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Me,I will just use nigeria to borrow thousand of dollars from,south Korean !!

Vaughanlanrewaj:
Reminds me of Aso Odun( Christmas wears) we grew up wearing during festivities
He is looking good though. God bless Anambra. God bless Nigeria.

e b like say u serve in anambra state?

I don't know if you are a christian? If yes I want you to take note of this 3points.

1. You are not alone.
Psalm 9:9 promises us that “The LORD is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble.”

Your pain, fear, anger, and sadness are not too much for God. God loves you just as much today as He did the day He created you. God sees you in your pain and grieves with you, just like He does for all of His children.

After being physically and emotionally abused, a woman named Hagar finally decided she couldn’t take it anymore. She runs away, but in Genesis 16, an angel of the Lord meets her along the road and tells her that her story isn’t over. “She gave this name to the Lord who spoke to her: ‘You are the God who sees me,’ for she said, ‘I have now seen the One who sees me’” (Genesis 16:13).

God wants to comfort you and heal you — even if you’re angry at Him. If you’re mad at God, tell Him. He can take it. Pour out all your emotions. Don’t hold anything back. God will meet you in your pain. Just like He promises in Psalm 147:3, “[The Lord] heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”

2. It’s not your fault.
It can be easy to think, Well, maybe I should have … then this wouldn’t have happened.

It doesn’t matter what you were wearing, drinking, or doing. Rape and sexual assault are never your fault. Even if your attacker says, “You made me do it,” it’s not your fault.

At the time when God wrote the first rules for His people, women were considered a man’s property. God’s laws set Israel apart from its neighboring countries by elevating a woman’s status and protecting her. The punishment for rape was death for the rapist. The punishment for adultery was death of both parties involved, but God makes a distinction for rape: “Only the man who has done this shall die. Do nothing to the woman; she has committed no sin deserving death” (Deuteronomy 22:25-26).

Nothing you can do would ever make rape or assault your fault — God made that clear in His laws from the beginning. You did not deserve it. Rape is a sin, but it’s not your sin; it’s the sin of the person who harmed you against your will.

3. You are valuable.
Rape victim is not who you are. You are a daughter of the God who made the universe.

Your value comes from God. He created you, and He is the only one who can define you. You are not dirty or used up. You were fearfully and wonderfully made by a loving God (Psalm 139).

*My little advice is that you go for check up,relax your mind and let God fight for you my sister!!*

连中国女人都没有再付钱了

I was shocked and saddened to learn about the sudden demise of my dear friend Esther.
I have known her for a period of over four years during some session in university.we all started d race from 100level and we neva give up untill we graduated despite burning d candle night and all d stress we pass through u still decide to leave dis sinful world so early.she was more than a friend&course mate.she was very helpful, optimistic and championed the cause of a successful I.T&PROJECT works base on d joint&team spirit. She paid special attention to any body she had time for everybody. We all miss u.
I send my deepest condolences to her FAMILY nd the entire FACULTY OF SCIENCE & D GREAT BOTANY DEPARTMENT OF D DELTA STATE UNIVERSITY.
We shall miss her.
R.I.P. ESTHER...........FIRST TIME TO COMMENT HERE