₦airaland Forum

ujuvals:
Tanx for your input.I am a lady not a guy sir.I equaly think there are better ways to express yourself and send your message across without been outrightly rude abd insulting.if you read to understand my writeup am sure some of your questions were already answered.please learn to be civil next time,once more tanx for the input.

am sorry for being rude my dear..I even taught ur a guy..Dats why I was really vexed cos I can't imagine a guy who his parents have invested so much in settling for a job of 25 k PR month..with all d good businesses opportunities here in Lagos haba...But ur a lady sha so u no get wahala cos 2 Moro one comfortable or rich guy will marry u..so u no get wahala but u still deserve somtin better..

ujuvals:
That is the pay for permanent staff.I was told no extras ie no allowance of any kind,that's what they can offer.I just had to ponder about the work timing,even if you can't offer so much why set such a crazy work timing that would keep the person exhausted.if I were to spend the whole day in the office,six days a week what will my feeding expenses amount to?I mean what budget can I comeup with this amount.I want to work,I have a lot to offer them but honestly I can't be motivated onguy an empty stomach.God bless us all,its well.

Guy are you a fool??don't you know ur worth ,must u take any useles offer that comes ur way?Why did ur parents invest so much money in training u when you can not use ur common sense and think of starting somtin for urslf...why are Nigerian graduates like this?? even the guys who didn't go to university think and reason better than some of we graduates.stop complaining.they didn't force u to take the offer..Dump DAT useless offer and go husstle on d streets..young men are making it big without schl how much more a graduate like u..Abeg make we try get sense small..we shld stop disappointing our parents

ujuvals:
I really want to scream but ofcourse everyone seems to be in the same situation,who will console the other.The economic situation of Nigeria at the moment is really pitiable.We as the citizens have been holding on and managing,praying it gets better but it only seem to get worse.I am writing because I have come to realize that some sectors are abusing this untold hardship in the country and using it as an avenue to greatly enrich themselves.In as much as we understand that there are no jobs in Nigeria,many unemployed yet qualified graduates are roaming the street,the few ones working now are been taken for granted,used and given peanuts at the end of the day with reason been that the company cannot afford a good pay due to the economic situation.I am trying to understand how this fits in to some people.There are companies that are making massive profits despite this economic recession yet they are still slashing salaries,I can't help but to ask where does the profit realised at the end of the day go to?A typical example is Zenith bank which we read slashed workers salaries,to be realistic if a bank as big as zenith can slash despite its massive profit margin wat will the other small companies that barely make enough pay their staffers.I want to share an experience I had few days ago,I went for an interview and after that,I was called to say I did averagely ok but they would want me to work in a bigger position as the Head of Administration.I was delighted,we talked at length and I was told my work days were Mondays to saturday,with 8-7pm work time for a salary if 25,000naira.I am a graduate,I don't seem to understand why the pay has to be so poor,thereby making the job seem like slavery.I want to give my best,I want to add value,I want to be supportive to this firm but I am not motivated by the pay.I can't be working yet be hungry,worse still as head of admin for 25,000.Please Employers I want to appeal to you all to have a conscience.Its very unfair to want someone to do so much yet get paid with little or nothing.The Economy is bad at the moment which we all know but don't use that as a yardstick to frustrate your workers because we also buy things from the market and function too.I also want to plead with the present Administration to please comeup with ways to help the Nigerian Youths.Many of us are willing to work but no jobs,while we also want to be self employed yet still no capital to start even at the smallest level.To all those Employers of labour still treating their staffers nice,I want to commend you and pray that you won't have any reason to fold up.Thank you.Please pardon any grammatical error,I am open to correction.

God will punish that employer...some employers are just heartless and mean..why would you offer a graduate 25k salary a that's crazy..But its so unfortunate DAT many Nigerian graduates don't know their worth...you didn't go to schl to necessarily look for a job..what happens to starting something for your self and being independent of some of these blood sucking demons called empkoyers ..You only limit your self in life when you settle for such.you van be making 10 times of that in a month doing ur own thing..Nigerian youths should learn to think outside the box.Thank God for my self who is very ambitious and focused God knows u would never settle for mediocrity..Av been in ur shoes b4 but after which I vowed never to work for anyone again..I av never regretted that decision till date..

ifeomaekol:
Chai----didnt evn kw she has been buried. Rip ma.

she was a muslim

The same bastard did same thing to me.he used Edo state precisely saying that they transfered car to Edo...infact he agreed to sell d rx at 1.8m..that was wen i knew he is a criminal.isn't that funny and ridiculous..I rained curses on him when he askd for 10k as fuel money...Guy man wan chop anoda guy man mony..I told him to go get somtin better to do with his miserable life..

Akorkor:
I asked this question in January and now nairalanders are replying me. Thank you all my decision has been made already. I have almost completed my building at Arepo and I love the vicinity.

how much is a plot of land in that area.Am interested

dainformant:
Good friends who will standby you (both in good times and bad times) are hard to come these days -especially those with fame and fortune...so when one is spotted, he/she should be appreciated...Veteran broadcaster and 'king of talk shows', Emma Ugolee who is suffering from failure -has only words of love for popular blogger Linda Ikeji who once again proved her longstanding friendship to him yesterday..

Below is what an appreciative Emma Ugolee shared on his page yesterday;

Had been on the phone earlier today with ma sister right here who was not too happy with how I sounded. True to her worries, I was rushed to the hospital on an emergency tip this afternoon. Calling to find out if it felt any better and realizing I had to dialyse, she froze work, ran to the hospital and literally stood on her feet next to my bed till I was smiling.

She left the hospital this late after having amazing material impact on dialysing patients and watching me walk to my car..

So going home now am thinking. This woman has been unshaken as a friend for 16years and in the last 5years of the struggle to stay alive with Kidney failure every time a hand is squeezing mine to say we would beat this in the darkest times, it his hers.

No fatigue with the love shown, no trumpet blowing, an amazing friend as would be readily testified by those that know her at the same time when I can write 10 books on fair weather friends whose level of worry would start and culminate in a 48 hour use of my face for a dp if God permitted it to go south. ....... and you want to ask why I am shouting her name at the risk of sore lungs? I love you Linda Ifeoma Ikeji. God bless you for being a TRUE friend.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BJELQphA3pK/

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/08/i-love-you-linda-ikeji-emman-ugolee.html

I love her more...whenever i look at her smiles I see a beautiful soul smiling through her...Linda is indeed a rare gem..I pray God in his infinite mercies gives me the great grace he so lavished on this woman...God bless u Linda.This is just the beginning.The world would marvel at ur greatness...I tap into that same Grace at work in u..

lordkit400:
According to the actress and mother of three, she and her husband just finished their short honeymoon in the USA and are on their way to Nigeria.

You are my Strength,I fear nothing once ur with me #ciaoamerica #welcomenaija#"


she wrote [b]"Honeymoon over for us,naija here we come. #faithfulGod#"[/b]another baby loading

https://www.instagram.com/p/BJEEhMDDlnu/?hl=en

With all the bad news we hear about marriages,good to see a couple still going strong and taking time out to spend quality time together..


Source:http://www.flexygist.com/2016/08/14/actress-mercy-johnson-shares-loved-up-photos-with-her-husband/

Another baby loading

shuggah:
early this morning u re looking for who to kick out while ur mates re looking for means to eat better than they did yesterday

Oga DAT u quoted me Dis morning doesn't mean I quoted her Dis morning as well..meanwhile if u av somtin meaningful urslf doing why are u here quoting me

skitcentral:
I came to conclude that she was not in love with three husband. She just wanted to marry him.

she obviously married him cos of money and financial security..She doesn't love him cos if she does she wld feel guilty abt cheating on him..she wants to eat her cake and have it..I pity her Cos at the end she will be e one to loose completely cos d guy wld never marry her if her husband eventually finds out and kicks her out..DAT girl is evil...Worst is even her parents wldnt accept her back if she is kicked out of her home cos of infidelity..That is when she will now know real suffering cos she wld have to fend for she and her baby..she feels she is enjoying but she and d young man are destroying their future..

Deejavuu:
Awwwww, might not look expensive, tasteful, because there aren't scented candles, or expensive wines, but the motive, matters more

There's beauty in simple things! Nice one op.

a materistic babe spotted ...must everything be expensive??what happens to cutting ur coat according to ur size...Am sure if it were u,u wldnt appreciate the arrangement cos its not Hennessey ,moet or chamdon that's on d table ..All these babes wey no sabi make shishi na una dey materialistic pass cos u dont know d value for money...

pussyluver:
don't mind her boo....she is looking for attention...she thinks I'm gonna quote her...don't have time for low lifes like her

my friend u are new here apply decorum...U sound like a very saucy chic...Respect ur elders or I wld kick ur saucy ass outa ur own thread.

SAINTSAMURAII:
yeah she can, but bro, a man must be a man. even though my girl is the daughter of dangote, its my duty to take care of her and make her look sweet. She might have a lot of cars but that wont stop me from buying a private jet for her.

u go buy private jet for girlfriend when u never buy for ur mama...God punish stupidity...Na guys like u wey girls they save ur name as mugu for their phone..

SAINTSAMURAII:
yeah she can, but bro, a man must be a man. even though my girl is the daughter of dangote, its my duty to take care of her and make her look sweet. She might have a lot of cars but that wont stop me from buying a private jet for her.

ass licker..women never do u something,na when you go realise urslf..

Olivers2J:
if u r the car dealer will u accept this ridiculous procedures jst 2 sell one car,
I think Nurey has said it all

The guy is a Jonky I swear...I guess he just wanted to be hilarious ...

beautiful232:
Can somebody come and do same thing to me

Inside....

I will do it a thousand times to a beautiful African queen like u..

[quote author=otokx post=48432940]I believe this is the real story, if it was an Igbo man that killed 2 Hausa women up north, the level of violence would not stop till many innocent southern people have died. [/quote WO ). what of all the lives these Hausa's have been wasting in this country all this whilecan u answer that..we have had enough of violence caused by these so called Hausa and Fulani people..I think it serves them right as not every one will tolerate their nonsense...The reason these animals have the mind to keep perpetrating evil everywhere they go is because evry1 has been keeping quiet..I think its high time other tribes stand up and prove that we are not weaklings ...And that is exactly what was proven here..All these senseless killings by Hausa's has become to much for Christ sake..They got exactly what they deserved abeg..

Akhimien78:
Rubbish! !!

at least I spoke rubbish,can u at least make a meaningful contribution urslf so we can see how useful it is..Everything I said there is the best way to handle d situation without directly hurting the mother in-law..if he leaves the house for her and tells her to go ahead and marry her mother..The wife wld do d needful just to bring peace btwn she and her husband..Except she doesnt love him anyways..kicking the mother in-law out wld be rude and disrespectful and it might be used against him as an in-law..But Ig he leaves d house for a while d wife wld come looking for him and he wld then give her strict conditions...

Sexytemi:
Funny how u know d names of the rooms there, Well Sorry to burst your bubble, I was actually in d advise room, so was shocked when it was d Same thing o....

just accept that 2go has gone to d dogs, and most. guys on it are sex starved..

well back in schl days when men were boys 2go used to be the in thing then so I was actually an active member then..But we have overgrown certain things now...I can't imagine myself on 2go now cos its outdated and meant for kids

Sexytemi:
Awwwww, but they should look for it in a more dignified manner, and not asking for a s.ex chat immediately they meet a girl.

u went to the romance and flirt section of 2go and u expected to meet pastors therewhat didbu expect b4..if u added guys frm d right section am very sure they wldnt be asking u for sex.cos they wld know ur responsible..But because u went to add them from sexuality and flirt section of the platform that's the reason for their approach..Besides what were u looking for there and why didnt u add girls like u If u are not sex hungry and starved as well..Why are women hypocrites Like this..Na una like bad thing pass but u will be pretending like ur dcent

unapapadeycraze:
See lady beside him. Them nor know pass money. She nor even wan know how he take make the money, her own na to collect. Awon olosho. Ladies, are you sex object, yes or no?

dont mind the stupid ladies..Na when money full everywere u go see them they glue to you like chewing gum..But when d money no dey them go dey give u levels..They av nothing else o offer apart frm sex..Useless set of people.

Leave the house for them for 2 weeks...if ur wife starts to miss u tell her that she shld choose between u and her mothers frequent visits..Get a house help to stay with her mother and keep her company in her own house so that she can give u guys some space...Travel, leave the house for them..ur wife will come looking for you..If it were me I will start making my wife jealous by acting as though I av other female girlfriends and I wld start coming back very late and sleeping out somtimes.if she starts complaining tell her that since she cant give u DAT companionship by allowing u av ur privacy with her then u av to get it else were...my man she will be d one to do d needful,cos am sure she wldnt want to loose u..

LuvU2:
Fabulove men who cheat on their wives still love them. I can cheat on a man and still love him.

u are a foooooooool get out of here u shameless bitch..u are not ashamed to tell the world how useless u are...so obvious ur parents were too busy with their looks that they forgot to train u properly..Whoever marries u must be a real daft..Am very sure ur still a kid...U know nothing about marriage so just keep ur stupid opinions to ur self

Trina0936:
Google no sabi u na!

who tell u..

Trina0936:
Who we go ask??

abeg help me ask google

Trina0936:
As long as she got the money through a decent way,whether its from a man or woman.
E pain you sha! How many ladies you don dig gold from??
Your conscience dey flog you??
Gigolo

I dont need a woman's money..women eat my money..Not the other way round..so ur so wrong my dear..

Trina0936:
Seems men are fast becoming better gold diggers than women!
Shameless hypocrites
If you quote me,that means you are a certified hypocrite and man LovePeddler

so because of this single story it means men are now gold diggers abi??see ur life ?? na una ladies dey dig for gold pass and u know it..How many ladies even get gold to dig??most times whatever a lady has was given to her by a man.Except for few hardworking ladies..so whatever the gold digger guy is digging also came frm a guy..so leave that matter abeg..

sesaan:
Rip to him.. if u not a cultist this guys will hardly attack u.. he must belong to something

its either he was a cultist or he crossed the path of a cultist.maybe he used his fine boy to snatch a cultists girlfriend..That alone can lead to this.say a big no to cultism.Vanity upon vanity.In Christ alone lies all the peace a man needs..

chigoizie7:
Is that not Nnenne iweka?

Emeka and nweze's sister?

Schooled in ife?

yea chino iweka..ur right.I have made them nairaland celebrities

PRESTIGERYHME:

Yes oo I try..At least i fine pass obj and oshiomole.But I never get money reach them..How we go do am na

PRESTIGERYHME:
LOLS

IS DAT UR OWN PERSPECTIVE?

OK OO

but i know say I try sha...

The ones that fornicated with their boyfriends and girlfriends last night and are feeling too dirty and unworthy of being in church...Depart from sin oh yea perverse Generation