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twoondei:
Before you curse the driver....

Think about it again. You're on a 120, perhaps 140 at night and someone runs into your car on a highway like 3MB. It's almost certain that the person will die or have some serious traumatic brain injury.

You stop and realize the guy is dead or you even see his brain smashed on the road. What will you do?

1. Stop and call for help, then touts show up to rob you
2. Speed off and inform the police after
3. Just ignore and wait to read the story on Nairaland

musabayokanu:
What's even special about the FTC self.
Anytime I hear FTC from all this baby Nairalander again Ogbuh go bend una mouth to eith east or west.
Rubbish!!!

missyadorable:
Small dic

englishmart:
Buhari cannot deny this, this definitely is his fault

hurricaneChris:
The Oba "have speak"

SexyStrawberry:
enrol her in an anger management institution, everyone has his/her flaws, she will get better with time, that's not an excuse not to marry her.

repogirl:
I am my husbands next of kin, my first daughter is mine, her younger brother is hers and his younger sister is his.

That was how my father planned ours also. Dad> mom>me>younger sis> etc.

Timoleon:
my side chick

Ezenwammadu:
Bubu sorry to burst your bubble but you are not the the Judge

Trailblazer1:
Hausa/Fulanis are very deadly,
They do not deserve to co-habit or be neighbours with any peace loving citizen either in a village, community, state or COUNTRY .

They go about molesting, stealing, killing and destroying.

Well, they are in political alliance with their host

So no matter their crimes, they can be forgiven by their host in order not to offend the president. Their beloved Sai baba

Goodluck to them

hurting:
Good day all! I never thought I will never create a topic like this because I believed I had a perfect love life. I have to create this moniker just for this topic that has and still eating me deep. I will try to make it as brief as possible.

I have been a relationship for 7yrs with the lady that I love beyond measures. I do anything possible within my reach to satisfy n make her happy. She has also been wonderful and almost perfect (nobody is). We started dating from uni days and where d pride n envy of many even after school.

After my service, I started looking for job but as things get murky in d labour market, I started a little ICT troubleshooting hustle, just to keep body n soul together before d job comes. Now this lady has been supportive all d way, after her service she moved to where am based, we managed what we have. She got a job while I was still doing what I do, I could provide for d daily running around like food, clothing, small bills, etc. I could pay my rent sometimes but atimes my siblings support me. When biz haven't been good.

Now this my lady resigned from where she was working because her female boss wasn't treating them well, tru one of my friends I secured a better paying n welfare job in a construction firm for her. We have been doing fine all this while but when I proposed to her she said we should wait till I get a better paying job. I make an average of 35-40k at d end of month but because I spend on what we need in d house I usually don't have it in bulk at d end of d month. She earns around 80k plus a car. Her new boss gives car loan to all his staff down to d secretary. She is an engineer there. She have been having this fear of lack because of what she faced as a child, so whenever d issue of marriage comes up she says I shld wait till I get a job n when ever her friends or mine wedd she cries n complain that I dnt want to marry her. I have promised her that we can make it with our present earnings n with time I will get that job. I knw I live far better than some married men in terms of finances.

This year I made up my mind to ask her for hand in marriage on vals day, but last week she gave me d shocker of my life, but telling me she had moved on because of my employment status. I have begged like I ave never begged anyone before, telling her that am very sure d job will come before d babies start coming. She told me she has found someone else and that she has made up her mind.

She still loves me, but the job issue I her phobia, dont get me wrong she is very decent n has been faithful all our yrs together. Right now my heart is torn to shreds, I don't sleep at night, I cry every night, I cant eat well, I have lost weight. Am I beginning to scare my self with d kind of suicidal thoughts I have these days. I have built my whole adult life around her, I try to let go but cant.

Pls nairalanders advice me before I do something drastic, I need all the advice I can get, am on job sites 24/7 now just to get something n probably win her back. She is not after riches just d basics. And for those that will lash me, I need it too, it might cheer me a bit.
Pls help a brother.

pls help me push this to FP I need all d advice I could get before its too late for me.

P.S. Sorry for any grammatical blunder n punctuation errors.

Adaowerri111:
Is the guy that famous? Haven't seen much yoruba movies though

Lousymouth:
If you are a frequent visitor of Nairaland, you will notice the acronym 'OP' being used in almost all the threads.... I was just wondering aloud... What is the meaning of this word OP and do we use it on Nairaland

Kindly don't ask ME TO ASK Google... Its just for us to educate ourselves.....