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My heart is weeping seriously. Please mothers and guardians should reduce the rate at which they send minors on errands. Some men are evil. I wonder whether they have conscience at all. And you call these ones "husbands". Tufiaa!

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Melish:
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GOD is love.
He knows the heart of all men.
He knows our secret sins and weaknesses.
If you want the best partner from him you must also be the best person for your partner.


If you want a partner that'll bless your life then your life should be able to bless your partner.

If you're hot tempered, lazy, wicked, a gossip, a womaniser, full of pride, always jealous and envious! Selfish, disrespectful, uncaring, a slanderer, abusive etc.... then go and fix yourself cause God will not bring good natured people your way to suffer in your hands..

You'll only end up with your kind.
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Gbam! You may be stubborn but I like you jare. I have learnt un diluted truths from your posts so far. Mana inaghi anu nti

Wowwww this thread is still alive and has crossed forty passages. Siamia, gosh, kudos! Your handwork is still radiating. Torrque my good friend, I have missed you. I was on leave but has resumed so I cannot be as regular as I used to be. Joe I have missed you. Melish I read your comments and wanted to die in laughter. Abegi you will not kill me. I thank God for everyone on this thread. Siamia I suspect you are a very busy lady otherwise I would have suggested that you should take total control of this thread so that things will go the way you want them to go. But all the same, the thread will still touch lives. Toks, keep it up..

Artistree:
Babe, why don't you take his word for it? I mean it's not fair judging him by the information he volunteered

I feel you my dear. I was only being judicious based on how he narrated the stories that's all. I thought it was suppose to be painful all through. Like he outrightly said, there is a difference between being molested and being raped. I would even like to say somethings pertaining to this but let me drop it here cos I might be misunderstood. That was why I sympathised with him over the incidents. Good morning.

Melish:
And remember no matter how soothing calm and gentle anybody appears here they might turn out to be a Wolf in sheep's clothing...

I'll advice that you should keep all info about your personal life to yourself even if he has proposed to you over the Internet until you have met and established a stable physical relationship ... Don't let desperation or vulnerability get the better of you...

superb! You are the best. @torrque some people can be funny @times. Imagine insulting someone because they were rejected. Odi kwa egwu. I saw your info but becareful of the way you expose your contacts in the public sweetheart pls.

tlops:
This was 20 years ago, people ere not as enlightened as now.

you are very much correct. The story nearly made me cry.

torqque7:
Lol I got lost o trying to trace your house and give you a surprise visit,how was your day dear?I have been praying for you so that God will touch you and give you a new perspective on things,you know now,I hope the prayer is starting to work sha..

Loll you never told me you were coming so it's good you lost your way.

gratefulme40:
Lol....no mind Joe. Where has he been hiding sef? I have not seen his comment here lately.

Thanks jare. My day was good except the rain. I dont like rains at all.

Hope yours was good too

my dear, he has not been fronting here for some time now. Don't worry about the rain for the season will soon pass. My day was great too. I guess you must be sleeping by now. Sleep tight

halexito:
@Toks2008, she mentioned some points I agree with. No harm in that. But judging from her last post, I think she's arrogant and very immature. She believed she'd seen and READ about EVERYTHING.
So she believes she's an authority to give advice AND NOT TAKE. A very big mistake. If you're reading this Melish, you've still got a whole lot to learn.

why should you talk about people in that manner? That's very wrong. Why not talk to her directly than saying it the way you just did. Too bad.

@ torrque, where art thou?

gratefulme40:
Toks2008, fairlyisabel, udysweet, tbaby, our dear Op and others....Goodevening everyone.

Hope you all had a good day?

For me, it was a very long day but good all the same.

goodevening dear. Welcome back. Hope you had a very beautiful day! Joe should come and welcome you

Toks2008:
My sister abeg go read again..

E no pass 3

Good cook

Pleasing to the eyes

GOD fearing

shikenah..no long list

it doesn't matter the number of qualities you want. Be it 5,6,1 for the fact that there are what you look out for in a partner, it's ok. Born-agains don't even envisage or outline qualities they want rather they go to God in prayers seeking for direction on the person to go for. So my dear it doesn't really matter how many qualities you listed. It's your decision.

Toks2008:
LOL! IN the English world,been molested is never the same as rape and there was no where i used the word rape but MOLEST.

Now even when it comes to rApe cases are you not aware that orgasm sometimes occur and this does not still change the fact that it was a case of rape.

I don't really get what you mean. But to me, so long you ejaculated, it means you enjoyed it. Sorry for the past.

Toks2008:
That is the 100% truth.

A lady wants a tall,cute,Rich,God fearing,Romantic*takes a breath* caring,non aggressive...... and on and on the endless list continues yet look at these ladies and you wil be shocked that their lives are totally not worthy of even a bad guy but the worse guy they can ever imagine to have.

I beg guys or ladies as teh case may be and im writing out of experience,don't believe what any lady or guy tells you about an ex...if you want to risk it please go ahead and do that BUT DO NOT TAKE THEIR WORD. This is why i quickly ask any lady who asks me about my ex if she will not mind having her number to ask her what went down.

If it were possible;e to chat up the ex of any lady i want to date i would be glad and even if the guy try to paint her bad,at least i will have an idea of the personality of the lady im planning to settle down with and this also concerns ladies in respect to teh guy they want to date.

You don't set out attributes as a criteria for the type of man you ant when you do not even have one solid attribute any man can boast of.

Work on yourself and if you are done working on yourself, you will inadvertently attract the right suitors.

toks please stop this. This is double standard. I saw the post where you out listed what you want in a woman so why wouldn't a woman outline what she wants in a man too? Stop nah

Youngpo413:
hahahahaha,I'm not a lady,they are the only ones who lie about their age

ok you re cute but you can see, you are not qualified to be here darling[center][/center]

@toks sweetheart am so sorry for what happened to you but I don't think it was rape anymore cos you enjoyed it for that was why you ejaculated. So stop telling people you were raped cos you weren't sweetheart.

Youngpo413:
just check out my pix,I will be 30 in just 4yrs time(you know how time flies)so shall we chat up?

Ehhhhh! You are cute jare but I doubt that you are below 30 with those broad shoulders of yours. Nice T.shirt

DIVFAVOR:
Thanks dear how is your day going?

very fine dear. Thanks for asking.

DIVFAVOR:
Good morning house ooo,

You guys should welcome me na, Have introduced myself before.

Toks2008, Siamia, Fairlyisabel and all I dey wait oooooo.

Am Divfavor, a male, Lives and work in Lagos. in my 30s...

Abeg make una tell me welcome.

sweetheart I give you my warm reception, nno!

Toks2008:
Been wooed is an understatement in my case.I have been molested by many ladies at different ages of my life. At 17 i was made a man by one akwa ibom lady and latter i never did that thing again until i was 25 and molested again by a long time friend and i will never forget how she laughed at me when i prayed for forgiveness after the act and i was like "e be like say this girl na devil proper" I cant remember how many times i will enter my room in school to see a naked girl in my bed just to send her out like mumu and many times ladies will pas the night in my place yet i go dey look them like bolo.

If not for Christ i have no business with marriage and this is exactly how so many guys out there think. Sex is so cheap and a man must be really responsible to settle with one lady a midst billions who are willing to be with a man.

ohhhh my God, your last paragraph....... Am so sorry about what happened to you but if I may ask, did you by any chance ejaculated when the act took place? Hope am not prying!

torqque7:
Hahaha I don tell you before God pass you..hmm I don't think there is a way you can find around it o cos people have tried and complained about the request/mail thing..do you have a bb?maybe I can drop my pin if you don't want to drop yours for everyone to see cos my ear is really itching for the tori o

Lolllll tough guy. Yes I am on bbm but I might still not open up to you on that. We might end up discussing another thing. Let's digress a little. Have you ever being wooed by a woman before?

torqque7:
Haba being a politician is not a bad thing now just no thief money like diezani Alison when u become a politician lol. hmm am not really into football like the average nija guy o,but I like arsenal and man u sha..you de find who to yab abi?aspa chelseas loss?God pass u....so I take it you like football Abi?where do you belong?.by the way am very much interested in the story you said you cudnt share here in public, so how do i hear/read it privately?

chai torqque. Hahahahah honestly I for yab you die if to say you bi chelsea fan. Amibo .your ears are itching. Besides I don't know how to accept that request. I will find a way out sha.

myztikal:
I implore you not to quote the Bible out of context, it wasn't a question, that was advice from king Lemuel, and is even referred to as an "oracle from his mother"...read verses 29-31

just because you don't believe there's true love doesn't mean there isn't...such women do exist

excuse me. What does my ideology about love gat to do with this? Well issorite. To you and some guys, they exist while to me and some other people, they don't. Yea dear, they don't exist. But I am not against what you believe sha.

torqque7:
Hmm I beg to differ,its not the same with getting married but anyway to each his own right?if that works for you and you are genuinely happy then by all means ride on,happiness is the most important thing in this short life o and whatever makes you happy then hang on to it as much as you can. You ehnn you'll make a good politician o cos all my questions you didn't answer any of them you just give stylish reply smh if I catch you ehnn..lol

Lollll @ making a good politician. Na now I no say you no like me @ all. You like football? Chelsea fan, arsenal fan, man u? Which one?

torqque7:
OK tell me,hmmm plss o don't be cool with your status because everyone needs a mate and companion, every religion recognizes that now abi?
P.S still praying to see a picture

sweetheart, mate and companion are always easy to come by. You can get anytime anywhere every thing that marriage can offer.

BoboYekini:
Of course you are correct. Similarly, any woman that will sit on her behind and wait to be 'kept' is on a long thing..

Proverbs 31:10-31
An excellent wife who can find? She is far more
precious than jewels. The heart of her husband
trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She
does him good, and not harm, all the days of her
life. She seeks wool and flax, and works with
willing hands. She is like the ships of the
merchant; she brings her food from afar. ...
Proverbs 31:16
She considers a field and buys it; with the fruit of
her hands she plants a vineyard.

sweetheart such a woman does not exist. The bible was asking that as a question. No woman on earth is like that mbok.

Goalll 3 nil. Alexis sanchez, man of the match

torqque7:

Hmmm from your posts and comments so far It is clear you don't believe in love,but I have to ask does that affect your plans for marriage? I mean does that mean you have no plans of getting married? oya tell us now o let us know how far with you because I am sure I am not the only guy curious about that

Hahahahaha come on sweetheart. I hate the "us" thing. I should tell you and not "us". Like seriously there are some things I cannot say in the public. Honestly. But am cool with my status. Very very cool with it.

Hahahahah you guys are too funny especially you Joe. Why are you so excited?should it be because of gratefulme? Lol. You look fine on your dp. H. Timi, dosu and oppy saga is really getting me cracked up. Am enjoying what I am viewing. H. Torggue I think I saw your break light. Nno!

kaboninc:
Tellll usss jooorrr

ohhhh is even "us" and not "you"? Go and sleep abegi.

kaboninc:
There must be someone in your life you cherish so mucchhhh.

Do you mind telling us?

hahahahah crazy dude. We are bloodly related na.