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Covid19lockdown:
No. This is a faceless forum before enemies use it to track me.

NiceLegs:
I would have dropped what they both used here but u know Nairaland and their ban. Once u drop a solution, they ban u.

I just came out from a ban 5mins ago. I don't want to enter into another one soon.

NiceLegs:
You might be right cos this is what it's showing me when I click "View Application".

Maybe their "secret corrupt officials" want to change some peoples Certificates again.

It is well.

NiceLegs:
Hmmm

Skydivine:
It’s not about tribe. Just personal choice. It’s even better if you have supportive family that is rich .

Skydivine:
This to me is not a negative pattern. There are so many people looking for children, even with their millions but can’t find.
It’s a blessing to have a child and grandchildren.

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

Gmone:
So here's my dilemma — two amazing women, one heart, and definitely one wedding o. I can’t marry both.

Lady 1: 33-year-old Virgin from Kaduna
She’s kind, mature, and very giving. If I buy her biscuit, she go cook full pot of soup. If I say I’m not hungry, wahala don start. She's respectful, but sometimes her love feels transactional — every kind gesture must return with food or gift. Virginity still intact like unopened bottle of wine. Sweet lady.

Lady 2: 23-year-old Non-Virgin from the South East
She's sharp, focused, full of initiative. She doesn't wait for instructions — she sees problem, she solves it. Very supportive and loyal, at least so far. Yes, she’s not a virgin, but she’s confident with GenZ vibes

Now here’s the problem — with the way infidelity dey fly up and down these days, I dey wonder:

Does marrying a virgin guarantee faithfulness?
Or should I go with the one who already has experience that has GenZ vibes

To be honest, both of them like me, and I like both of them. But I must choose.

So my people, help a brother — who should I marry?

NiceLegs:
Wow...

This is seriously good o.

I'm actually happy for you all.

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joebeckz:
I have a sister in the Uk who’s married . She’s doing well . Her husband is a doctor so they are both very good. But that’s not the case for a lot of people . So it might be true .
I live in Canada which is a better place . You can save here and make a good life . You can even work in the USA once you have your passport and apply for jobs there . Just some documentations required .
Avoid the UK if you have other options if not . Go for it . Still better than Nigeria

Flows001:
God forbid bad thing!
Make I pay heavy bride price ontop expired kpekus wey boys don bang tire with only indomie and egg!!
With the way the young ladies of these days dey comot pant for any creature because of money, and collect BBCs in both holes
anyhow so, na big cheating for person to go pay Bride price!!!!
A lady's past is as important as a guy's future!!
Same way ladies avoid guys without bright future is the same way guys should avoid ladies with disgusting past!!!
MY BABE AND SOON TO BE WIFE IS A VIRGIN, SO I NO KUKU FOLLOW FOR THIS ONE, I JUST SAY MAKE I ADVICE DEM MY NIGGAS!!

ShenTeh:
I see your point.

But I think generalising in your statement is not fair, and is drawn from wishful stereotypes.
Coupled with that, [b]current experience shows that the number of women who are desperate [/b]to be married trounces those of men. I would advise that we address issues on their individual merit.