₦airaland Forum

Pharaoh4rin:
Gonatured will care and probably takes care of them. War happens, children survive
Natural disaster occurs, children survive. What will be will ne

Children survive, yes. But they remain the responsibility of the parents. You just can't wish them away, hoping that the universe will take care of them.

Calitoscassius:
Good! Curiousity is allowed,

As i said, they wanted attention, they should have stayed outta social media with their private issues, if they don't want bile (as you described it).

This is the world we live in, everyone cannot be pleasant, it would be a boring and zombie world, if everyone is nice, people are allowed opinions whether you like their opinions or not.

I hope i made sense.

No you didn't. I'm yet to see the sense in being vile to strangers.

I do not live in a fairy-tale world of butterflies and flowers so of course I know that human beings will not always be pleasant. I'm just wondering what it is about this couple that ignites hateful comments. Are they murderers? Are they thieves?

Normal human beings would wish them well or just ignore them. But to constantly spit venom about people you don't know and will never even meet is crazy.

Calitoscassius:
Well.. if you don't like it just ignore, they wanted the attention so they are getting it either negative or positive let them have it.

As i said, just ignore and move on if you don't like the comments. It is not hard to do so.

Fair enough.
But I'm curious about what the couple has done to warrant such bile.

Calitoscassius:
Very ugeelee creatures.

CyrusVI:
As if Tanzania is an upgrade to Nigeria.

dibunotion:
Always follow the bag.
If not of all the handsome Nigerian men, na one awkward looking Tanzania egufe her love catch.

CoronaVirusPro:
The guys family should go reserve a casket!

Pootle:
boyfriend so, fuvkmate so. rubbish left all the nice dicck in nigeria for a dari salam black manba

kheny12:
Hoe low show pikin go all the way to tanzania

efighter:
When you are worthless in Nigeria, you go to Tanzania, Kenya, Ethiopia, Ghana, South Africa, e.t.c

All these bile just because 2 adults have decided to date each other?

raumdeuter:
Let me see your Picture to give a fair assessment

What is it with Nairalanders and pictures?

GloriousGbola:
light skin chicks are actually dumb. .

johnog4sure:
My own advice is that MEN BE SELFISH (put yourself first and sometimes yourself alone, ignore wife ignore children they all will be fine even without you) I know it is hard for good men to take this advice, even me I am struggling to take my own advice.

Mr. Man, if you want to ignore your wife or walk out on her go right ahead. Na you sabi. But your children are your responsibility regardless of how you feel about their mother. You don't bring children into this world just to "ignore" them because you need to prove a point.

Your anger is valid but your children should not be punished as a result.

EreluRoz:
Who want to marry you won't stress you
Stop dating small boys that are still testing the efficacy of their penis

anonimi:
Is this logic applicable to non Lagosians who call the natives of Lagos as lazy

If the non Lagosians are not equally lazy, then why are they unable to develop their own regions as well?

I don't know much about your internal wrangles, but I guess the same logic applies.

folake4u:
It seems folks from that East African side don't really carry marriage on their head like their Nigerian counterparts.

Let alone the East. Southern nko?
My logical half is Zimbo. His own mother (may her soul continue to rest in eternal peace) was on her 3rd marriage at the time of her death. In her defence, the 2nd husband left her a widow. His full sister (my SIL) divorced her husband and remarried the following year. At first I thought she'd just stay focused on her kids and try to heal and all that-- For where? One minute I'm talking to a divorced woman, the next minute someone is talking about wedding plans. She didn't even blink. Did it sans emotions. A true redpiller that one.

Kenyan women do divorce but she can put up a fight if she believes you're worth it. God help you if she believes you have no usefulness -- one of you will pack and go. We generally don't carry marriage on our heads because the focus is on who you marry rather than the marriage in itself. Having said that, we do have a few instances of girls who get married purely for validation or pressure from family, church and friends, and I notice it's more prevalent among extremely religious folks (both Christian and Muslim) and rural folks.

folake4u:
Oh wow. This is interesting.

I'm telling you Folake. Me sef I get shocked sometimes.

Gerrard59:
First bold: There lies the problem. I find it odd that foreign males will categorise the native males as "lazy". How can you go to another man's country only to term the men there as "lazy"? You might say the men are not explorers as they are fewer in Nigeria, but not every male desires to live outside his dominant society. There are over 5000 Nigerians (there could be more) in Japan, but less than 1000 Japanese in Nigeria. Are Japanese men lazy because they are not abundant in Nigeria?


Another issue: You put it to the native men's faces, especially poorer ones, that we have money. How else do you expect them to react? Also, Nigeria is not as influential as China, India or even Japan as these are Kenyan's foreign major investors' countries of citizenship. So, to attack Nigerians would not be difficult as when you decide to seek for help from Nigerian authorities, it is likely names will be sorted out based on ethnicity as it happened in Sudan.

Please preach.
Many Nigerian men love using the term "lazy" to describe other African men and I've always wondered why. What are these indicators of "laziness", I wonder?

You go to different African countries and you see businesses running, real estate infrastructure coming up, citizens of these nations toiling day-in, day-out, yet some just decide that they're lazy because of what exactly? Do they think these other African men just wake up in the morning to play chess, eat, then retire to bed? All the import and export companies in these other countries, is it lazy men running them?

I'll never understand some of your brothers to be honest.

Oshokhai69:
The thing is their lazy men there hate Nigerian men cause according to them, Nigerian men take their women using money they throw around.

What are the indices of lazy men if I may ask?

Fake statistics.
Ain't no way Zimbabwe's divorce rate is 0.07% and Kenya's 0.06%.

It's not strange to find Zimbabweans in particular who've been in 2 or 3 marriages before the age of 45.

I came for the tears.

Fahvvy:
If women can dump a man cause of his height and small gbo.la (things he obviously can't do nothing about), then I don't see anything wrong in men dumping women for having small yansh and bobby ...

I mean, all's fair in love and war, right? ...

Because when he was approaching her for a relationship he didn't see her small yansh and small boöbs?

"Logical" gender indeed.

Nonsense.

Funkyswagzz:
Why would anyone think of going to Ghana what exactly are you going there to do?

Business?

bigpicture001:
Check well..it's under careers

It has been moved.

Why is this thread under 'Romance'?

GloriousGbola:
we are fine. hope you are doing well.

I'm doing okay, thanks.

how goes it with your president and his baptism of fire?

Hehehe.
A tsunami is on the way and you'll hear about it in the news. The joker is going down, down, down.
That's all I can say for now. Mark this post.

GloriousGbola:
You aren't supposed to feed the troll. If you want to feed anyone, you can feed me

You've come again Gbola?
How have you been?

JobAndVacancies:
you're right.
Magnoliáa is the same person as Euoniáa
Mariangéles is the same person as Juwesšgratitude aka Oldnairalandérb
Gloriousģbola is the same person as Zicořaads.
Prosérpina is the same person as Fárfalla.

You've got jokes.

Ishilove:

You too?
1. Folake
2. Ishi
3. Kanwulia
4. Myself

These are the Libra girls I've identified so far.

Klass99:
Oh no, sweetheart, Kenya is more corrupt than Nigeria. Considering the fact that there's an office of the first daughter and we don't have that.
I am in shock and awe that such an office would even be created, the violent protest in Kenya is more than justified for that singular reason alone. Like seriously, what the hell? That guy may have to be taken out through a coup or assassination, because he is asking for it.

You see what we have to put up with? Speaking of a coup and assassination attempts, Ruto recently did certain reshuffles within the armed forces. These reshuffles were not even made known to the public. Who knows what rumour he may have heard that sparked the sudden reshuffles, promotions and demotions within the military? As a president would you sleep well after seeing some soldiers chopping knuckle with protesters despite being deployed to the streets to subdue them? You know you're doomed when your own soldiers are fed up with you.

There's a prophecy about Nigeria by the late Sydney Elton which gives me a strong hope and comfort about my nation. His prophecy about Nigeria and Nigerians: “Nigeria and Nigerians will be known all over the world for corruption. Your name Nigeria will stink for corruption but after a while, a new phase will come a phase of righteousness. People from the nations of the earth will hold to a Nigerian and say, We want to follow you to your nation to go and learn righteousness.”

Source: Churchtimesnigeria.net

Forgive me if I'm not as optimistic about some of these prophecies as you may be. Maybe hearing so many of them with none of them ever coming to pass has made me kinda lose faith in them. Let me just say, I never hold my breath waiting for prophecies (especially about my country) to be fulfilled. You have a lot more faith and hope for your country than I do for mine.

Wishing you a wonderful week ahead!

PS: I'm watching a crime documentary where two kids joined their stepmother to murder their own mother. I'm sitting here and thinking to myself, children are truly not worth the stress, one can live a happy and fulfilling life without them fa.

Okay Klass99. I get it. You don't want kids. Haven't we had this discussion before? 😅 I love kids though. They can be a handful but I can also attribute much of my happy moments to the silly and not-so-silly conversations I have with them, the songs we sing together, the cuddles.... you know.
I do know a lady who deliberately chose a similar path to yours but she takes care of her nephews and nieces. She seems happy too.

I can't imagine my children ganging up against me to finish me. Chai! That's a typical case of "all weapons fashioned against you have prospered". A case of "surely misfortunes and cruelty have followed you all the days of your life". Really unfortunate to have your children turn against you to the degree of wanting you dead.

Reminds me of a story I read in 2014 thereabout about a former Ministry of Lands employee who acquired vast property along the Kenyan coast (some legitimately) but he'd sell off the land acquired unscrupulously to unsuspecting buyers. He scammed people for many years and amassed a lot of ill-gotten wealth. When his 4 adult children didn't see much of that wealth trickling down to them, they decided to kill both their parents. They successfully eliminated their father, and forced their mother to go into hiding after a failed attempt at poisoning her. The woman recuperated while hiding from her children and was still under some form of protection programme when that story was being published. I remember jokingly telling my mum to sleep with one eye open. 😂

The interesting thing is that the children of that family were successful career men and women. One was a doctor in Spain or Italy or something like that. Another was a lecturer at some university in the UK. I don't remember the accurate details of the other two, but I remember thinking to myself;
1. How did 4 children unanimously agree to kill their parents?
2. How did the 4 children, living in 4 different countries successfully plan the execution of their father?
3. Who among the 4 children planted that seed of murder?
4. And how did he/she convince the other 3 to go along with it? To even think about it?

I don't seem to recall all the fine details of the story but it left me with many questions. May my children never plan my execution. Iseee....

Klass99:
Now, I am interested in knowing the stereotypes associated with Ruto's tribe, please spill o. How many tribes are in Kenya? There are so many in Nigeria our diversity can be head spinning sometimes.

Pardon me for the late response. It's been a real hectic week.

Kenya has very few tribes--44, and that includes Kenyans of Asian, Arab and European descent.
Despite having way fewer tribes compared to you guys, Kenya is home to diversity as well. We're not as homogeneous as South Sudan, Malawi or Botswana for instance. We have diverse looks and cultures.

About the stereotypes associated with Ruto's people, particularly their men....Chai!
1. They're not renowned for exercising proper hygiene. Smelly armpits and mouth odour be the order of the day with them.

2. Then there's this talk about their inability to be romantic, especially when making sexual advances. There's this gist I used to hear about them -- that if a man from that community wants to have sexx with his wife, all he needs to do is tap her on the shoulder and say, "bring that thing here". 🤣🤣
Another one I heard was that the man would send his wife for something like a glass/cup of water and when she'd get up to get it for him, he'd put his leg across her way so she'd trip and fall, and while she's still in that "fallen" position, Ruto's tribesman will unzip his pants, lift up her dress/skirt and do the needful. 🤣🤣🤣
Another one-- they'd rather walk barefoot on hot coals than say "I love you". They cannot say it! They will not say it! They can write it, but will never say it. Their mouths lack the ability to pronounce those words. 🤣🤣

3. Another stereotype is that they love their cows more than their wives and children (who by the way are categorised as one entity 😂). A sick cow will be given priority over a sick wife or child.

Of course all these are exaggerations said tongue in cheek, but you catch the drift.

folake4u:
We're the best. Libra sweet die!

Libras always be noticing guys.
Is that why you notice yummy looking dark boys?

Mbadiwe Twins.
Sweet yummy looking dark boys. Yum 😋

@Klass99,
Your mentions are well noted.
I'll get back to you.

helinues:
Infact, those same protesters jubilated about the appointments of the people above, all president Ruto's sins forgiven as their tribes man are now in government. No more protest.

I don't know where you get your information from, eh? Whoever told you that the protesters were the same ones jubilating the appointments is a liar. You think this crop of Kenyan youth can be bought by a head of state bribing their tribesmen with ministerial posts? Those jubilating are mostly the older folks. Then we've got the usual crowd for hire comprised of hopeless idlers. Joho in particular is notorious for mobilizing crowds by dishing out money.

Hasn't your "source" told you that the Gen-Zs halted the protests temporarily because they were infiltrated by goons hired by government? You think this is the end of it? Watch the space. Ruto is not sleeping either. He cannot afford to. A man who suddenly decided to do major internal reshuffles within the military knows he's a wanted man. I like how rattled he is. There's no peace for the wicked. Not a single peaceful night will Ruto ever have until he leaves office.

Klass99:
You sound more passionate than we Leos sef . Na so the thing pepper you reach? You don't sound like a loser you sound like a citizen who has a lot of reasons to be mad.

You have me so captivated I am reading, typing a response and laughing out loud all at once. I remember when I was in Kenya, our tour guide (a young lady of university age) told us there is no difference between Kenya and Nigeria. In her words she's not sure which country is worse but we appear to be in competition with each other when it comes to corruption.

People who grew up poor have serious self esteem issues I can't understand, they are usually the ones to do the most and the worst when they come into money or their situations change just a little. I am not surprised by what you've said regarding Ruto.

The guy physically fine for my eye sha, I had no idea he is such a rotten soul. Na wao! You get bad mouth sha, see as you just finish the guy and his entire tribe 🤣. You really don't like him and I cannot blame you, at least him and his tribe can run long distance to win marathon races for Africa. I will be rooting for them come this Olympics, because I like it when African countries win a medal at the games.

You engaging back with so much energy and passion has made my day. And kudos to you for bonding well with Leos, we are cool like that, ain't we? What's your zodiac sign? Make I check something.

The thing pepper me die. Any time I file my personal and business tax returns and think of how all that money is being collected only to be squandered on meaningless dockets such as the Office of the First Daughter, I get really mad.

Kenya is just as corrupt as Nigeria. Only difference is that Kenyans commit their corrupt practices with a serious, sort of "dignified" face while Nigerians are more crude with theirs. They do not even hide it. They joke about it and some even revel in it (and hailed as "sharp guys" ). Nigerians own their corruption.
Kenyans on the hand can act all goody two shoes, will even be mocking pickpockets all the while siphoning money from your business in a "sophisticated" way. Same way they steal elections and then refer to themselves as a "model of democracy for Africa". Joke of the century.

Those marathon runners are always winning but you don't wanna hear the stereotypes associated with their tribe. Let me stay civil....for now.
Oh, and like you I'll be rooting for the African countries. I always find myself doing that during the FIFA World Cup tournaments as well.

Leos are cool. They're never invisible. You must notice them as they're usually distinguished and command a lot of respect, naturally. True lions.

My zodiac sign is Libra.
Yeah. Yeah. I know. We're flowery bimbos, usually undecided, flirtatious....what else?

Focusmind:
See how the place be like Canada. No human traffic. Lonely and calm. My worst fear about living abroad. Though, most people like the idea. If money dey, Naija sweet pass abroad. My own opinion

What is there to fear about tranquility and minimal human traffic?