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BigBashiru:
If a guy told me this a few years ago, I wouldn't have believed it.... the bolded seems part of female nature and I would like us to discuss it more on this thread..... male cheating does not typically result in children outside wedlock but when women do so, they also have the effontry to bring the bastard children for the unlucky man to raise..... women have been doing this for a while.....

Escabado:
A guy should. But unfortunately marriage doesn't benefit men . Is better u do baby mama things . Nigerian girls of today are so un-productive and very u.suuless. Marrying them is a waste of money because you will regret it at last . She will cheat on u and bring other men children for you to raise . So young men should be careful.

Like seriously.

I was sleeping with my Ex while her mum later told me she is married all those we were doing it. We broke up later. In 5 months, d told me she just delivered off a baby and I called her she said she is married. Am hundred percent sure d baby is mine. But I don't want to cause problem in her marriage. Bcoz I I calculated d Tim we were making raw. She later even told me she wants to go and see my mum. But then it was too late, I was already married and living with my present wife

Escabado:
A guy should. But unfortunately marriage doesn't benefit men . Is better u do baby mama things . Nigerian girls of today are so un-productive and very u.suuless. Marrying them is a waste of money because you will regret it at last . She will cheat on u and bring other men children for you to raise . So young men should be careful.

Like seriously.

I was sleeping with my Ex while her mum later told me she is married all those we were doing it. We broke up later. In 5 months, d told me she just delivered off a baby and I called her she said she is married. Am hundred percent sure d baby is mine. But I don't want to cause problem in her marriage. Bcoz I I calculated d Tim we were making raw. She later even told me she wants to go and see my mum. But then it was too late, I was already married and living with my present wife

asjay:
Send an anonymous message to the man requesting he runs a DNA test on the child then observe what happens from a far

Apparently she was dating both of you at the same time

Ultimately she will still ditch the guy too

So save a nigga than protect a hoe


Another angle is the man knows already and agreed to marry her with her unborn child, only way to confirm this is to ask her directly and watch her reaction
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Bottom line,only a foolish man believes ladies of this generation

DNA is advisable at all times

lol

My brother ur correct.

tnerro1:
Bros cool down, who told you that you are the only one nacking her. You don’t have money to marry and you are looking for child to take care off

Who told u I don't have money to marry. I did my traditional marriage and white wedding on 3rd October 2020. It was while I was having issue with her I hook up with my wife now. Although I did not tell her d day of my wedding. This my ex was disturbing after one month I have sexy with her that she is sick and needed money to do test. I didn't Allow her to come cos I just did my wedding. She was disturbing me for us to go and see my mom

PrimeWatermark:
If the other guy was ever an 'abroad guy', then he came back before Christmas.

She was dating both of you at the same time and decided to give it to the highest bidder.

How can she be dating abroad based guy and she is always broke and barely feed well. I guess she ran to d guy during Christmas to salvage her family from poverty. Cos I ask her aunt, she said d guy just met her

Abi

Jayboi:
Bros. Komot mind for the matter. Who says u were the only one sleeping with her then? U can never be as wise as women when it comes to pregnancy.
Move on with ur life and do something meaningful with it instead of all these fornication

But after one month I had sex with her, she complained of being sick. And she said she wants to see me. But I was so busy with my job. She was calling be day and night to send her money to do ordinary lab test. Which I did. How can Abroad based guy not do that. Some tins are not adding up bro

Stevyne:
Gee, how old are u

Am 30.
Actually. I was planning to come and marry her when this happened. Even her mum and dad knows me very well.

Vulcanheph:
It won't be the first time that a woman has done it..... Infact approximately 30-35% of first born children don't belong to their biological fathers.

Really. Jesus
This ladies are heartless. But d truth must come out one day. How can u give another man a child that is not his. Even d child she born resemble 100 percent. I will reach d end of it

What if she finally confess in d future that d child is mile. Cos I noticed after one I had sex with her, she was begging me that she was us to see and that she wants to see my mum. Ladies
Ladies.

I have been sending her text me after d child delivery asking hope d baby she carrying is mine. She have not reply.

So what did u do then

MEGA4BILLION:
She was pregnant in August, 2020. The said husband may not have been based abroad as she told you.
Maybe she was fvcking you both at the same time and only went for who was ready to claim responsibility of the pregnancy. It is only DNA test that can clear your dilemma

But from August till now is 10 month na. Beside this girl is nursing d Bab in her father's house right now.

TempUser:
I hope you're not talking about my wife, cos na December we mary o!

Who is ur wife. Did she give birth this week
Old boy calm down. I will definitely unravel this quackmire

Really

Thanks

Am just worried cos she maybe carrying my kid to give another man

But this is exactly 9 month I had sex with her. How can she get married last year December and give birth now. Just 6 month. And she said d guy came back during Xmas. Even as at October, November and even first week of December we were communicating. She was even begging me for us to go and see my mum

Folks kindly follow me reason this matter, I dated a very beautiful girl for like 1 year. She started behaving, we broke up, but not really officially. Then December last year 2020, just called me that she is getting married. That the guy is Abroad. He came back during Christmas. But I could remember vividly I have multiple sex with this my ex on September 2020. Just this week I heard she delivered a baby. Am really thinking. How can she get married last year December and give birth in May 2021. Are u thinking what am thinking. Remember I had unprotected sex with her. Even October last year I was still senting her money when she complained of being sick. On November 10th 2020 she was begging me for us to go and see my mum. Please guys what do I do. Some thing is fishy