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Thinee:
Met this girl early November 2019 , we were both serving corp members, we actually flowed along, talking late into the night and so on. After the festive period 2019 December we came back to our PPA and we started dating, I found out she was a virgin. I was asurprised cus I never expected a graduate to still keep her virginity till nysc, we kept on dating tho , along the line I passed out of service and went back home (p.s I reside in lagos and shes from ilorin). The distance was giving me a lot of issues so we broke up around April 2020
Fast forward to October last year, I came back to delta state( that's where I served ) and she was almost done with her service, so things took off from there , I begged her back and we started dating once more, even tho she had a new guy she was dating ( based in ilorin also)she said she never stopped loving me and I also discovered she was still a virgin after that long period of time I left her.
We talked about everything and she said she was willing to leave the guy , and also allow me take her virginity, she went back home after her service that October, with the plan of coming back November so we could build a future together. She was also ready to give me her virginity cus we talked allot about sex even while she was away ( she was ready right from the first time we broke up ) but me going back home after my service change a lot of things .
She came back from ilorin December and we started living together, she does a lot of things , all house chores and cook also , I also assist her , especially in cooking because I also love cooking and like preparing my dishes.
We kept on postponing the time we were gon have sex, like I wanted it to be her decision , never wanted to force her. One month passed she wasn't still ready, Only for her to tell me that there's something attached to her virginity, that anyone that disvirgin her would be the person to marry her , that I have to go see her parents first before I can take her virginity. That really got me pissed off cus she knows I'm very sexually active and got a high libido, but I'm this kinda guy that sticks to one person, as far as I am getting all my needs from her......what pissed me off was the fact that she came over from ilorin to delta state knowing we weren't going to have sex and she never told me all that on phone ( probably I would have had a rethink about her coming back)
I'm 24 and shes 22 , the issue now is that tho I'm okay and I have a online job I'm doing that fetches me money atleast for upkeep and also to spare cus I live in a comfortable self con apartment with every thing I need in it..., But Ive not yet gather enough money to be able to get married, cus I don't want to bring a child into this world to suffer , so I made up my mind to be very comfortable with atleast 10 to 15million in my account before I can be able to get married so I can give my children what they need.
Now she has been staying with me up to two months now without sex ,cus I don't want to cheat on her and she's not even ready to offer the sex . I'm getting frustrated everyday with her attitude and I'm also planning of sending her back to ilorin so we can just be dating distantly till we are ready to get married and I can be free to be with any one I want to over here , cus I've got a lot of girls over here ready to be with me but I pushed all of them away cus of her , now she's no ready to give me the one thing lacking in our relationship
I don't believe in relationship without sex, cus if I'm keeping her here to get married and she ends up jilting me I'll be the one at loss....and I don't want that ...
I don't know what to do and I really want to know if sending her back to ilorin is the best option so we can date distantly, cus I really don't think if I can cope with lack of sex and I can't be with someone else cus she stays at my place
Please I need your matured advice with no insults please

P.S she's a very good girl and from a good family, and I'm also a good guy from a good family and I also wouldn't like to loss her , but my libido is telling on me

Brainiac12:
Yeah I'll always beef until you apologise

Brainiac12:
Yeah I'll send you transport someday make I test from the hole wey you get

Brainiac12:
What more can the hoe say?

Brainiac12:
I can do this all day you know?? And I'll still make money!!
You caused my previous ban!!
Until you apologise I'll continue to beef you!!
Arrogant brat

Brainiac12:
YEAH LIKE YOUR MOTHER!!!
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ONA DEY SEE THIS LITTLE BRAT?

Brainiac12:
I can do this all day you know?? And I'll still make money!! You caused my previous ban!! Until you apologise I'll continue to beef you!! Arrogant brat

Mode4:
I actually feel like commiting suicide but I am worried about my family most especially my mum, if it's my dad and siblings I won't mind. Another reason is GOD. I'm aware taking one's life is a sin and one might end up in hell. I don't want to burn in hell if it really exist.

To me I think Jesus arranged for his own death through Judas. The whole sacrifice of him dying for us was prearranged. So I seriously want someone to kill me. I jus wanna die, through a gunshot most preferably, something real quick.

Brainiac12:
And what is fati2001 doing here?

Ehn o.losho?

nniero11:
hahahahaha
This is not the real "DAMN NIGGAR"
BABA SHEY NA UR DOUBLE BE THIS??
FATI2001 ZZOR AND CO SLAWORMIR IS BACK

nniero11:
hahahahaha
This is not the real "DAMN NIGGAR"
BABA SHEY NA UR DOUBLE BE THIS??
FATI2001 ZZOR AND CO SLAWORMIR IS BACK

NeoWanZaeed:
TELL HIM YOUR ARE BASTARD. PACK UR BAGS GO SIT DOWN FOR TINUBU GATE SAY HIM BE UR DAD

Abilistic:

Nairalandwizerd:
you are the one talking unnecessary here. Na true yarn the guy dey yarn.

Nonexistent:
Kiss my ass, ugly girl.

Nonexistent:
Kiss my ass again.

Nonexistent:
Kiss my ass.

Nonexistent:
I see a goat faced ugly fool who is confused about her gender cancel someone's writeup up there only to write nonsense. To the topic; DNA test has come to the limelight and it will stay, for a long time. There is nothing oloshos who disguise as wives and girlfriends can do about it.

aleeyus:
please tell me I'm also from norther east

aleeyus:
But why did you hide as a woman 4 all dis time?

thebosstrevor1:
Nigerian men cheat, Nigerian women cheat, people should stop being suprised when Nigerian women cheat, they are cheating with Nigerian men.

So it is will very hypocritical for one sex to throw accusation on another, it takes 2 consenting adults to cheat.( male and female)

The man who cheats on his wife will be angry when she cheats on him, don't be, you guys are even, rather than kill yourself, divorce and move on.

The boyfriend who cheats on his girlfriend will almost commit suicide when she cheats on him.

Nigerian men want exclusive sex while cheating but can't handle it when their idealised "goddesses" plays similar game on them.

Nigerian Men call Nigerian women fish brain but how come it is the men who suffers from the effect of cheating the most.

This is a lesson, You cant have your cake and eat it too.

aleeyus:
Fati jokes aside
Are you really a man?

Frankraj:
was discussing with my fiance about this issue of DNA , I told her I will like to take our kids for the test

She said she will make sure our children resemble me well well

My question now is why will she use the word making sure. If I'm the only one sleeping with her it's automatically the kids will resemble me in one way or the other . This is really confusing me .

Guys What does mean exactly

aleeyus:
oh you're a man now
thank god u see the light

aleeyus:
I pity your man

cozy7:
[B] Guys, since we all know that doing a DNA test is kinda expensive in Nigeria (averagely), I strongly suggest we go old school...

Visit your wife's office, if she has a shop, check her customers, if she does online business, check major customers, check neighbours, check her pastor..... Keep checking and see if there's any resemblance oo. If there is, do d needful before its too late.

U don't even need your wife's consent (or knowledge), quietly take a strand of hair, blood or finger nails and go check if you've been wasting your money on another person's child all these while.

Go to clubs, even olosho sef get husbands n bfs, so what are talking abt?


OR WHAT DO U THINK?? [/b]