₦airaland Forum

.Op.. Adjust your topic to, "an unexpected observation of a nigerian family practising the 'modern' feminism".. The man is a hero in the eyes of many men.. He took her role when she took his.. I have never seen a girl offering to help when your car or even gen refuse to start.. So why should he assist her? Instead, the smart man just minded his business and tended to the kids.. I imagine how this nairaland feminists would have reacted if happen he left the children with the wife and the faulty gen.. Our eyes for don blind because of the insults we for read.. Them go dy follow chimamanda dy do foolish feminism.. No wonder she didnt realise that opening opening a door for a female is a moral act and not because we see them as weaker species..
I support only the real feminism which involves equal rights, equal opportunities, equal choices and equal voices.. But this role switching mentality has nothing to do with feminism.. with that point, i rest my keypad

And how many 'ordinary children' would benefit from this? Which electricity would they use? What a joke of the century.. Biko he should sit down and give our children better schools and better lives

We would be foolish to think that some people are above arrest in this country until certain 'immunities' are quenched.
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Diamond23:
just dat single word @ bolded shows u r being genuine nd truthful.....still doff ma hat for u!

Lols.. It happens once in a while o.. But babe, i'm definitely blushing. Thank you

Commendable. Not because of any racism shit, but because of the joy he gave the child.. I would always sacrifice my chatting or browsing or whatever when ever a child places his attention on my device.. The happiness and shyness the display is everything!

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Diamond23:
Easier said dan done!!!,May work out in a relationship buh definitely not marriage . Although I respect ur maturity for dat.

Ma'am.. It is difficult does not mean that another can't handle it.. Believe me when I say i have seen alot in this forsaken life.. Besides, i don't think its easier said than done.. Its all about understanding.. Not changes even if we were to end up as life partners.. I might be jealous at times because the babe just too fresh.. But we'all know where our love lies .. This doesnt make us lechers in any way but explorers

lefulefu:
open relationship can be fun for some couples though.the type mostly practuced in nigeria is d indirect open relationship.

Lmao.. say na 'indirect open relationship'.. you are right sha but the perspective that connects marriage and sex should be fvckn changed

Ezi1993:
Another cheat sported.

Madam biko respect that your donut hairstyle biko nu... I don't think you even understand the mean of the term 'to cheat'.. Anyways, its not SPORTED but SPOTTED.. You have a lot of reading and understanding to do.. So get to work

We pray that the family and friends the left behind would be able to find peace.. and we pray that their souls would RIP.. Amen... tr

Nigerian jurisdiction is like a dumb person going to project fame audition to sing.. it is just a show of shame..7

The pictures are far biko.. btw, she is on the wall of fame for what particular reason? This your post is just void of information

Woman are interested in politics the same way men are.. there should never be preferential treatment or privilege applied to either sexes provided that all provision is available.. This is just another foolish APC propaganda

We were breathing more when the 'stench' was high.. but for almost 4years and the APC cannot eradicate the 'stench'.. instead, they are still laying blames upon blames..
I would chose a PDP of fuel for 60naira to an apc of fuel for 145naira.. i would chose a pdp of jeans for N1400 to an APC of jeans for N3000... The list is endless.. Besides, the stench apc has generated in less than four years seems to have been produced with a mixture of fertilizer and amino acid and protein steroids..

calculator123:
2 would leave their parents house to become 1.. What this means his your body belongs to your wife and alone. Same applies to your wife.. Like i said before, it is an written rule of marriage.

Sir.. I am highly disappointed with this comment..
"two would leave their parents house and become one".. Lmao.. What if they were orphans who never knew their parents or even had a house ehn? Are those ones allowed to partake in the external sex thing? Lmao.. And you said that becoming one means your body belongs to your wife alone.. That indirectly means that her body belongs to me alone so she should ask for my permission before our baby sucks her breast abi? Is her bre*st not my own? Do i not handle it when we hitting it?
Lols.. My comment is completely silly and foolish but it was not off the point..
There is nothing like my body becomes one with hers in this basis.. Besides, if our body becomes one, then our reasoning should hv flowed together.. period

.SEX was NEVER and is NEVER about satisfying your partner.. It is about procreation and your sole pleasure.. All this one wey she dy talk na just grammar.. Who this her grammar epp biko? q

UBGG:
Here's a man who's not running on the caveman software. Bravo.

My partner and I, we love each other and we are smart enough to know who gets into our privates or not doesn't change that. An open relationship or marriage is the way to go.

Personally, I get off on watching my partner f**k other women. I like it. So, the infidelity bulls**t means squat to me.

Ma'am.. are you king solomon's descendant? This one that your statement has a lot of molecular wisdom floating inside it..
Marriage is not about sex.. Most people marry for procreation.. So if we are done having our last child, then do you expect me to wait for them to die before we can have sex again? Society be foolish

lefulefu:
hmm this is interesting.this is my first time of talking with a nigerian guy that can do an open relationship with his woman. U [quote author=lefulefu post=70238026]hmm this is interesting.this is my first time of talking with a nigerian guy that can do an open relationship with his woman. U [quote author=lefulefu post=70238026]hmm this is interesting.this is my first time of talking with a nigerian guy that can do an open relationship with his woman. U [quote author=lefulefu post=70238026]hmm this is interesting.this is my first time of talking with a nigerian guy that can do an open relationship with his woman. U must be based abroad.

I am based here in Nigeria sir.. My relationship is a win-win.. I give her space and she does the same.. We hit it and we don't hit it.. I don't get bored because of the wide r

calculator123:
The agreement was reached on the day they said their i do's...There is no moral justification to cheat on ones spouse..None！

Sir.. I have witnessed quite a number of church, court and traditional marriage celebrations.. With that said, i would like to make it clear that i have not heard anything like ;"do you agree to accept that sex should be only between yourselves?".. And the couples would reply, "i do".. And i have not heard anything similar to that either.. But yet, you folks would come out and be casting this 'offenders'.. Oga.. It is simply a choice that has been there since time immemorial.. It simply signified self-control, morality, respect and trust.. But the society has lost almost all this virtues immediately they accepted same-sex couples.. So please don't tell me they said it when they said the 'i dos' ..w. re

lefulefu:
na wao..all this one wey u dey yarn so..are u now saying if u see another man on top of ur wife u wont find anything wrong in that?

I see no correlation between sex and marriage.. If I am getting married to you, then it should be for the purpose of companionship, support, procreation and other benefits.. sex is therefore not a basis for marriage.. With that said, there would be definitely no 'catching' of my wife with another man.. The only thing that should cause a rift is if it happened on your matrimonial bed.. That one would just be disrespect.. If she wants extra sex, she can definitely get it outside..
Thats one thing that keeps me and my girl completely intact.. Provided we do not exceed the limit or turn money wasters

I won't type much.. But the S.E has no business with the APC.. FULLSTOP 1. FULLSTOP 2.

P.s:- this may seem odd but....-
So she caught them having sex and she sees it as cheating? Biko how is he cheating her? Did they sign any agreement that says he cannot have sex with someone? Did they go to the court and accept sex restriction between themselves? If the man is wise, he should sue the hell out of this woman.. Besides, is it not the same women that always claim that marriage is not all about sex? The same way people buy food outside even when the woman of the house probably cooked something, is the same reason why men have sex outside.. and until external sex is finally accepted, then marriage shall (and must) always be riddled with problems.. Imagine a society that accepts homosexualism but still finds fault in sex with any lady of my choice 2e7 .

if you were honest men, then May you rest in peace and may your family find peace.. But if you are no different from those theives behind the national badge that tried to kill me that night and almost succeeded in making me a convict when their attempt failed, then may only your family find peace.. gn

The guy is obviously void of wisdom.. What type of boyfriend lacks the courage to request for pregnancy test result or confirmation biko? So he could not even aSk her for an immediate urine sample there and then.. All the wisdomless soul could do was stay awake till 4am and wait for her to wake for her urinating session.. LMAO.. I don die finish..
If he were smart, when she started pushing for the abortion, he would have jejely bought misoprostol or mefeprostone na make we see if she go truly swallow am..,
Thats how my gold-digging guy's gf requested for 5k claiming she was pregnant and she doesnt want to keep the baby.. My sharp guy just dish out 5hun gv am say make she go buy the shii na.. Up till today we never abt her and her rubbish belle thing na.. Besides.. Even if the baby pops, how much is pregnancare plus and folic acid? Biko all this hoes should go get a job na.. Biko nu..
Even the pt strip stuff no too accurate sef.. we shall demand for confirmation and real proof.. not all this trash88

Better meme sir.. better meme

How many followers does he have to even demand for such? Abeg if hin no collect 2k5 per week, then make hin forget... Nonsense

Some arsenal fans will not sleep well this night #KTBFFH

What would the building actualise for the community? This is such a welcome development... They should tear down all this unnecessary buildings and convert the land to a market place or even use it an build nairabet shops where youths can go and make money

I will never ever feel for any major nigerian office holder's death especially when it is outside the shores of nigeria... Why did he not agitate for better healthcare facilities in nigeria? Why did he not agitate for a 'just and fair' treatment of the common man in nigerian-almost-dead hospitals? Abeg.. For holdinq such a high position, the i see no difference between him and politicians.. May you rest in peace sir even though you departed earth when you had the chance to push for nigeria's growth.. Besides where is the justice we made you chief for?

Oshimole was either deprived of manner and wisdom when The Almighty creator joined sand to make him.. Or he lost it when he stopped leading the labour congress..
How can ortom Be making political gain when He doesn't even reason substantial support from the dullard? If he were to make any political gain, then he would have attempted to contain all disasters that befell his administration without it being thwarted.. But no, the enemies within us would just end it.. .
Abeg this poltroon in form of oshimole should be sued.. A very pretention negro indeed

Chelsea.. You can start the season with a win. #KTBFFH

timijoseph01:
As much as this sound so odd.. You have a point..!

A featherless hen must have 'feather' in its description.. so must a pointless statement have a point.. kudos sir