₦airaland Forum

Ryan03:
and how many girls are in those countries compared to those at home for you to think almost all Nigeria girls are prostitutes? How many of your relations are abroad? How many countries have you visited? How many of your sisters have the inmessage app on their phones? Why not go and talk to them cause I don't think all this niraland bashing is doing any thing.

Ryan03:
so because he is not call all Nigeria women prostitutes he is trying to impress women? Guy you are a fool and a low life

dairykidd:
Hallelujah!!!

LeRabbite:
The problem, though, is that behaviours spreads in a society, especially easy vices that may provide temporary gain and long term problems. Look at the yahoo menace; imagine saying people should mind their business because it’s not their child or ward engaging in it. Yet, internet fraud is severely costing Nigeria millions, if not billions, of dollars in online revenue/income. Major global e-commerce platforms have shit out Nigeria and Nigerians from doing business because some idiots messed up the entire thing.

Likewise, a mother openly prostituting is a problem for society. What happens to her children’s prospects of securing even respectable casual partner, never mind marriage? Prostitution is a sign of moral debasement. And a society that has such a massive percentage of prostitutes as Nigeria will only become worse because children will eventually become more fatherless. Imagine the effects of large scale fatherlessness in a society. It is a ticking time bomb

LeRabbite:
I see you’re conflicted.

According to you, many guys on nairaland endorse patronizing prostitutes. You should know that one of the features of prositutes is that they practice their trade openly and unabashedly.

Conflict arises when a woman pretends to be a non-prostitute but is a prostitute for all intents and purposes.

If you are a prostitute don’t be ashamed, present yourself as one. Don’t be forming decent girl on the street and then be on InMessage with a profile that says “hookup only”, “no stupid questions” while the only part of your anatomy that is unseen are nipplès and clitôris. Let us know who and what we are dealing with from the door.

And yes, guys justify sleeping around because there are more hoes in Nigeria than sand on the sea shore; and hoes exist to be fûcked. We hate non-virgins because they are a problem to the economy and society.

Guest007:

dairykidd:
Well ur new on NL so i wouldn't blame u much.. but those who know me here can attest to the fact that i'm the last person who would give a hoot about impressing any woman here. And trying to label me is very very petty amd unintelligent. If u say i'm trying to impress her so be it.. She's one of the few intelligent ones here & it's better for me to impress her than to support ur dumb & baseless argument

Lamanii22:
Even corpers? This is really serious...

dairykidd:
But Inmessenger isn't even 20% of Nigerian women? So how can someone get 95% from the stats.. It's wrong and Guest007 has a point.

A lot of ladies don't even know the site yet so it shouldn't even be used singularly as a means for collecting such data

Lamanii22:
First of I'm independent.. My mom raised me that way... I'm disciplined in every way... Not loosed...

Guest007:
Educated illiterates, babe

Guest007:
It's not my mother, is it yours? Let that person cure their own pain. Don't come and accuse innocent people.

Guest007:
Stupid people often pain me... You're not special

Guest007:
They're going to ignore these kinda threads and it just looks one way... Men bashing women.

I get where you're coming from but don't you think the men play a role in this? It can't be just the women at fault, I refuse to accept that. That's not an intelligent outcome.

Look around Nairaland, so so so many guys justify the use of prostitutes, but they hate hoes. They justify sleeping around but they hate none virgins.

It's a joke... It's not an intelligent debate coming from intelligent minds. They're pushing double standards down people's throats in this context.

Rayhandrinni:
I've got 1 from that little ratio. Lucky cunt me

Guest007:
You don't need to hide a lie, you need to stop the exaggeration of 95% blah blah blah

Guest007:
Then don't use it. There's no need to open these kinda threads. This platform has become an avenue to bash Nigerian women. Everyday, hundreds of threads on this section accusing ALL NIGERIAN WOMEN for what a few are doing and it's making you Nigerian men look like fools because these are your women. Someone up there quoting 95% of 100m women are prostitutes. Are you guys fucking serious

The world is watching, this isn't a forum only for Nigerians, other people come here and we read this everyday, it ain't a good look for the community.

*steps of the soap-box*

Fountainofyouth:
Mister man, you have never loved anyone deeply before, if you have, you wouldn't be okay with anyone cheating on you, so pls do not encourage cheats to continue their nonsense, not cool.

Newboss:
InMessage things. Mature minds only. LWKMD

Guest007:
You wouldn't know all this if you didn't take your foot and go and enter hook up apps. But since you did, you should also notice that there are a lot of people online offering their bodies for money; men and women in all.

I've seen black men slinging dick to anything moving but I don't walk around looking at all men like they are the same. I know that there are husbands, fathers and virgins walking around.

How you reason the world isn't gospel, as applies for me.

Newboss:
"I am fun to be with", na dem.

Newboss:
"I am fun to be with", na dem.

catwalq:
That community is for those kinda people.. To avoid poisoning your mind further, you should stay away. A friend to a fool is considered a fool. So are prostitutes....

keycash:
Lol its a new world where ladies don't value they pride please ...

Lamanii22:
This is the first time I'm hearing about inmessage lol

MedicH:
80% of females between 16&40 in Nigeria are prostitutes. 16% are gold diggers. 4% are good.

catwalq:
I can never understand how some people go to some sites with an aim,you meet like minds there,come out and then have the mouth to judge em..

That's hypocrisy of the highest order.
Its like watching porn but despising the actresses who do them,or following social media accounts of women who go nude but still believe they deserve no respect..

EMEKUSBOY9:
If you are serious about meeting a serious woman then you have no business visiting that site." Inmessenger" is not where u should be analysing women in general, because that site is for business women in the game

lilmax:
95% of women in Nigeria are used for hook up

You can find the loyal ones, the ones who aren't moved by your money, the ones with brains in the remaining 5%


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