WillyWonda1:
I got an opportunity to get a leave at the oil rig where I work and then joined the company chopper to osubi Airport in Warri.

Then I went home. I already had someone clean the house, so j just slept lazily. So it's Saturday, no light, it's hot, I want to go sight seeing around after a Long time at the rig.

So I settled for a Jetty around my hood and do the locals before evening cruise.

So this guy walks up to me. He greets me
He: Senior braa, I hail
Me : Shakes him.

Then he just started telling things he had before he was wrecked by his babe from Ghana.

Then he just drops the bombshells
Him: Senior braa.... Even if na H. (#100). I go use am package. So I just laughed and gave him#3k. He just shouted EWOO!!��.
Mehn see prayers. So I sat him down and asked him to order for anything. And I told him to get high as much as he wanted. I don't have friends.

I'm a very low-key person. I just want to feel free. It's been long.
And I'm linking up with some colleagues this evening. I'm thinking of calling him along make he enjoy life small.

I can snap pictures later on sha when they come.

As a pure deltan man, I must warn you and praise you at the same time, you did well for helping provided his daily bread but be careful because most of these boys have no issue biting the hand that feeds them.

Unless he is a graduate and not just some random street boy

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Solved

Damn Elon musk and china for almost sending me to my early grave.

Left sports betting addiction to crypto and it's the same result but this time I really got hit hard especially since I put majority of my savings in it.

I'm resuming school as a fresher next week and I don't know how am gonna survive with the last money I have.

Do i invest the little i have in crypto with the Hope's it goes back up
Advice needed am badly hurt and confused

Bayern simple
Just lost 20k

I'm tired

Osoboshi:
congratulations man,getting admission into a med skul is not easy.A 4th year med student of UNN
for ur first year just try and attend classes +practicals,for my skul it was majorly the materials given to us by lecturers that we used,it was more sec skul stuff sha.
New courses u will be introduced to are medical genetics in first semester,then parasitology in 2nd semester of not everytin was basic sec skul stuff.
try and get a very good G.P bcus of scholarship. that's for now but if u still want me to brief u on ur 2nd and 3rd year course work just qoute me.
don't mind my crazy writing sha,ain't gat time

Thanks for the advice mate

yerobiukini:
please don't be annoyed, what your JAMB score?
and can you send me your whatsapp number I want to discuss something with you in private

I got admission through pre degree

Gemineye:
This your moniker tho
Hmmmmm

Stay on topic

brain02:
congrats on your admission! which course? which school?



btw, is there any means you can change that your username??

Medicine
I mean this a medical thread

I just gained admission

Pls any advice on topics to specially study as a 100 level?
Medicine

Ebube043:
ok sir, electrostatic, electric field,gauss law, electric potential,capacitor, dielectric current and resistance, electromagnetic oscillation,am a year one student in a federal University, studying mechanical engineering,i find it difficult to solve problems after studies,thanks as i await your favorable response

Teaching without physical contact is difficult.
Best you search for these topics on YouTube
You'll most likely find a video on it

After writing jamb 3 times, finally landed medicine.
I desperately want to make my mother proud, so pls any past or current medical student should pls help me out topics I should focus on before resumption before newly admitted students begin classes.(about a month an half left)

I'm already about to start pounding hard on organic chemistry with dozens of tutorial videos downloaded.

Is there any topic specially I need to learn?!
Fynestboi
Richieez
Seun
Mynd44
Fp pls so I can get more help

bigt2:
It was about 3am when i heard Maggie yodel at the backyard, she caught mr. Pouched rat and Ginger being superior wants the kill for herself, and her pups - hence the yodel!
Then I went out and found Mr. Pouched rat lying lifeless. Murderers!

Waiting till dawn to do justice to this!
Regards to:
Maggie (Basenji)
And Ginger (Boerboel)

Didn't know which one of you girls did the good job but I suspect Maggie. Thanks all the way lol


More updates later

Rats carry fleas and parasites.
Take that dog to a vet for check up.

sammycipher:


Manny
sorry for d loads of blunders i made im the first post
i was rushing
Ok u sent her a message
no p
just look for a way and end d chat
if u value ur mental health stay clear from her
u are a medical student and trust me ur grades will drop should u have anything to do with that girl
its just an infatuation my man, u wont die
Avoid those saying u should.chase or persist
they wont be there when u are suffering
because even if u later date her u will be too attached that she might call u clingy or say u are putting jer in bondage lol
what is happening to u once happened to me not too long ago
just be wise fam

Thanks for words of advice man.
I highly appreciate it.

sammycipher:

baba see
that girl doesn't love u at all, i repeat she doesn't have an iota of feelings for u
she relates well with her ex but can't date u amd she still says she loves u?
bro she is just keeping u by d side, and when she is done doing whatever she realises her ex can't take her back again, she will come to u
same shit happened to me before with a girl, let me just tell u
that girl still loves her ex
u are just an admirer and she is just receiving validation from u
moving on will be hard, i av been there
to make d moving on easier go to another girl
or should i say girls
it will be hard but keeping ur distance will help u a lot
remember don't accept her again even if she is d one who asks u out
because a girl who loves u and sees u as a worthy guy wont turn u down for shit
u r just a nice guy who she feeds on
Adios

Which I saw this earlier.
Just sent her a dm.

titusmichael27:
What marvels me atime is how this little girls will play a well calculated, mind blowing games that swift you off your feet in just a twingle of an eye, and you can't help but fall into it. I'm forever grateful for the red stuff though. Hey mr man, start going out with mature minds, I mean real men. You might wanna check out for this dude "Psychologist" right here on nairaland, and make sure you read all his threads..... any time.

Provide me a link to his thread pls

akaahs:

Then deal with it in ur mind, since u can't help or control d situation. Try as much as possible to distract ur mind when her though crosses ur mind.

True, I just hope school resumes too so my mind will be occupied again.

1beat:
small boy small girl paroo bi this now .... ur age mate here will advise you ...

I'm waiting for them.

goodmorning40:


Well social media has solved some part of that problem, you can reconnect with her and start by charting as friends level, leave relationship and romance out first until you have established a connection with her

Honestly I'm thinking about this.
Trying to talk to her again maybe it'll help me get over this madness called love that I feel for her because the distancing isn't helping.

BornSnner9:
lol.. You may not understand, see love fades over time.. by the time you break up and perhaps you guys stop talking to each other.. you'd realise it's a stupid feeling "love"

Tried this but the feelings won't die.
I have only crushed on 3 girls in this life and after like 3 months the feelings went away for 2/3 of those girls but this 3rd one, I just don't know why I can't get over her.

xband:
Who want to move with a guy that bear that moniker?

LOL
I made this NL account a year ago because I failed jamb after studying so hard and I was extremely depressed.
Thankfully I'm now a medical student.
I just use this account from time to time.

Decimus:

If you are still interested in her, unblock her number. But don't give her any attention.

Yes, I unblocked her number and wanted to try to talk to her but couldn't. My value for self respect wouldn't allow me.
Sometimes I wonder
It's been a year, would this girl still have those feelings for me?

goodmorning40:
If you are old enough and ready for marriage you could try again, some ladies love persistence and the love chase from the guy and will not give in until you pressure enough, but you must apply caution to know when you are being foolish and therefore withdraw . study her to know if she is doing shakara or she seriously don't want you

That's something about me I already stated.
I value self respect highly, I find it extremely difficult to chase a woman some girls have actually told me straight up about this but I just can't.
I honestly wanted to try to communicate with her again but my pride wouldn't let me do so.
I'm just sick about how I feel about this girl.

Decimus:

When she said you are her exact type of guy, what she meant was that you are not her type.
Leave her alone and move with other babes.

I have tried moving towards other babes but non of them have gotten my interest the way this girl has.
She's intelligent (something that's hard to find in our ladies these days)
Beautiful
Naughty and everything else

Decimus:
Don't ask her out again, let her ask you out.

Well we don't talk again since I deleted her number and temporarily blocked her almost a year ago.

BornSnner9:
oh ok..

Truth is some relationship are best at friends level..

Bro
If you have ever fallen in love, you would know it's impossible to remain friends with that person.

dingbang:
be there crushing when she is getting laid elsewhere

I honestly don't care.
That's her business.
I just wanna get over her.

akaahs:
Just use her bad attitude/character to suppress the feelings each time d though crossess her mind from u ll write her off from our mind.

That's the problem.
She's almost perfect in terms of character, her only problem back then was she had this habit of snubbing but apart from that her character was perfect.
She even said I was her exact type of guy, so when she turned me down it created a temporary kind of hatred towards her within me.
Now after seeing her pictures and video, i can't stop thinking about her

Enudapan:
Nna eh! No qualms
This is so unsophisticated
Don't be a simp, bang other kpekus
And most importantly, always take mushin weed (it helps)

If you read what I wrote then you know I'm nothing like a simp.
When she turned me down, I didn't ask her out again and she came back begging for my forgiveness.

It's just that I have fallen so hard for this girl.

BornSnner9:
You love her but don't want to marry her??

I am not understanding

No.
She said she would prefer we got married instead of dating because she fears we would stop talking even tho I pointed out she still relates with her ex.

This is going to be long one.

I'm hopelessly in love with this girl I met back on sec school.
She talked to me at first and we immediately clicked it's as if we knew each other for ages.
Fast forward 2 months later I ask her to be my girlfriend after I had noticed she felt the same for me, she'd try to kiss me but me being a shy person and suffering from extreme social anxiety back then secondary school even with my good looks I was still very very shy.
Anyways she turned me down, I asked her why and she had no reason, I respected myself and didnt ask anymore.
The next day she started ignoring me, I swear it torn my heart to see the way this girl would snub me, 2 days later she came back begging and I forgave her we went back to being extremely close she'd tell me everything even her personal family matters which I found very weird.
Fast forward half a year later, we're so close most think we're dating and even herself would tell me she talks to me and often forgets I'm not her boyfriend.
I try again and ask her out, She rejects me again telling me she fears when we break up, we would stop talking even tho she still talks and relates well with her EX whom bad mouthed her publicly and she'd like us to get married instead of dating (This honestly pissed me off and I found it extremely difficult to communicate with her)

Presently now (almost a year )we don't talk, I deleted her number so as to get over her.
Truth be told i can't stop thinking about her and it's driving me mad, i recently came across a video and some photos of her online and it just originated those feelings for her.
I'm hopelessly in love with this girl and I'm sick of it.
All I ask is for advice, how do I move on?
I'm a person of that values self respect ALOT and i can't bring myself to talk to her after she turned me down TWICE.

P.S She even told me she had a crush on me, so it honestly left me confused when she turned me down the second time.

I'm frustrated and slowly becoming depressed.
I just calculated all my losses and I have lost up 70k.
I'm just 17 years and I'm devastated.
At first I was winning like no man's business, doubling my money constantly but now I'm losing left and right.
I have tried stopping.
Deleted the app but I always go back, I just lost the last cash at hand and i feel drained and devastated.
How do i over come this addiction ?