searchiing4love:
people should stop criticizing the highest office in the country. Not every president will be a mumu like GEJ. God bless Buhari for clamping down on press freedom

ur head no correct

Merryglad:
The reality of father's day has not dawn on because i have not felt what is like to have a father. He is alive but he is as good as d**d, he has never been there, whenever the register of fathers is called he is always absent, i really want to celebrate him but there is nothing to celebrate........Happy fathers day to all the present fathers

why do u say dat,did he abandon u or wat?am curious.

Merryglad¤ if she can abstain after given birth then going to school without marriage is fine,if she can't please let her marry the father of her baby since he has accept the pregnancy rather than living a life of sin.In addition married women still dey go skull.Abi which work person way give am pikin dey do?

Edo man,just ask our fada for heaven to help,cast ur burden unto him.NL no dey helep at all.den go say go find work as if work even dey town.When i genuinly need help nah so i come ask o, no insult way dem no give me.the person way i collect in acct nah in find me 1k sef,shame even katch me.

Hmmn!End time wife

Pidggin:


Of course I know you will leave out the part where the scriptures says "God has called you to live in peace" and "the Christian partner is free to act"

Is her husband acting as if he wants to live in the same house with her? If someone consistently beats and bullies the other does he not show by his actions that he doesn't want peace and he doesn't want her there?

Okay she should wait until her last breath to hear him say he wants some time alone abi? SMH

chapter 11 stated clearly that wife do not separat 4rm ur husband,stating again that if u do remain unmarried or be reconciled.Can she stay unmarried and also not commit adultery?

Pidggin:


Cor. 7:15

This passage u shud read again and again.it says if the unbeliving partner go" u as a believer is not bound to him,and let him go.it is a different issue entirely & it does nt apply to all marriages.it apply to marriage btw a beliver & an unbeliver.in addition it does not say the beliver shud leave.

Ujoan and crackhaus this ona drama dey sweet me o chai--exchange of insult oya carri go.

Nancy2016:


I don't think I quoted you but if you think being a true christian is letting your spouse beat you to death or not divorcing an abusive spouse, then I had rather follow my own kind of Christianity.

ok

Nancy2016:


So if she doesn't catch her husband cheating on her she should die in this loveless marriage? You should be very careful with the kind of advice you give to people.

That why being a true christian is not easy,there is nothing wrong with my advice.

Pidggin:
Here is my take from a Christian perspective : You need to endure your mum's harshness for a while since you don't have a choice now. Give yourself extra six months to learn a skill, sewing or hairdressing preferably.

While learning try making friends with people around you maybe one of them will be sympathetic and allow you share accommodation with them

Once you have acquired a skill, look for money and start your business. If you have a means of income 50% of your problems will be solved

As for your husband, please expose the way he treats you to his family members. Talk to your aunt one on one to win her over, if she loves you she will be on your side.

If your husband is not ready to stop beating you like the way he is doing now, you will be safer elsewhere until he changes.

Remember God hates divorce but he is not opposed to separation if you are experiencing this level of sadness in your marriage

pls which part of the bible support 'separation'

Being wondering if seeing ones period vary from each child birth,i saw mine when my first child turn 4 month,my second child is past 4 month and 'no show',i know i'm not pregnant.I would like moms to comment on their experience,i.e those that have had more than one birth.

Nowenuse:


This is the dumbest comment av seen in a while.

A Southern kaduna girl will sleep with u because she loves u and she is not materialistic in nature. That is nothing but true love! This is why u see crime rates very low among Jos and southern kaduna indigenes because their men are not compelled to do evil to make money just to satisfy the materialistic needs of their women. Get that fact right.



I hope this wonderful comment has done justice to u! @Fastpace

The truth remain the truth.i'm sure of what am saying don't try to give meaning to what am sayin to suit ur self.

To find a wife material 4rm southern kaduna is hard,they cheat alot on their spouse.single ones,u can bed them with little as a plate of indomie also they commonly have kids out of wedlock perpharps as a result of being cheap...the good part though they don't like abortion.

This is very true

For 3 month now d polio vaccine pple neva show 4 my area for 3 month nw...dis govt of 1 chance jst wan cripple everytin.abi which kin bad change b dis.

Leave cbn alone Talk about polio-immunization that has stop in kaduna state.

Jazebels of our time...Men shine ur eyes o §Big yansh nah big Trouble o.

Babztemmy:
I have being married for 5years and sadly I still dont feel so close to my husband. I got the bible says when two come together they become one. That is that become friends, right? But sadly it doesn't feel like it. My hubby is the kind that likes FULL time respect; greet me when you wake up in the morning, great me when I come back from work, (yes wives please greet your hubbys oo) am heading somewhere with this please dont judge me yet, don't go out without telling me, don't put your hands in my pocket, what are you looking for, don't talk .

While am talking (that is even understandable tho) many more I can't mention. Don't tap me on my shoulders if you want to talk to me, don't, don't, don't.

He also isn't romantic, he hates me been romantic around him, it gets him upset. Its been 4years plus and we still argue ALOT. I thought they said the first 3years is the time of misunderstandings but its 4years now and still nothing has really changed.

Sometimes i try to make him talk maybe am not doing something right, and he just always seems to find a fault. Either I don't have respect or I don't have respect or I don't obey him everything calls to respect. Well it's not like I don't respect him or I just wake up in the morning and start disrespecting him. No, it's always in the cause of an argument so while am trying to justify myself or win the case, the disrespect sorts of crops it's way in, but fews hours later you will see me back all over him, trying to make peace but by then I have lost all my worth. He is way closer to his mum and sister than even to me. He prefers to Share all his secrets with them than with me.

Last two weeks was like the saddest day of my life in this marriage journey. He bought a car for his mum, he didn't tell me, the car slept in the house over night I didn't know, on my way back from my outing I saw my hubby in a new car driving down with his mum, In amazement I came down to ask whose car it was and how come I was kept in the dark, then his mum said "it's my car didn't you know?" I felt like a stranger all over again. I called his mum on the phone few mins after I left the embarrasing scene to ask why her son didn't share the good news to me knowing fully well i'm not against him buying her a car. And she said my husband said i didn't greet my hubby the night before and also that morning. Yes I remeber not greeting him the night before cause we had little issue and i just thought to do small shakara, then my not greeting him that morning wasn't intentional, I even apologised immediately my husband cautioned me and I thought we were fine. But I guess we weren't. This is where friendship comes in marriage. No matter what your partner does( as long as it's not adultery or some other serious things I know some women can do.) I feel you should still be able to still give her the respect due. Abi I really wish out vind could grow stronger, it's bin 4years and my hubby doenst know my dress size, or shoe size or favorite artist or favourite food, my choice of music, my choice of anything, he hardly laughs at my joke, I can't tickle him or throw a pillow at him he will term it as lack of repect, I can't call him "ode"while joking he will say am rude, It's plenty ooo. I thought marriage was more you both becoming friends. Don't you think life is too short to be rigid ALL the time. My husband is very rigid it scares me alot if I would be able to go on for long.. I love him very much than anything in the world but he doesn't feel that way or that much for me. Not like he doesn't love me. But I think I love him more. So we are probably not on the same page. i want to be the one he can run to anyday anytime, share his secrets with, want to be the one that has the power to put the best smile on his face, but each time i try, i fail. WHY?? Is there still hope.

Anyone in the house who has testimonies of marriage getting better after 4years. Cause i feel if you fail the first 3years you may never get it right. Mhen ladies you got to get it RIGHT from the beginning to avoid stories..

Internet couples' leave us alone wit una drama.First nah broda in-law,den Mama,nw nah hubby....abeg mk we hear word jare.Ur hubby doesn't seem lyk wat u describe him to be abi no b MOUTHCUFF wey una dey yabb una slf...in be` lara yin,,,

ZeusZuco:
dude lol

am no DUDE

Honestly u should have not think of what society or so called family will say and say NO to that marriage when u had d chance,if u are a christian u can leave only when u catch him cheatin red - handed, hence u hv to put up with this bitter marriage.i respect my parent but when it comes to matters that concern my future i make my final decision.
Parent are selfish alot nowadays.Pray to God,fast too for that man to change nothing is impossible for God.i feel ur pain.

Madam,is ur husband ready to hold the 9 month old baby for u and also care for her needs while u are away?if nt how will u manage at d new job offer,though u have nt state what type of job dont go tellin dem u pregnant this tym o.But pardon me to say dis i tink ur hubby is selfish..to give u #100 is a problem,how many women will gv their salary as u did,though u shuld have told him hw u feel.Whether there is food at home u might still need cash for other reason.pray for ur marriage,stop coming to nland for help, go to God.

Polio-immunization done stop ney..they no dey come southern kaduna side again.this el-rufai and fanatism ehn.,

Your hubby told u not to terminate that baby,as a submissive wife u should listen to him,if u can't hear him is it nlanders that u will hear.Have bn in a similar situation has u. i listened to my husband & and trust God and blive me we have not being put to shame.it is tym 4 u and ur husband to pray hard,cast ur burden unto God cause he cares.

eyinjuege:
Fastpace, it may be a good idea if you go to your place of worship and solicit for help there. At least they know you and your family there, and can verify your claims.

It doesn't really speak well of you to beg from strangers.

There are manual jobs that can also be done by you to make ends meet. You can offer to go and clean and help people in their homes so you can get paid.

There is dignity in labor and don't feel any job is beneath you provided you're not stealing or committing fraud.

Your husband too needs to buckle up and try provide for his family even if it means doing manual jobs too.

Then the idea of you collecting a man friend's account no to post online doesn't also speak well of you. Does your husband know about this your male friend whom you're collecting his acct no upandan?

My husband will hang me if ever he finds out,bn wondering what to tell him abt the help.

eyinjuege:
Fastpace, it may be a good idea if you go to your place of worship and solicit for help there. At least they know you and your family there, and can verify your claims.

It doesn't really speak well of you to beg from strangers.

There are manual jobs that can also be done by you to make ends meet. You can offer to go and clean and help people in their homes so you can get paid.

There is dignity in labor and don't feel any job is beneath you provided you're not stealing or committing fraud.

Your husband too needs to buckle up and try provide for his family even if it means doing manual jobs too.

Then the idea of you collecting a man friend's account no to post online doesn't also speak well of you. Does your husband know about this your male friend whom you're collecting his acct no upandan?

My husband will hang me if ever he finds out,bn wondering what to tell him wen i get response.

Anabell2:


It's Ok Solomon

may be u shud check my profile.mocking mocker..

Anabell2:


Really?

Hilarious!

You collected a MALE friend's account to solict for funds not your husband's account .

“Pull the other one (it's got bells on)!”

.dnt nd to explain a tin to u ana.

mikeywise:

What do you guys gain in scamming people of their hard earned money?
Samson Solomon Ita becareful before you incure the wrath of God.

That is my friend,i personaly have not open an acct yet,collected his to seek help here and am nt a scam.

is ur husband not workin?if he is then there is no nd to bother much.u shud nt allow depression in ur condition.ur employer must be one of such people that feels pregnancy make a person ineffective,God can mk anoda way if one way close.pray&have faith.

Given is never by force,and i neva said its my right.my reason are already stated in this thread.every one has their problem of cause that why giving is sacrificial.Those quotin me & sayin trash are clearly imature.cud it b that the positive response i received is nw ur skin pain.

Come on!Unbelivers can go to any length to be financialy successful:by cheatin,covetin,devlish means,the list goes on.Belivers on the other hand have the fear of God and don't do the extrem to get wealth.No matter how,we wil stil hav d poor amongs us,we hv rich belivers n we hv poor ones.we have poor unbelivers and rich ones.dyin a poor beliver is not a sin,the important thing is our walk with jesus and eternal life wit him.every one has a choice.makin a good one is nt by force.