₦airaland Forum

Rubbiish:
This is extreme!
Someone sleeping with your wife shouldn't be worth your life!

When/where did I say am going to take my life?

Kobojunkie:
What in the world is with the emotional rambling?

The OP asked a simple question. If you don't have anything sensible to add, move on.

Alaye don't ever quote me.

I can't imagine someone else sleeping with the woman I married, how am I gonna feel after hearing about it or seeing it with my two eyes.
My life is not going to remain the same again even after divorcing her.

Quality20:
u do have a choice ,why not head over to the far north? We do have highly decent ladies here ready for marriage but only that they may not be highly educated as u might wish, but then they are homely, decent, undefiled, chaste and still youthful from 18 to 24 yrs of age

Nice input you have here bro, will look into this, imagine after all years of hustling and the only option man is got is a tiktok nudist, that's not a nice way to compliment past days of sleeping with an empty stomach, Trekking tens of miles.
The few northern girls I always come by appears cultured.

Your best bet is Obalende under bridge, Orile and Ijora under bridge too is cool.

Nah play I dey play.

I think you should draw out your plan very well before embarking on this journey, you are going to surfer without accommodation in place unless you have the fund to secure an apartment (no be small money oo).

If you can't meet the condition above and still adamant of coming to Lagos then prepare some money that can lodge you in a lower class hotel for 2-3 days while you look for an Orthodox churches and meet the held pastor to discuss things with him(lots of people are sleeping in Churches in Lagos), I've not seen a new age church accommodate people sha, it's mostly orthodox churches (largely white garment churches).

Job is also another thing, unless you are into online business.

Job no dey oo, unlesss you're okay Chinese factory work(Surplus in Ilupeju/Ladipo/mushin, Oshodi) or 25k sales rep in a store(which would be very hard to come by as you be Jjc with no guarantor).

Also there are lots of mason/labour work in construction sites (surplus in Eti-Osa, they pay 3k per day)

Disclaimer: I'm not a red pillers or whatever and this is not in anyway related to the recent red pill madness on Nairaland.

This thread is about the culture, our norms and what this beautiful Nigerian/African society has been known for since inception; DECENCY.

Has anyone been active on the hotest SM platform, TIKTOK, recently? Anyone who has been following Nigerian tiktok community would attest to the fact that our women are all out to destroy our pretty culture.
Is it the nudity? The vulgarity? Just name it.

I am not saying all our women are on this table, we still have the good ones, really good ones (at least 10%), but are these 10% enough? Absolutely not, we can't have a situation where 5-10 men would be fighting for 1 woman, no, it's not proper.
That was why I said we (Nigerian men) have no other choice than to marry these nudist, sex workers, Drug addict, etcetera THIS IS OUR FATE, WE CANT ESCAPE THEM

thank you.

Cc
Lalasticlala
Mynd44

This is a front page material.

Ladycewhy:
you well so?

If you have no meaningful thing to say, scroll down na.

This is a big lesson to folks who seek advice on Nairaland, especially advice given by women, at least the bad advice from men is borne out of frustration, Hunger, Sapa and the very bad economy.

But these devilish Nairaland family women are all out to break homes, as my yoruba people used to say, "aje egbodo ton' wa eni kunra" meaning someone whose life is already destroyed wanting to destroy others life" that's the case of this op and other women on nairaland family section, they are mostly divorced, Evening newspaper, Psychos etcetera.

This op probably cheated on her spouse or a case of attempt murder on the mother-in-law (food poisoning like we read few days back).

Aunty, I repeat, you're a failure.

Nawa oo.

You're such a failure sister, a very big one at that.

Starting a new year with divorce.

Miracood2:
The man should paste like 2m each to the families.

Because taking pictures alone with the kids ain't gonna feed them.

The man? Which man?
Lazy yoot.

EzegeNdiigbo:
Last year had passed now wale is tropping up with another provocation tweets to Burna


So annoying



Reason am concerned about this rift is cuz i know burna and what he can do when he finally lapp.
wale should ask AKA howfar...

Yea, AKA's career has nosedived recently, but was Burnaboy responsible for that? Absolutely not.

AKA actually made Burnaboy cancelled his appearance in an iconic South African event.

Albeit Burnaboy has gone really higher after that, burna did no shit to AKA.

You Nigerian music lovers should stop the exaggeration.

I think Nigerian music stars needed other African countries more, stars from other African countries hardly visit here or do concert here, unlike our stars that organize concerts and shot videos in other countries.

Looks like a war thorn city, despite the pictures being taken from a long range. Decayed buildings everywhere.

Mowe ibafo better pass this one.

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siofra:
Why?

Because it doesn't looks good, I was in an Indian home off Adeniyi Jones, Ikeja some months back and the family all being the same was Awesome, imagine if the wife were to be a Nigerian (black),.... How are they gonna cope with difference in language, food, different body complexion and all other aspects of culture.

White should marry white, black should marry black.

Even

Yoruba should marry yoruba. Ibo vs Ibo, hausa should stick to hausa etcetera

I think it's wrong to marry outside your race/tribe.


My opinion.

More input...

Personally I wouldn't mind paying a woman I wifed for 2 decades spousal support.

Vinnie2000:
All diz una Mumu Threads ehn!..

How can you even imagine such? Africans of that Era sucking Diccks and Pussy?

OP, Infact, You dey Craze!

Alaye fvck off, this is romance section for Goodness sake, if you want to discuss about politics, business, food etcetera go to their respective section, anything relating to romance stays here.

Mumu

I don't want the mod to move this to the sexuality section.
I'm just curious, does our grandparents lick punna, suck d|©k, use the behind and others during their time?

Mature inputs please.

N:B no one should tell me to ask my parents/grand parents.

Magnoliaa:
Also, are you saying, 'marriage only favours women' is trash talk?? Because me no con dey understand o, even though no be my mention. E shock me. The babe is actually saying the same thing you guys believe. Why you con dey vex??

Was that the objective of this thread? The Op created this thread to search for a life partner not for needless shalaye.

Palema007:
You are 35 and you want to marry?

Bro Do not marry... Marriage favours only women! Enjoy your life till you are 65 then travel out to search for a beautiful 18 years old American lady. Then marriage will favour you and you will escape the evil Nigerian Women.

Trash, if you're not interested Alaye fvck off.

Saw it this afternoon on Lagos-ibadan rail line.

Beautiful.

What's your own new year resolution.

You're a single mother, I do not expect young Burnaboy to wife you.

Burnaboy has worked really hard, man has been in the music industry for quite a long time without a breakthrough until YE happened.

The best way to compliment all the years of hustling is to end up with an intact woman not a damn after 1.

The ancient city of Kano is very big, I think it's a normal thing to see a large part of the city occupied with slums.

It's a normal occurrence in Ancient cities, that does not change the fact that Kano is in top 5-6 most developed in the country