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kevoh:
it is not a God factor but a question of basic biology. Let me ask you a simple question,if an H.I.V soldier in war torn country rapes a woman or a father rapes his daughter and you were a God in charge of giving children, would you in your infinite wisdom give one? Be careful of your response here and remember there are actual real life instances that have happened! I'm waiting

God's ways is different from our way,just has heaven is higher than the earth.I can never put myself in the place of God.

@ kevoh
who are u to question God,of wat purpose is this or dat.Blive wat u may dats ur take.

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If you have sex whenever and are fertile and healthy, without any natural or artificial contraceptive, you will get pregnant regardless whether you think its a sin or not.[/quote]That is what people like u who believe- fact,roll wit.be as fertile has anything.if its not the will of my God as u hv stated pregnancy will neva surface.

kevoh:
There are one or two natural family planning methods I know of that do not involve invasive procedures like the OP mentioned,swallowing of all sorts of contraceptive drugs, withdrawal method or use of condoms. The B illings O vulation M ethod is one of such safe and natural process of family planning/birth control that does not contravene most religious laws. With BOM, regular intimacy takes place but done when the couple is most certain the wife is on her infertile days in other not to lead to conception or done when the couple actually wants conception to take place. With regular mastery of BOM, preselection of female or male child by the couples can be done with 80 to 90 percent accuracy. I am also aware some (orthodox) churches like the Catholic Church teach such in their marriage classes.

Sometimes even for a 100% healthy couple,being ignorant of your most fertile day in a cycle and missing the chance to have serx that window period can be what leads to childlessness in couple for years despite regular serx which probably had been taken place on infertile days. This is what Billings method aim to teach, identifying your most fertile days, choosing whether to have serx or not on such days and save yourself the stress of going under the knife to remove your womb and related surgical procedures.

Ask google for more info on Billings Method.

if God want a child to be born let say today for a purpose,and u stop that from coming 2ru any method isn't that a sin?

What am saying is we want God to take control of our life but when it comes to childbearing we seems to want to take control of that part.my mother in-law had her child months apart within 2 &half years she had 2 boys and a girl,because of some marital issue they got divorce while she was still pregnant with the 3rd child,my hubby is the second child,if she had don F.P my husband wud nt hv bn born b4 they go their separate ways

osesology:
Hmmmmm... I'm seriously trying to understand you. Like seriously are u trying to say that since children are gifts from God, we should be giving birth to them anyhow yaghayagha?







Pls elucidate more on ur subject

I see people go for family planning after 1 or 2 children,it makes me wonder that since it God that open the womb of hannah and rachel,why close the womb so dat children should cease coming for some years.Without faith we cannot please God,he shuld be the one to decide when and how many we have since they are gift.If it just by going intimacy that we have kids what about those that have none after several years of marriage.i also learnt some churches don't agree to it.Now that mean condom,withdrawal and all sort of family planning is a sin if we look at it very well.so if it finance and any other reason that make christians do it God knows ur state we are not wiser than him.

stylesco:
I didn't ask you guys to analyse my marriage .
if you don't have anything to say as regards the topic just move along.

like husband like wife.it seems ur lyf is in ur hands,go do cs go die.see how person dey wish inself bad luck.well i had my 2 kids via vaginal delivery am still tight,sex is even painful during penetration some times.

This is not pmb fault or gej,The end has come people should turn back to God.

What do u say about those giving out their dignity out just for fun and to add more to their collection of various dick.And what bill should make one a LovePeddler!

koolaid87:
Yes Dear, and on the other hand, its hard for most girls keeping up with 'em needs.

Not all girls are happy being cheap, but being decent ain't paying the bills.

God help every Nigerians out there.

The rate at which girls are cheap is alarming.

After i had my first child,i enjoyed sex like never before has my hubby tried new thing moving faster while doing the deed.The whole thing is different after my second son.i'm less n less interested about sex,google says breastfeeding could cause less sexual urge,though i breastfed my first child but he wasn't has demanding as the second.There are many reasons that could add up may be stress.i drop my pen ....

That is not love bro,u are obsses wit her.love shuldn't mk u attempt sucide.i won't be suprise if u dnt take d good and reasonable ans given to by nl.Seek jesus he lvs u more dan any1 cn.