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Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 11:15am On May 23
Guys
This is basically for my real niggas into dating or anyone who understands how long distance dating works
I have known and been talking to this white woman (USA) for over 2 and half ways,we do have our arguments and quarrell that often leads to us not talking up to month's but we would still settle after I apologize
Last year December was the 2nd time we had beef and not talk
What caused the beef?
Having known her for two year's and constant talking and video call's
I can bet my left Ball's that this woman

(8 years older than me,single never had kids she can't have a child because she has PCOD
If you don't know
Google PCOD
PCOD makes her highly uncomfortable during her mentruation)

She hasn't sent me a dime before
Last year I asked her when she would come visit me in Nigeria she said maybe this year August complaining that it was too expensive to travel down here,
I asked her for the souvenir she would bring along when she comes to visit, she told me she would bring sand from the beach she goes to chill every Sunday, while Me I been dey expect sneakers, clothes etc,
She feels
I'm Trying to use her when I ask her for stuffs like that, so I got mad and told her to fvvk her sand that I don't need it
She said instead of me to say
Baby I don't want anything but you
I am making demand for stuffs
Ok I later apologized but got enraged when
I asked her the second time her plans for coming to Nigeria after some weeks last December
She said she doesn't know in short because she needs to get a new car because her old car was faulty bla bla bla,at a point I taught she was playing around with me and not taking me serious
We started fighting online
Which led to her saying that I should Go and get another sugar momma and leave her alone

I was so mad because all along I never saw her as a sugar mummy
I told her this was the height of it all and I wouldn't talk to her again, she said same from January till April I didn't contact her on WhatsApp she didn't too
But when ever I see her pictures in my laptop I get the urge to contact her again,

until last week
I sent her a butterfly picture
Because she loves butterflies
And it was just last night she replied me
Check out screenshots from our chat last night

My question is what do I really do with her,?
I'm planing to leave her and not chat her for like one month till she heals from whatever she's facing now,
Or what do you guys feel??

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Filomena: 11:28am On May 23
it's obvious she wants you to stop bothering her
you will only end up pushing her away more if you keep up with this attitude.

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Liliantalks: 11:30am On May 23
What happened
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Ablyz(m): 11:34am On May 23
yah00 boy maney

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 11:37am On May 23
Filomena:
it's obvious she wants you to stop bothering her

you will only end up pushing her away more if you keep up with this attitude.

Which attitude
I stopped asking her for anything long time ago when I realized she wasn't gonna send anything
And i'm making her understand I'm independent
But she's just not romantic and she's to miss independent
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 11:38am On May 23
Liliantalks:
What happened

She is too stubborn
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Seandisputed(m): 11:38am On May 23
She has seen through your shenanigans. Find another client my guy

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 11:41am On May 23
Filomena:
it's obvious she wants you to stop bothering her

you will only end up pushing her away more if you keep up with this attitude.

Remember nobody wants to be in a one sided relationship
Even you self no go dey happy if your man no day return love and affection, I know She's too busy with working from home but I Need to be assured that she feels what I feel for her
I nearly sent her an anakara clothe from Nigeria to USA you know how expensive that its but I almost did that to show her level's until the fight
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by xendra: 11:44am On May 23
guy, white women are gold, you must never stop trying or give up on your love for her, she will come around. if you dare leave her you will be stuck with all these "annoying" "dependent naija girls o cheesy

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 11:46am On May 23
Seandisputed:
She has seen through your shenanigans.
Find another client my guy

Its not easy to get another legit contact wey go wan dey talk to you for long,some go chat with you,you go still carry dem come WhatsApp but at a point dem no go get the zeal to follow you talk again before you know dem go block you
No be Yankee women??
Dose women get special demon wey dey work them
Not to talk of USA if you know,you know

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Naija246: 11:49am On May 23
what country is she from?
If it's one of these poor eastern European countries, dump her.
Try dating Women from Finland, Germany, Singapore, etc
these countries are rich asf.
Once you manage get one pregnant, you're set financially.

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by PrettyPrint(f): 11:49am On May 23
Mtcheeeeew.


She want to use her money to travel down to come see you and you're still makin demands. Instead of you to even encourage her by helping with expenses.


Besides, I think you're just after your own selfish, yahoo interest. Good thing she's cutting you off

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by tyup(m): 11:50am On May 23
All I've got to say is Nigerian girls disgust and irritates me than decayed Poo

I wouldn't hesitate to bombard a large gathering of Nigerian yung girls sad

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by juniorboma: 11:53am On May 23
Fo.olish young man, go get a job.

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by juniorboma: 11:54am On May 23
tyup:
All I've got to say is Nigerian girls disgust and irritates me than decayed Poo

I wouldn't hesitate to bombard a large gathering of Nigerian yung girls sad

Another animal on the loose..
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 12:01pm On May 23
juniorboma:
Fo.olish young man, go get a job.

Wise old man
How does sharing my posts on naira land make me jobless??

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by juniorboma: 12:03pm On May 23
Slimranky:


Wise old man
How does sharing my posts on naira land makes me jobless??

You are trying too hard to please a woman who doesn't give a damn about you..

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 12:05pm On May 23
Naija246:
what country is she from?
If it's one of these poor eastern European countries, dump her.
Trying dating Women from Finland, Germany, Singapore, etc
these countries are rich asf.
Once you manage get one pregnant, you're set financially.

Bro na USA she dey
That's why I'm stuck like this
One mind dey tell me to bone her but
When I see the picture of her fresh white clitoris
I go reason am
If I nor bang that tight white pussy
Wetin I gain

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 12:09pm On May 23
juniorboma:


You are trying too hard to please a woman who doesn't give a damn about you..

If you had said this in your first reply
I would have thanked you for your comment
But you rather insulted me and called me jobless
When you don't even know me

Do you know that Tomorrow I can become the President of Nigeria?
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by beejay501: 12:13pm On May 23
Senior Man try collect money from her na, bro she be client o , she gat noting to loose that's why she day do anyhow...if to say she day send u her dollars her head for correct......I don talk my own
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 12:15pm On May 23
PrettyPrint:
Mtcheeeeew.


She want to use her money to travel down to come see you and you're still makin demands. Instead of you to even encourage her by helping with expenses.


Besides, I think you're just after your own selfish, yahoo interest. Good thing she's cutting you off

You think??
You're not a real gee
Do you know
There's every possibility that your thoughts can be mere fallacies,
She never let's me go if not
She would have blocked me long time ago,
Do you know what it means to be on sub every time and call in a video call
There are many other Way's i contribute to her mental state and growth of the relationship
You are wrong again,im not a Yahoo boy
I'm not just into Nigeria girls
I don't have any Nigeria gf I don't want either
Overseas light skin women freak me like mad
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 12:17pm On May 23
tyup:
All I've got to say is Nigerian girls disgust and irritates me than decayed Poo

I wouldn't hesitate to bombard a large gathering of Nigerian yung girls sad

Bro white women freak me like mad,
I wish to have an interracial child in my lifetime
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by ChewingStick(m): 12:17pm On May 23
smiles... you've played some wrong cards.
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Easybela(f): 12:18pm On May 23
undecided my sister, some men can be useless ooo,after they will say women likes money,bunch of hypocrites.
PrettyPrint:
Mtcheeeeew.


She want to use her money to travel down to come see you and you're still makin demands. Instead of you to even encourage her by helping with expenses.


Besides, I think you're just after your own selfish, yahoo interest. Good thing she's cutting you off

Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 12:20pm On May 23
beejay501:
Senior Man try collect money from her na, bro she be client o , she gat noting to loose that's why she day do anyhow...if to say she day send u her dollars her head for correct......I don talk my own

Bad guy
You get a point but na small small remember
Ana eji ego,achu ego
You use money to find money

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by juniorboma: 12:21pm On May 23
Slimranky:


If you had said this in your first reply
I would have thanked you for your comment
But you rather insulted me and called me jobless
When you don't even know me

Do you know that Tomorrow I can become the President of Nigeria?

grin grin grin grin.... Unfortunately, you don't act like you will become one some day..

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Thatwasepic(m): 12:26pm On May 23
You are reading this post with one leg on top of the other.

This is not witchcraft

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by tunize(m): 12:30pm On May 23
Hehehhehhe Nigeria tire you shall i see am cos ur hope just dey on this woman like UNITE NATION wen one alliviate poverty. be like u nor know sey na oyibo u dey deal with if u disturb her too much she block u for life, u sound really desperate she should have been the one craving for u and also wanting to come to Nigeria not the other way round. But the same Oyibo shall can be funny imagine u na go through legit but she fit just dey b those awon facebook booz cash out. inside life!!
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by tunize(m): 12:37pm On May 23
tyup:
All I've got to say is Nigerian girls disgust and irritates me than decayed Poo

I wouldn't hesitate to bombard a large gathering of Nigerian yung girls sad
The funny tin be sey na inside same Nigeria woman leg u pass come out and will be even funnier because weda u like am or not na still the same Nigeria girl u go marry and go still born for you. calm down our women are special.

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Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by tyup(m): 12:38pm On May 23
Naija246:
what country is she from?
If it's one of these poor eastern European countries, dump her.
Trying dating Women from Finland, Germany, Singapore, etc
these countries are rich asf.
Once you manage get one pregnant, you're set financially.

Poor European ladies are the best white ladies you'll ever find cuz they're humble and supportive

I got a Girlfriend like that from Serbia she's not rich but she's everything a man can ask from a lady. I've spent on her but ion regret it cuz she'll do more than that for me if she have
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Slimranky(m): 12:39pm On May 23
ChewingStick:
smiles... you've played some wrong cards.

How??
Clear me bro!!
For this work
No be know all
We learn erryday
Re: Should I Keep Talking With Her by Happyfela(m): 12:39pm On May 23
Send her Flower. This one na Pen pal for now.

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