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God bless you sir..U said it all..Many people talk without reasoning at all..I remember my uncle told me a stoyr about one of these very popular politicians making name in nigeria today..they way he accomodated him while they were in school back then..and how the guy squatted with him for a long time until he got accomodation of his..And the guy being a very brilliant guy then in school and as well how they used to hang out 2geda and d guy would be carried back home drunk..as he was a heavy drinker then in school.Notwitstanding all the odda he still acomodated the guy with him..Cos he was more opportuned to be working and same time schooling..Today that friend of he's is one of the very reputable politicians we hear of 2day in this country and he has occupied very important positions in this country.My uncle becam very rich after struggling for so many years simply because of the kindness he showed dis guy back then in school..He got very big contracts from federal govt as a result of his relationship with that guy who is now a top politician in this country..We never can tell were we would meet each oda 2moro..So if we have d opportunity to be kind to people let's do it..cos the person u look down on 2day..U might one day look up to that person.So pls op whatever u want to do don't do with wisdom..4get about the wicked advise some ladies are givin u here cos women are known to be very inconsiderate and they only look at the now and not 2moro..Dats d same reason a girl would dump her boyfrnd 2day cos he isn't rich not considerin who her guy could be 2moro..

udz:
I have read through the comments and all I see in NL are kids. Even in marital and relationship advises, they are fast to judge and say break up or divorce. My guy, my experience on earth has made me to understand that this world is just vanity. If you have to ask him to leave, pls be considerate and mature and try to help him reconcile with the sister, show concern, if e no get job, try and tell him abt infos, encourage him to be independent. One thing is certain... CHANGE.
In my school days, I harboured a friend who got admission. He told me he was searching for accomodation but later I found out that the folks was even finding it hard paying ther fees and admission stuffs. So with my mind, I just born, I no even ask am if e dey find house again. He stayed for a whole session and he respected me for that. He left after his first yr when he was able to settle well. His folks were always calling me thanking. I finished and served before him without securing a job. He finished and secured a job in a big city. When I decided to relocate to the big city, guess what I stayed i his house, searched and found a job. stayed for extra months, before I gathered enough money have my own space. His house was mine, he was cool with it. So pls, if the guty is trying to find his feet, encourage him. Dont make it worse. Thank you.

If you are truely born again like you claim you would know it is absolutely wrong to discuss your sexual and private marital life in a public forum..You are automaitcally seeking the counsel of the ungodly..cos you should know that a forum of dis kind is filled with different types of people with different religious backgrounds and even unbelievers..U better go and study the word for yourself and find out what the bible says about marriage..Don't also forget that you and your husband have now become one flesh..Read psalm 1 from verse 1..U would know that coming here to share such is even the real sin.Its your private marital life so face it tru the word of God.Simple.Also note that there is no limitation to sexual fantacies in marriage dats why its called marriage..U too av become one flesh.

If you are truely born again like you claim you would know it is absolutely wrong to discuss your sexual and private marital life in a public forum..You are automaitcally seeking the counsel of the ungodly..cos you should know that a forum of dis kind is filled with different types of people with different religious backgrounds and even unbelievers..U better go and study the word for yourself and find out what the bible says about marriage..Don't also forget that you and your husband have now become one flesh..Read psalm 1 from verse 1..U would know that coming here to share such is even the real sin.Its your private marital life so face it tru the word of God.Simple.Also note that there is no limitation to sexual fantacies in marr

If you are truely born again like you claim you would know it is absolutely wrong to discuss your sexual and private marital life in a public forum..You are automaitcally seeking the counsel of the ungodly..cos you should know that a forum of dis kind is filled with different types of people with different religious backgrounds and even unbelievers..U better go and study the word for yourself and find out what the bible says about marriage..Don't also forget that you and your husband have now become one flesh..Read psalm 1 from verse 1..U would know that coming here to share such is even the real sin.Its your private marital life so face it tru the word of God.Simple.Also note that there is no limitation to sexual fantacies in ma

If you are truely born again like you claim you would know it is absolutely wrong to discuss your sexual and private marital life in a public forum..You are automaitcally seeking the counsel of the ungodly..cos you should know that a forum of dis kind is filled with different types of people with different religious backgrounds and even unbelievers..U better go and study the word for yourself and find out what the bible says about marriage..Don't also forget that you and your husband have now become one flesh..Read psalm 1 from verse 1..U would know that coming here to share such is even the real sin.Its your private marital life so face it tru the word of God.Simple.

Tomorrow they would say we guys are players ..all we do is to chop and clean mouth..why wnt a guy play a girl that dresses like a LovePeddler..what else do u av to offer us apart from sex..Most girls av made we men view ladies as a instruments for sex alone cos of the manner with which they carry themselves would make a guy desire them for sex alone and nothing more than dat..When you dress decently a guy would look beyond your physical attributes or sexiness and would be more concerned abt ur personality and character..And that motive is d reason why he would want to have you for keeps and not sex alone..Ladies should wise up..They are the reason for their problems

malaria:
. Hahahahahahahaha who knows I can if it makes me happy and if it will yield money.]

your love for money is what will take you to hell..your so irresponsible!! And this is typical of most naija girls..They can do anything because of money..Am sure u can as well sleep with a dog or horse because of money.. Or also act pornography because of money..Crooked and perverse generation.

Liars 99.9 percent of girls are cheaters and u are not exempted..The only difference btwn u and dem is dat you haven't been caught..so stop forming like your holier..bitches are every were..sorry op for the experience.most of us have experienced same..

may01:
Op sorry about that but not all girls are like that. I hope you meet someone that'll make you believe in love and its beauty

Liars 99.9 percent of girls are cheaters and u are not exempted..The only difference btwn u and dem is dat you haven't been caught..so stop forming like your holier..bitches are every were..sorry op for the experience.

may01:
Op sorry about that but not all girls are like that. I hope you meet someone that'll make you believe in love and its beauty

fuckshit:
naw!!! fυςk that şhit motherfυςker; ain't no fυςking goat; but I am fυςking sure you are; a bloody fυςking HE GOAT

e be lyk say na united states of ajegunle dem born u..Dis one wey u just dey blow all dis grammer..abeg i no fvck anytin oo!!I am innocent oo..infact my name is innocent!!

Something is definitely wrong with you and the person you supported..your brain needs real resetting..what a useles and senseless advice..

Tobiegal:
Finally some real sense!

What do you think you are doing snooping around her phone... talkless of impersonating her... Would you have taken it likely if it were the other way around?!The husband has every right to check his wifes phone.. Dats why he is her husband not her boyfriend..so u must me really insensitive and a very irresponisble lady for saying such.

OP would advise you the same as i would advise a woman in your shoes...

You need to stop snooping around her phone with the mind of finding something? if only you have got a 6-10 job, this would be the least of your concern...

Please, sit her down when she's in a good mood, and talk to her nicely... if that doesnt work... talk to someone she respects... if da doesnt work.... seek the Lord in Prayers! Nobi only woman sabi pray for man.... you should also learn to pray for your woman...if the marriage really means anything to you!

And about the ring removal? what was your own reason for doing away with your own? You were enjoying, feeling fly like a young bachelor.... abi... tau! the tables have turned... she's an after 2 funky babe.... and you are here shouting all over the place... abegi! u tik its easy to born 2 and still look funky ba? na the result of ya attitude you dey see so.... please, free the babe jere...

Something is definitely wrong with you and the person you supported..your brain needs real resetting..what a useles and senseless advice..

Tobiegal:
Finally some real sense!

What do you think you are doing snooping around her phone... talkless of impersonating her... Would you have taken it likely if it were the other way around?!how can u tell a man he doesn't have a right to his wifes phone or privacy..Do u think marriage is boyfrnd and girlfriend?? So he should sit back and act as if nothing is happening so dat she would go ahead and continue her evil ways without disturbance..u are very very silly for blaming the man..silly girls like u are the type that don't mind if their husband is away from them on a trip for a long time so dat they can have the freedom to do whatever they want.and probably bleep all the guys she wants to bleep..Useless ladies every were..

OP would advise you the same as i would advise a woman in your shoes...

You need to stop snooping around her phone with the mind of finding something? if only you have got a 6-10 job, this would be the least of your concern...

Please, sit her down when she's in a good mood, and talk to her nicely... if that doesnt work... talk to someone she respects... if da doesnt work.... seek the Lord in Prayers! Nobi only woman sabi pray for man.... you should also learn to pray for your woman...if the marriage really means anything to you!

And about the ring removal? what was your own reason for doing away with your own? You were enjoying, feeling fly like a young bachelor.... abi... tau! the tables have turned... she's an after 2 funky babe.... and you are here shouting all over the place... abegi! u tik its easy to born 2 and still look funky ba? na the result of ya attitude you dey see so.... please, free the babe jere...

I have been reading peoples comments on this post and I have realised how the hearts of so many are so so far from God..look at people making mokery of the things of God..The world has become so carnal.Lovers of pleasure more than lovers of God!! Forgeting that the air that you breathe was given to you by a God who created this world and you all here scorning and making mockery of things pertaining to him..If God were truely man he would have by now wiped out This crooked and perverse generation..Cos most of us are undeserving of his love,faithfulness,mercy and kindness..May God have mercy on this generation.Repent now and be saved cos the day u leave this world your judjement is assured and you would surely give account of every idle word u said against the master..knowingly or unknowingly

I have been reading peoples comments on this post and I have realised how the hearts of so many are so so far from God..look at people making mokery of the things of God..The world has become so carnal.Lovers of pleasure more than lovers of God!! Forgeting that the air that you breathe was given to you by a God who created this world and you all here scorning and making mockery of things pertaining to him..If God were truely man he would have by now wiped out This crooked and perverse generation..Cos most of us are undeserving of his love,faithfulness,mercy and kindness..May God have mercy on this generation.Repent now and be saved cos the day u leave this world your judjement i

Thank u lord jesus for the impact your word is making around the world...This is just the begining..Millions of them including th boko haram are turning to the lord.Indeed life without christ is an empty life..

damygurl:
i will consider it but i won't!!! no matter wat da circumstance is. i know all da ladies in da house r saying they won't but when it cums down to da reality it's not an easy decision to make. lets say dis gurl has been working at diz great firm dats got great reputation 4 6yrs. then her boss propose dat she have sex with him or she gon be fired!!! and she knows dat if she gets fired he's not gon give her good recommendation which makes it very hard to get another job. All dat money spent on education only to have it wasted by diz evil guy(da boss). she can stop all diz by just having sex with da evil guy it's not like she hasn't had sex b4. she's got bills to pay her peeps depend on her and she's da only one paying da skool fees of all her siblings!!! and there's her aunt who paid some of hercollege bills who needs help sending her own son to college and shes da only one who can help!!! diz is da scenario with sum of da naija gurlz who find themselves in a problem like diz!wats she to do? i know still not have sex with da boss cuz i won't too but it's gon be very hard dats y i don't blame d gurlz who say yes sumtimes!!

just tell us u would do it..stop beating about the bush..I know ur type,That use stupid excuses to cover their evil acts..

Goddamn it how can a woman slap me?? Dat day she would know dat my fist wasn't given to me for nothing..

See as dis one dey blab....D[quote author=LadyBoss1 post=357)Do u even have a job not to talk of employees..D day u would slap person wey him blood dey hot,dat is when you will know dat a return slap can make you go blind..U can slap your househelp anyhow not your emplloyee who is contributin to d growth of ur company..I swear if u try dat with me I would ensure dat you will not see again after landing u a resounding slap..Rubbish talk!! From all dis arrogant ladies.Na why ur type no dey see husband marry..u wil be blaming d witch in your village not knowing it is bad attitude dat scare men away.)804]Hehehe lol see as una blood they boil
Yes i slap everybody
When im paying ur wages but it actually depends what u did wrong .. Like if u steal chai stealing i can kill someone self
I slap u .. Call ur whole family n slap them too den ship u out to kirikiri .[/quote]

My own was the most stpid things I could really imagine..Forgiving her even after she confessed she had cheated on me with 4 guys..After she apologised in tears I forgave her..could you believe that dis bitch cheated on me again and finally dumped me for another man...when I was away for my 1 year service cos she couldn't control her sexual urge....Men if I look at my actions then I dnt think I want to ever fall in love with any lady again..
This was after sacrificing so much for this girl and also satisfied her in every way even she couldn't deny it..But a LovePeddler is always a LovePeddler..Never satisfied with one partner.


Note: when a woman cheats on you never give her a second chance even if she is your wife cos she would surely do it again and again when the opportunity arises cos cheating is as a result of lack of self control..And ur forgiving her would never make her change her moral stands..it would only make her feel good at dat time after which she would surely go back to her orgy ways..

U are not her father neither are u her brother or mother..She is just a gf who can dumpa u anyday for anoda man or can even be cheating on u while ur away.Never invest too much on a girl when you arnt married to her yet..so dat incase she messes up it won't hurt u much..since u av too much money 2 throw away why not send dat monthly income to your parents who am sure trained u into becoming a medical doctor Rather than a girl who is not yet a wife..U can be sending her mony but it shldnta at all be on a regular basis..Her family shld take her responsibility till ur ready 2 pay her bride price..Don't be a fool!! E be lyk say woman never do u somtin b4..U have to wise up man..

Why are u all replying this pervert called jonathan..with the way he sounds he is either joking or he is certainly under a serious spell..u guys shld just stop wasting your energy on him...he is just an attention seeker.

fuckshit:
that's the fυςking “game" that's how certain bitçhes who are in a relationship play these days; you've got to fυςking play smart too; now this is a fυςking good one BUT a fυςking suggestion here; before telling her about the fυςking messages & needing a fυςking break; dude! make sure you fυςk her real good;

be fυςking smart; that's one of the rules of the fυςking “game"; & you should fυςking know this, even if you don't give her the fυςking phone, another fυςking mugu will always be there that will fυςking buy the phone for her

I swear u be original Goat

fuckshit:
that's the fυςking “game" that's how certain bitçhes who are in a relationship play these days; you've got to fυςking play smart too; now this is a fυςking good one BUT a fυςking suggestion here; before telling her about the fυςking messages & needing a fυςking break; dude! make sure you fυςk her real good;

be fυςking smart; that's one of the rules of the fυςking “game"; & you should fυςking know this, even if you don't give her the fυςking phone, another fυςking mugu will always be there that will fυςking buy the phone for her

I swear u be goat....

ote author=sonnyudoh post=35722433]It happened to me this week sef she accused me of stealing 25 million from her i had to pay 30 million after all the stress[/quote]My broda dis your lie get serious weight ooo..sotey my head no fit carry am..D devil is a confirmed learner for were u dey .U are a proffessional liar!! Very professional..infact u and op can lie well well..chai!!

My broda d lie get serious weight ooo...sotey my head no fit carry am.!! My broda u can lie ooo..D devil is a confirmed learner for were u dey.. ;Dquote author=MrBasketball post=35722897]Word for those patronizing them.

But your post is confusing @op.
Who are you lying for here?
Do you think is kids that are here? [/quote]

Noo its not a real story oo..!Buhari cannot do that oo..its just a photoshoped pics to crack you ribs..

This got my ribs all cracked up..Nairalanders what do you think about this pics..

Bro d truth is that if you are rich also look out for rich and classy decent girls as well.if u go for broke ladies u don't expectthem to love anything else apart from ur money as they would see u as som1 who has come to solve their financial problems..Hence wheather they love u or not they would agree to date and marry you and still be playing their secret games out there with the ones they love..and it would be hard for a broke lady to turn a rich guy down..but a rich lady would accept you for who you are cos she doesn't give a damn about your money as she has hers too and she would also turn u down if she doesn't love you cos she can do without your money..So if she accepts you know she loves you cos she isn't out for ur money. its safer for rich dudes to go for rich ladies..Note there are lots of rich ladies out there who are also looking for true love lyk u are..why not hook up with them as well..Its my advice tho..

Hahahahahahahahah dis girl no go kill person,I am laughing I swahili.. .wetin butt wan help person do again apart from to cure men konji...Go and confirm you would see it has helped so many men cure their konji..Those butts are very important!! ;Di(quote author=pretydiva post=35529955]Who their butts don help [/quote]

Lol

VickyRotex:
oh well you're right. He's an Houseman tho

Btw, nothing like Godwin, he's been caught already

Yea man ur right.that's what so many of we young men out there don't know

walexy30:
Nice one. A real man does not beg girls; make the money, girls would beg to have you.