pls let it be a well known one on NL.

Mrcalxy:
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I'm selling $20 gift card, are you interested in buying