So, I finally met the man of my life,
He is tall, light skinned, handsome, smart looking and intelligent.
He is an only son in his mid 20's. Believe me, I said man of my life because he is like the complete package; Caring to the core, full of humor, very loving and generous.
He is a marijuana addict, that's the part that freaks me out the most. Whenever he is high on marijuana, though absolutely nothing changes about him, Instead he becomes cooler, tender and more realistic. I am aware that its a bad attitude and would want to quit the relationship.
I am afraid I wont be able to change him, I am afraid of the thought of raising kids with an addict and what that could portray to the children. What worries me the most often times is that in spite of he's addiction that could pose severe consequences both to health and otherwise, I still feel no lesser love for him regardless, or has he ever looked or felt wrong to me.
I am 21 and really confused. I love this guy, and I don't know if I should preserve this beautiful thing or to break up with him. I don't want my naivety to get the better of me.

quoker:
So, I finally met the man of my life,
He is tall, light skinned, handsome, smart looking and intelligent.
He is an only son in his mid 20's. Believe me, I said man of my life because he is like the complete package; Caring to the core, full of humor, very loving and generous.
He is a marijuana addict, that's the part that freaks me out the most. Whenever he is high on marijuana, though absolutely nothing changes about him, Instead he becomes cooler, tender and more realistic. I am aware that its a bad attitude and would want to quit the relationship.
I am afraid I wont be able to change him, I am afraid of the thought of raising kids with an addict and what that could portray to the children. What worries me the most often times is that in spite of he's addiction that could pose severe consequences both to health and otherwise, I still feel no lesser love for him regardless, or has he ever looked or felt wrong to me.
I am 21 and really confused. I love this guy, and I don't know if I should preserve this beautiful thing or to break up with him. I don't want my naivety to get the better of me.

Marijuana they say prevents coronavirus so when next he wants to roll up, roll up with him.
On the contrary, if you arent comfy with him smoking, talk to him about it. If the feeling is mutual, he should strike a balance.

Quoker in love with a smoker
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I'm not a smoker, but I still prefer someone that smokes marijuana to someone that smokes cigarettes

raphroye:
I'm not a smoker, but I still prefer someone that smokes marijuana to someone that smokes cigarettes

how do I deal with my friends and family, I don't want them to know that my man smokes.
I fear they will have bed feelings about him.

quoker:


how do I deal with my friends and family, I don't want them to know that my man smokes.
I fear they will have bed feelings about him.

How did you meet him?
Have you always known about his lifestyle?
Can you deal with a man that needs some substance to be calm?

quoker:
So, I finally met the man of my life,
He is tall, light skinned, handsome, smart looking and intelligent.
He is an only son in his mid 20's. Believe me, I said man of my life because he is like the complete package; Caring to the core, full of humor, very loving and generous.
He is a marijuana addict, that's the part that freaks me out the most. Whenever he is high on marijuana, though absolutely nothing changes about him, Instead he becomes cooler, tender and more realistic. I am aware that its a bad attitude and would want to quit the relationship.
I am afraid I wont be able to change him, I am afraid of the thought of raising kids with an addict and what that could portray to the children. What worries me the most often times is that in spite of he's addiction that could pose severe consequences both to health and otherwise, I still feel no lesser love for him regardless, or has he ever looked or felt wrong to me.
I am 21 and really confused. I love this guy, and I don't know if I should preserve this beautiful thing or to break up with him. I don't want my naivety to get the better of me.

oh baby!
So you came to Nairaland to talk about my addiction when you can talk to me face to face.
Well you know I love you and nothing is gonna change that.

raphroye:
I'm not a smoker, but I still prefer someone that smokes marijuana to someone that smokes cigarettes

Both cigarettes and marijuana are bad but then I still can't understand how educated people will argue that marijuana is better than cigarettes.
Visit Iyaba psychiatric or Aro most youths admitted there are as a result of marijuana and never cigarettes.
NOTE both are dangerous but the I would rather stick with cigarettes than smoke a hard drug that can turn someone mad.

Better still don't smoke anything, and if you must smoke avoid the one that leads to iyaba

Pray for him and be patient with him too. Prayers changes things



Cheers

Don't judge people in their today...people do change.I was a smoker when I met and married my wife.both cigarette and ganja...but today,I'm a changed man..dat he smokes does not make him irresponsible.there are men that smokes not,but are irresponsible....think.

Smoking mj is not as bad as the media portrays it....

Ohhhh

Mcreloaded:


Both cigarettes and marijuana are bad but then I still can't understand how educated people will argue that marijuana is better than cigarettes.
Visit Iyaba psychiatric or Aro most youths admitted there are as a result of marijuana and never cigarettes.
NOTE both are dangerous but the I would rather stick with cigarettes than smoke a hard drug that can turn someone mad.

Better still don't smoke anything, and if you must smoke avoid the one that leads to iyaba

Ignorance of the highest order

If you can't handle him that way, then leave him alone. Stop trying to manipulate people with emotions to change who they really are to please you.

woah
the way you described your boyfriend depicts me 100% no cap. ........only that im about your age
including the weed but i am not addicted to it

as long as he doesn't act foolish when he is high there's no issue there. maybe you can try making him take the herb in another way rather than smoking it. i don't think any sane parent would want to influence their kids negatively.

doppelganger shit ?

nobody is perfect

i know say the bobo go sabi Bleep

Love is love, smoking is smoking. It doesn't affect each other lady!

Don't u worry a thing he will change

Mcreloaded:


Both cigarettes and marijuana are bad but then I still can't understand how educated people will argue that marijuana is better than cigarettes.
Visit Iyaba psychiatric or Aro most youths admitted there are as a result of marijuana and never cigarettes.
NOTE both are dangerous but the I would rather stick with cigarettes than smoke a hard drug that can turn someone mad.

Better still don't smoke anything, and if you must smoke avoid the one that leads to iyaba

Marijuana is a natural plant, cigarette isn't.

The ones at Aro can never be because of just Marijuana. People do have mental issues and still, they'll be smoking. That could be the case.

Marijuana doesn't makes one to become unhealthy.. Except you're a smoker that doesn't care for yourself!

Marriage nor b boyfriend and girl friend o..moreover you still a kid so u will definitely mistake infactuation to Love.

No one on this platform can help you, all we can do is give you biased opinions and advise. This is a decision that you have to make on your own. You have to weigh the pros and cons of sticking to him, and you have to be ready to stand by your decision.

Also, be ready to face the consequences of your decision.

TheLioness:
No one on this platform can help you, all they can do is give you biased opinions and advise. This is a decision that you have to make on your own. You have to weigh the pros and cons of sticking to him, and you have to be ready to stand by your decision.

Also, be ready to face the consequences of your decision.

First statement yen ko necessary.. you could have channelled your opinion without that..smh

Orestino:


First statement yen ko necessary.. you could have channelled your opinion without that..smh

Don't come for my head o. Na truth I talk.
Anyways, lemme edit it and include myself.

TheLioness:
Don't come for my head o. Na truth I talk. Anyways, lemme edit it and include myself.

good! Include yourself and exempt Orestino

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quoker:
So, I finally met the man of my life,
He is tall, light skinned, handsome, smart looking and intelligent.
He is an only son in his mid 20's. Believe me, I said man of my life because he is like the complete package; Caring to the core, full of humor, very loving and generous.
He is a marijuana addict, that's the part that freaks me out the most. Whenever he is high on marijuana, though absolutely nothing changes about him, Instead he becomes cooler, tender and more realistic. I am aware that its a bad attitude and would want to quit the relationship.
I am afraid I wont be able to change him, I am afraid of the thought of raising kids with an addict and what that could portray to the children. What worries me the most often times is that in spite of he's addiction that could pose severe consequences both to health and otherwise, I still feel no lesser love for him regardless, or has he ever looked or felt wrong to me.
I am 21 and really confused. I love this guy, and I don't know if I should preserve this beautiful thing or to break up with him. I don't want my naivety to get the better of me.

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OgwuEgo, this is one of the many hungry boys who disguise as female on Nairaland.

I hope his lips are not deep black

Orestino:


good! Include yourself and exempt Orestino

No o. Are you not a nairalander? All of us join for this "we".

We will unmask them Insha Allah

OneDollarSalary:
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OgwuEgo, this is one of the many hungry boys who disguise as female on Nairaland.

raphroye:
I'm not a smoker, but I still prefer someone that smokes marijuana to someone that smokes cigarettes

Most people smoking marijuana smokes cigarettes to even the ones that don't miss cigarettes inside the substance.

OgwuEgo:
We will unmask them Insha Allah

Inshallah ameen .

What disgust me most is seeing the males drooling over anything that have that "f". Jeez
There are countless beautiful girls in the neighborhood, it's a person you don't know the gender or who's behind the keyboard on an anonymous forum you are drooling over.

Disgusting .

UnclePrincipal:
If you can't handle him that way, then leave him alone. Stop trying to manipulate people with emotions to change who they really are to please you.

no, you are wrong...
im not trying to change him. Aside the health effect of smoking and what people will possibly think about us is my only concern.

UnclePrincipal:
If you can't handle him that way, then leave him alone. Stop trying to manipulate people with emotions to change who they really are to please you.

so smoking marijuana is a good thing??

wow the level of your wisdom.