UnclePrincipal: If you can't handle him that way, then leave him alone. Stop trying to manipulate people with emotions to change who they really are to please you.
Laseye008: A pregnant lady that has gone viral of where the lady is seen assaulting her boyfriend with a belt and multiple slaps for allegedly playing on her intelligence and I wonder if this was to be the other way around, wouldn't she be crying foul?
The young man was seen pleading and begging her to stop but she just wouldn't as she Continuously kept slapping him, and verbally abusing him saying he's playing with her and the young man kept saying no, obviously where she was assaulting him was on a bed.
Ximenez: Sounds like a great idea, i wanted to tell you to delete every Telemundo scenes from your memory. But in truth, I'm more concerned about the guy.
HundredWays: when someone said he don't act his age... Means, he can be 10, but have a 13years mentality... Or 20, but has 25yrs old mentality!
This Lady in particular is everything I need, why should age be an issue? She's 3yrs older than me but she's my best friend ever since I knew her and she's very dedicated to God, her family and respect my decision... We both have a decent job that pays well, She works with States Specialist Hospital while i work with federal inland of Revenue.. I earn more than her tho, but she's very understanding and supportive.! FYI, I proposed last year December and planning on our marriage DEC When I complete my building project which is hopfully to be completed July/August..
Life is too short&small, just try find wat makes u happy and build a family!! e
My Age?? I'm 29 and she will be 32 by 12th September...
thank you all for your contributions on my last post I really appreciate your encouraging words,eventhough some were thoroughly rude. I received a call from him and I'm really happy. hope all goes well.
He may like you but trust me not enough to go into a relationship or get serious with you. Is that what you want as this may never change?
Also, he seems calm, responsible and collected; this, this guy most likely has a girl he is madly in love with. He seems like a deep lover too and is not really into the cheating thing.
If you push further, you will get friend zoned and you may never leave that zone.
Men are hunters, if he wants to love you or even sleep, he will get your number that first day, if not the first day, then the 2nd day but sis u guys met about 3 times or more and he never bothered.
He doesn't want to start anything or raise your hope and u end up getting hurt.
manmade: it's obvious you're the intending player here and people like you tend to be manipulative ...., it's like trying to swim without being in contact with water..,. remember the guy is not new to this game and the antics of girls ,that explained why he told you of a girl that has already gotten their friendship to the stage of cooking for him and obviously spending time with him ... He is not craving for attention as you do and like a prey already in the mouth of a Lioness you gat to fight for him or you loose him. Trust me ,there is no any better way of distracting a guy attentions from another girl than showing him that you've got something better to offer. How do you want to do this without letting him know that you have feelings for him ? Though, I'm not against you being subtle about it , otherwise , na the occasional hugs and distance smiles you go just dey get till the other girl start a blossom relationship with the lucky dude .
hmmm how do you propose I go about this. I think i should just let things play out,rather than force things..I just want to know if it's going to work out. thanks still.
This story reminds me of when I was crushing on one guy back in school days, I’d stalk like say I no know wetin I come do for school. Finally, I got his attention and he asked me out and I dumped him few weeks or a month later, I got tired.
My point is, don’t try to force things or worry about these things, let what will be take it’s place.
manmade: yeah, that is common sense, OP can even stop him to ask for his WhatsApp number when next their path cross again with something like : Pls can I have your WhatsApp number I've got something to show you, I planned to get a pair of shoe for my brother as a surprise birthday's present I would need your opinion to help me pick the best. Lobatan.
not bad but then it would be very obvious. seeing as he might already suspect I have something for him. thanks still.
enirock: He has given you little or let me say next to nothing of his feelings but you are head over hills for him, maybe because of his approach or demeanour. Tell your heart not to run faster. I can't even say you guys are friends yet so enjoy the conversations, do not place a timeline or try to force events. See if this chatting leads to friendship but don't be the one pushing(it must come from two of you). Watch friendship grow and if it yields love then fine. If it is does not then you have made a life long friend and you will be able to live with yourself but when you pressure yourself on what he did or didn't do or what he should or shouldn't do then your push become greater and may open you up to be exploited. Wait, watch, let the chat mate develop and see if the birth is friendship and from there the picture become even more clearer
placeofallure: No guy who's really into you will allow an opportunity of getting your number slip.
He may like you but is committed to another within the same cycle. He could be holding back because of that. It's enough reason to hesitate if you ask me.
He may not really be into you, could be a ll the small talk is just him being civil.
Your age (I don't need to ask you) is when you mistake infatuation for love. You have to be careful and leave men out of your curriculum for now. Use this time to build your GPA.
If you still feel you wanna go ahead then don't collect his number if he doesn't ask for yours. Don't offer yourself on a platter of gold for him. He should work for it.
If he's yours, Providence will sort it out. Facebook, that's top priority now.
okay I suspected there might be someone else.. thanks alot.
Semperty: because it's fun. He probably knows you like him and stare at him so he's enjoying the eye contacts and doesn't want to lose your attention. I'm a guy and I know what I'm saying trust me If a dude really has feelings for you he wouldn't want to just lose contact completely with you like that even if it's for a while.. he'd take any slight opportunity to ask for your number or something he could use to reach you.
Ariza: Dude is fvcking teasing you! He knows you like him, and he is just taking his time. He probably hates getting "No" so he is taking his time to build interest and anxiety. Lol!
Sis, I'd advise you take several steps backward to confirm how you really feel about him.Analyze your feelings, if you really want him then get close to him. Be his friend! That is enough clue and opportunity for a guy who wants something with you.
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.
We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.
So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.
The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.
So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..
I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..
Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him.. I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.
Romance / Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Filomena: 11:28am On May 23, 2020 
