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mightykay:
u er nt going anywhere cos im nt done wt u yet. If it is curing u today is d only thing i achieve and for d sake of our society I will be glad because ur deliverance needs combination of conglonmerate annointed fire brands and uncompromising men n women of Almighty God. Nigeria must be cleaned up

infogenius:
If you die doing the right thing, it is far better than to be foolish to live to do more wrongs.

I must admit here that she was not raped as you were meant to think, she allowed them to have a carnal knowledge of her to save her husband.
It was her choice.

Check the meaning of rape again

I understand now that you are a learner and I will no longer respond to whatever you say because you know nothing.
Well to tell you , I believe I am more learned than you in all spheres of life except foolishness.

Enjoy!

infogenius:
Yes I prefer that than to cause my wife to sin against God.

This is not common sense brother, tell your religious leader I call it higher sense.

I can authoritatively tell you that you live a fearful and chickly life. And honestly, you won't achieve much spiritually and physically this way.

Most probably end up a failure.

I proudly say I belong to the camp of the bold that stands on the truth from the Bible not willing to compromise even my life to stand for the truth than to join a camp of chickens like yours to please people.

Fear God my friend and damn any idiot. And tell me if God won't stand for you.

infogenius:
An idiot like you should fear God not even an armed robber. A robber that is a mortal like you.
Coward!

Imagine your foolish sense of reasoning. Tell your children this spew whenever you have one.

"That they can sleep with mummy if told to do so at gun point"

Wisdom is not for all and I am not surprised you don't have any.

infogenius:
I see that you are shallow minded. Possibly having the fish brain and fishy way of thinking.

You call me a saddist and buffoon for stating a deep fact.

Listen to me, any woman that open her legs for any man besides her husband has disrespected and abused her marriage.

You don't go about opening your legs for fools and I watch the scene for about 10 minutes and you want me to say well done and praise your heroics.

I think you need to wake up and reset your brain.
For God's sake, how many real men have you heard of patted the backs of their wives for sleeping around without their consent to save his ailing health or to meet the immediate need of the family?
Tell me one real man.

If your man can pat your back for doing so, tell him I said he is a weakling and a buffoon

You think a man marries a wife for decoration?

A Man boosts his value through his wife and if for any reason outside an agreement of the husband a woman gives out the cherished pot of honey,that value is eroded.

If a woman is raped off the presence of the man, then he does his best to rally around and support her. Which I support.

You don't need to call me names for telling you what you don't know or for stating my opinion. I don't need to please anyone which includes you with my comment on a sensitive issue like this.

What transpired that night may go a long way to affect their generation.

Maybe you think it is a joke.

Many marriages have struggled today because many women in particular do not know the place and value of their husband's in the family and vice versa.

People mess up anyhow thinking that is all to life and they can be forgiven if they are eventually found out. That is why marriages are breaking up anyhow today like glass cups.

Simply because the woman or the man does not understand or have the necessary depth of understanding of the value and their roles in marriage.

My dear you still have a long way to go. Open your brain and learn beyond what you see and hear about marriage because they are not deep enough to take you far.

infogenius:
I see that you are shallow minded. Possibly having the fish brain and fishy way of thinking.

You call me a saddist and buffoon for stating a deep fact.

Listen to me, any woman that open her legs for any man besides her husband has disrespected and abused her marriage.

You don't go about opening your legs for fools and I watch the scene for about 10 minutes and you want me to say well done and praise your heroics.

I think you need to wake up and reset your brain.
For God's sake, how many real men have you heard of patted the backs of their wives for sleeping around without their consent to save his ailing health or to meet the immediate need of the family?
Tell me one real man.

If your man can pat your back for doing so, tell him I said he is a weakling and a buffoon

You think a man marries a wife for decoration?

A Man boosts his value through his wife and if for any reason outside an agreement of the husband a woman gives out the cherished pot of honey,that value is eroded.

If a woman is raped off the presence of the man, then he does his best to rally around and support her. Which I support.

You don't need to call me names for telling you what you don't know or for stating my opinion. I don't need to please anyone which includes you with my comment on a sensitive issue like this.

What transpired that night may go a long way to affect their generation.

Maybe you think it is a joke.

Many marriages have struggled today because many women in particular do not know the place and value of their husband's in the family and vice versa.

People mess up anyhow thinking that is all to life and they can be forgiven if they are eventually found out. That is why marriages are breaking up anyhow today like glass cups.

Simply because the woman or the man does not understand or have the necessary depth of understanding of the value and their roles in marriage.

My dear you still have a long way to go. Open your brain and learn beyond what you see and hear about marriage because they are not deep enough to take you far.

GenAnsahCinC:
[Yes, i talk normal with him. He do call me on phone whenever he's at work. He smiles with me, we eat together. But in bed he refuses to touch me. He backs me when sleeping. I don't really want sex. That's not my aim. My husband is a man who enjoys sex I was afraid that if I don't give it to him, he might get it somewhere else. That was why I demanded for sex and I was surprised when he refuses. Sometimes he would lie in the bed with eyes open thinking. Whenever I woke up to see him awake I'll asked him what the matter was he will tell me nothing happened he just don't feel sleepy. I feel guilty. If not for the sake of my daughter I would have asked for divorce so I can stay out of his life and let him have a new life.

HungerBAD:
Team Edo all the way.

Flawless Skin. Perfect teeth. Authentic Traditional Beads. Less Make Up. Wife material.

Quakertellicus1:
Actually, menopause can occur at any time between the ages of 45 and 55 years of age.

In some women it may start at 35 years old.

Even then, it is a process lasting years. And it does not mean that your periods stop immediately. It occurs over time.

But usually by 55 or 56 years of age, a woman should have stopped seeing her period.

So basically, a woman of 52 years old who sees her periods regularly can have a baby or babies at that age...and then a year later the periods stop. Or a woman can have periods till she is 47 and then they stop. It varies from woman to woman.

ifyan:
I was argue this topic with my colleague. He shed more light on this using the scripture to back up his claim.

But to be sincere family planning is very important especially a place like Africa.

I will even plead with African leader to look into this.

Thanks

classicB:
I cannot believe this. Please keep on breeding kids till you reach menopause. Why not? Is it not God that would pay their school fee? Give then the best medical care? Provide job for them in this overpopulated Nigeria? Something's require common sense. How mNy kids does oyedepo, Adeboye, pastor Chris and the rest have? Oh! They stopped having kids Cod God could no longer afford to take care of the kids the earlier you and your type realise that You take responsibility for the kids you bear the better. No God will come down from heaven to help a delusioned woman like u. Your type are the reasons why Nigeria is where it is today. Imagine each family having a minimum of 12kids, how will the resources of the land be enough to feed the overpopulated nation? How would graduate get jobs? How would hospitals and d rest cope? Nigerian rich Pastors are sending their kids abroad to get the best out of life, and you're here wanting to have kids you will end up not being able to take care of. Religion is killing us in this country

SirWere:
So now Family planning is against God's will








Bereft of common sense....





I tire oooo

freshcvvs:
Why not jump and pass religious sinner.

What does an unbeliever do that you don't do?

HardMirror:
You see what I said about christian ladies level of intelligence? Smh
Go to court and see those getting divorced and come back and tell me about prayers. You are so myopic. If you dated me and I hide my atheism from you, your only complain would be that I don't go to church and I know how to make that not seem important.
Sure you think there are no atheists doing far better than christians keep living in delusion.
It is your type that is easy to fool in the name of god.

cloudgoddess:
I am truly sad to read this.

One of the worst aspects of religion is the disgusting and unnecessary divisiveness it causes between people who would otherwise be perfectly compatible. The deep brainwashing that religion requires to thrive makes people believe they truly can not be with a "non-(insert your favorite brand of dogma here)" and experience lasting love and happiness.

What they don't realize is that the ONLY difference between them and an atheist is that they've unquestioningly accepted lies disguised as truth, while the atheist has come to recognize the farce and call it what it is.

Every single feature that makes us human - our capacity to feel pain and joy, our desire for connection, our blood and veins and cellular machinery - is shared between a religious person and an atheist. The ONLY dividing agent here is stupid ideas that have persisted for far too long.

All I can say OP is that I'm genuinely sorry for your predicament. I'm sending compassion your way.

And to all the Christians in this thread basically shrugging and insinuating it's his fault, turn around and look at your "faith" and what it causes. Anything that thrives on division and "us vs. them" is very likely a LIE. Anything that has to be taken on faith rather than solid evidence is very likely a LIE. Anything that requires childhood indoctrination and brainwashing to succeed is very likely a LIE. You are happily watching relationships crumble over lies that you've been brainwashed with & have refused to examine critically. Clap for yourselves.

HardMirror:
I have been in your shoes.
You have 3 choices, get an atheist to marry , get someone who does not care about your religion (met many ladies like that willing to marry an atheist even tho they are christians) or pretend to be a christian, get married and withdraw from religious activities gradually after.
Believe me, if you are a good husband she won't let you go.
I have about 2 ex girlfriends that know I am an atheist they are scared of getting married to me because atheism seems so strange to them, but yet they don't want to let go.

Afrok:
Huh ... they did well by giving him Mercy Johnson coz any single and succulent lady might end up having it REAL behind the scene

skypeme:
Lack of home training so she is been fucking since 18years.