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This is a seriuos one here,follow it hrt my dear nd don't always seek advice frm people concerning ur relationship life.

Something like dis is happening to me right now,my 4yrs bf is seeing some other gal nd I asked him,all he could tell me is dat she is a friend,later again dat she is his school mate back in d days,until d day I found out dat he went to a hotel wit d gal in question but lied to me dat he went to do ware bill,but wen I nd one of his friend called him,he happen to be in a cool environmrnt,not noisy area,he cheated on me nd he is lying,I have no choice but to confront d gal nd he called me nd started shouting at me for me for calling d gal nd even end call on me because of her,am scared opf my realtionship wit him nd we have really been in dis relationship for 4yrs + now,advice me on wat to do pls.

This is wickedness,its something he need to discuss wit u not in dis manner,am sorry to say dis but ur husband is a beast not human being,he doesn't feel anything for you a,he is using u for christ sake,wat kind of a world are we living tnto,he is cruel nd selfish.

[quote author=martyns303 post=37070524]Let me start by giving you guys a brief description of where I stay as it is a vital cue to this story. 


I live in a compound with other flats, where the shortest conversation between neighbours is "good morning" and the longest is "please come and move your car, I want to go out". It is the kind of compound where you go to bed with your generator on, only for you to wake up in the morning to find out that there had been light all through the night, and your neighbours had turned off their Gen without telling you. Don't tell me about the pains of child birth, there is nothing more painful than looking at your fuel gauge like "my precious". By now you guys get the message, in pidgin "nobody send you". 


Now back to me, I had just concluded a professional course and was just sitting at home waiting for something to come up, that is just a fancy way of saying am jobless. But I am not searching for one, so all you NL scammers gats stay off. Without anything to do, I sit at home watching movies, and just lazing around. "My grandma just died and I am the man of the house", actually my grandma died a long time ago, I only just got my own place now. With me staying at home while everyone else in the compound goes to work or a few people that don't, I see everything that goes on, making me the all seeing eye (nope I am not affiliated to the illuminati).


A couple of months ago a young couple moved into the compound, the girl looks 25 max while the guy looks 28, they seem happy and in love, but at least once every month I will hear the girl crying profusely, I would hear her crying and lamenting, saying things like Jesus ooo, God oooo, ehhhhhhh, God please help me, I can't take this anymore, ewoo, etc then I would hear her snapping her fingers. I am probably the most soft hearted male, cos I would be feeling really sad, I don't know what a soul is, but I feel really depressed and saddened in my soul each time. If you have watched titanic, the part where Jack placed Rose on the floating stuff, you can't control the tears rolling down ur cheeks or standing in your eyes, and that's how I feel hearing this girl cry like that. Sometimes her sister would come and this has been going on for months. 


Two days ago, I heard the wife crying again, and since my compound is where no one cares, nobody has ever bothered to go in and ask what's happening, but I have had enough and was ready to confront the guy, i am going to give him a piece of my mind and Damn the consequences, so on this day I walked into their flat, the parlour door was open so I just walked in, on getting in, I found the girl in pants and bra, with wrapper half way her stomach, the guy is sitting by her side with a side stool, on the floor are packs of medication, bottled water, what looks like custard and other stuffs. When I walked in that wasn't the sight I was expecting, I had hoped to see the guy beating the living day light out of his fiancee, and me yelling at him to stop. I may have been frozen for like 15 secs while I absorb what's going on. I managed to say a weak sorry, turned around and walked out. The guy followed me immediately and asked what I wanted, I explained to him how I had heard his fiancee crying and wanted to make sure she is ok. "She is fine, thanks for your concern" then walked away, I know he is pissed at me walking into their apartment like that, and even the worst, seeing his woman like that. Damn what was I thinking sef! 


When I got back to my flat, the movie felt sour, couldn't concentrate on anything, all I could think of is how I am going to compose my words and apologize to the guy and his fiancee. This morning I saw him washing his car, so I walked up to him and started reciting my memorized apology. Planning is the key people, cos with the way I said what I said it hit him cold. The guy started explaining what's going on to me without me even asking. Apparently that's how the fiancee gets into pains whenever it's that time of the month for her, he said the pains could be excruciating for her. He said it's a part of her he's only getting to know as they only moved in together a few months ago, he has advice her going to see a doctor but she rebuffed the idea saying it is a normal thing. He explains how he goes through sleepless nights, boiling water and putting it in a plastic bowl with cover so she can place it on the stomach, buying pain relieves, he mentioned quite a bit of pain relieves, but that they seem to do little. He felt bad cos he is now of the idea that the rest of the neighbors may also have the perception of him being an abusive guy without knowing what's going on, told me he had to take days off from work sometimes to stay with her and when he can't, her sister comes around. 


In my attempt to be nice, I had promised to find a solution to his problem. Don't blame me, at that moment I just want to be nice and get myself out of the mess I got in and appear a good friend. 


So please, if there is anyone out here who knows why this guy's fiancee is going through so much pains, and if it's normal, are there home remedies, herbs or medical prescriptions that could help her situation, please help a brother out. Dankie!!!


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[S/quote]She should buy Felvin medicine,then drink 2 capsules out of d medicine,she will be fine.

Ephemmm:
He will chop you and leave you. Guys like side chicks without serious attachment. Who told you that he is not in love with that lady in question? By the time he is fed up with sleeping with you, he will silence all the questions you raise in the future with - 'didn't I tell you that I am in relationship in the first time?'.

If you succeed in dating him, another lady will succeed you too because karma is there for you. All in all, you will have yourself to be blamed, honestly.

nice advice

This lady in question here needs ur advice,not judging her,my love! wat u have to do is just leave dat relationship nd open ur hrt for some1 specially made for ya dat will not give u hrt break again in ur lyf,gudluck.

What will u do if u find out that ur boyfriend that has been faithfull to u is now cheating on u nd u noticed it,now he has changed his character towards u.

U don't have to mind wat they re saying,just go on nd tell us how we can have dis pink or red lips naturally.

My boyfriend is cheating on me,how can I forgive him?

Its a pity dat some people re suffering frm Dark armpit,dark kneels,nd dark feet,can some one pls share wit us wat can be done to get rid of them.

What re they trying to say,ls there no money in Nigeria account or wat

What re they trying to say,ls there no money in Nigeria account or wat.

I like them hot nd sexy(sexy papa)

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She is a beautiful woman

The house is beautiful,u people should compliment it naa

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