Ezeeboiy:
next time do it in the toilet wen taking bath use soap to lubricate your dick

I'm not doing again sef, it's fucking overrated

noble71:

Yes he is, the guy is doing great. One thing I like about him is that he keeps to his words. though I don't like his party.



Meanwhile at a good rate sell your Pi to us.

What's your rate $ir?

Okay

Ok

All Is going to be okay bro, the situation of this country is somehow, and most people are going through a lot. Just be calm, all is going to be well again. Believe in yourself

School subsidy

slawomir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Common boy

Stop worrying yourself over a woman whereabouts and who calls her and who she hangs out with
If you continue to do that to any woman the they will continue to that shit and even make it worse

Because it makes you look like a weak man

The funny thing is that if you don't care about what women do that is exactly when they start behaving themselves and loving you the more

You're a reeaalll nigga, can I pm you, need some OT

Iya Loja Nigeria

Gabreil2121:


Me too is my fantasy I'm thinking of trying it with my girlfriend cuz I just love her soft fair ass but have tried it before sha

It's good to always experience, enjoy bro

Gabreil2121:


Wow, and you enjoyed it?

Yes to an extent because it has been my fantasy for sometime now

Gabreil2121:


Did you see shit?

Yes, some dropped on my bedspread

Had it on Monday, it's overrated

earthsync:


Doing this would only make him feel pained hence difficult to detach himself from such person. Dear op, just focus more on doing the things you love. Also delete all traces of them, phone numbers, chats, pictures, anything that would remind you of them.

Thank you ma'am, I really appreciate

DearGorgeous:


If I were you, I'll return her treatment with complete silence. I won't utter a single word to her. I'll try and withdraw completely from the relationship, albeit how painful it might be.

Your best revenge should be to strive to be better than she left you. Intensify your efforts to make more money; so much money that any time she hears about you from your friends, it'll be good news of how you're breaking grounds financially.

She will come crawling back to you in no distance time. Just stay focused and dedicate your time in finding your bearings.

We all have been there at one time or the other of our lives.

Even this time shall pass, bro.

Cheers.

Thank you so so much dear, God bless you abundantly for me, your words really touched me, thank you for this beautiful piece of advise, the best I have seen so far

raumdeuter:
I am no expert on anything but I am glad to
help anyone I can. I have owned a couple of trucks. The first one
was a new truck and 6-year-old reefer that I purchased at 22 and
clueless. That one did not turn out well. Later I bought a worn out
truck and babied it until I could overhaul the engine. I did well
with that one.

I'll attach the spreadsheets. You can use them to calculate your cost
of operation in CPM (Cents Per Mile). You need to figure out what
equipment you would use, wages and other expenses. You can then plug
in the revenue offered from various companies or brokers and check the
profitability. IMHO, I would not own a truck unless I was involved in
the day-to-day operation. I think that would be a bad idea. More
fail than succeed, mostly because they operate like truck drivers and
not businessmen. I would not trust a company to run my truck for me.
Most are greedy and they only look out for themselves.

I have worked in the building trades and rental property for close to
20 years now. With the economy so bad and my children grown I am
looking at getting back into trucking. For the past 2+ years I have
been working on a broadband project and was awarded nearly a million
dollars of ARRA stimulus funding on August 2010. I am still pouring
through government red tape and jumping through hoops to receive these
funds. This project and the waiting have left me broke and not too
hopeful of a positive outcome. I have been looking at going to work
in the North Dakota oilfields. A driver can make from $80,000 -
$140,000 a year depending on the job, company, home time and
experience.

I have tried to purchase another truck but I lack the capital
necessary to make this happen. I have been researching the trucking
industry for several months now as a fallback position if this
broadband project fails. In doing this I have looked at various
opportunities in the trucking industry. I have looked at several dump
truck and oilfield opportunities.

I’ll share my thoughts on several possible trucking industry
opportunities. These are OTR opportunities. A smart operator in the
right location can run more of a regional operation and make as much
as someone running coast-to-coast. Dry Vans pay the least of the
three main operations. Flatbeds and Reefers both pay more. Everybody
needs food so reefers are a sure bet. However the rates fluctuate and
the loading/unloading schedules and waits are ugly. They always want
the load yesterday and there is an inherent risk of losing the product
if the reefer unit breaks down. Dry van is probably the most stable
and in demand as well as simple and easy. You still lose some time on
loading/unloading but appointment times aren’t in the middle of the
night or wee hours of the morning. Flatbeds offer the most pleasant
experience with daytime unloading/loading and little or no waiting.
They are much more affected by downturns in the economy though. Many
of the loads are building materials or construction equipment so the
economy has a strong hold on this type of operation.

First and worst is the lease/purchase aka the fleece/purchase. This
is where the company leases a truck to a driver for a high weekly
payment. Most exercise complete control over the equipment. On weeks
with breakdown or home time you get a bill instead of a paycheck.
Many of these collect far more than the truck is worth and several
don’t ever allow you to ever own the truck. I share this because I
want you to understand how greedy the companies are.

Next we have the typical lease situation. You purchase a truck and
lease it to a company. You have mileage and percentage leases. Most
companies only offer mileage leases. The mileage pay is about what I
ran for in the nineties. The FSC (Fuel Service Charge) they pay
covers the difference in fuel cost today compared to then. Still
equipment is much more expensive now than then. The percentage lease
offers a better opportunity to earn but most are afraid of it because
it doesn’t cover deadhead (empty miles). The truck driver mentality
is if I get paid for all miles and keep the wheels turning, I’ll do
all right. With todays pay rates you will run yourself and your
equipment into the ground doing this for nothing more than a moderate
living. Mileage leases pay (FSC included) about 1.25 – 1.40 CPM.
Percentage leases pay about 1.35 – 1.80 CPM.

Lease terms vary greatly. Some furnish trailers and some charge a
weekly trailer rent. Some pay one percentage without a trailer and a
higher percentage with a trailer. Some furnish base plates (truck
license plate) free of charge and some furnish them and deduct the
cost weekly over 15 – 25 weeks. Some pay tolls but most don’t.
Running the Northeast you can spend close to $100 in a day on tolls.
They are all required to carry liability and cargo insurance. A few
of the crooks will try to recover some of this cost too. Many to most
will make you escrow $500 - $1500 for insurance deductibles in case of
an accident. You will need bobtail or unladen liability,
comprehensive and collision in addition to their insurance. Some
offer good deals and sometimes you need to get it on your own
somewhere else. In addition to these standard items many companies
will nickel and dime you to death with various fees. Sometimes you
can make more with your own trailer. If the company has lots of drop
and hook freight, your own trailer is more of a burden.

Finally we get to the last OTR opportunity that has more earning
potential and more risk. This is where you become a carrier or
trucking company. You get your own authority and do your own
recordkeeping and reports. This is not for truck drivers. This is
for businessmen who drive a truck. Here you can see rates from 1.50
CPM to 3.00 CPM and even more on shorter runs. If you know the
trucking industry, have good business skills and are a fair negotiator
you can do well here. There is a lot more work, many varied tasks and
more risk but the rewards are worthwhile. While you are averaging
1.30 – 1.70 with the above options you can average 1.80 – 2.20 with
this method. While you have more work, you can run fewer miles, which
allows time to do the other tasks.

Now I’ll sum up the average earnings potential, from my point of view,
for the OTR opportunities. An OTR driver can earn $25,000 - $55,000.
A lease/purchase operator can make about the same if he stays on the
road, doesn’t anger management and has a little luck. Most don’t do
as well as a company driver and are nothing more than a glorified
company driver. A lease operator who acquired his truck from an
independent source will make $55,000 - $75,000 before taxes. This
means you could net $45,000 - $65,000. With your authority a smart
operator could net after taxes from $70,000 – $120,000. There’s no
way you could do this unless you managed the operation though.

As you can see this doesn’t leave much for profit if you put a driver
on the truck. It is a balancing act. If you take more profit and pay
the driver less, you will have a hard time keeping drivers and more
repair bills due to poor drivers. If you lease a truck to a company
on percentage, get a good deal, get a good driver and can keep him,
spend a minimal amount of time managing the operation and have some
good fortune you could expect to make $5,000 - $15,000 annually. If
you wanted to take on the risk, responsibility and workload of being a
carrier you would have the potential to double that. It would take
several hours a day to do this. A couple of weeks looking for a
driver after your truck breaks down and is in the shop for a week or
two and the year’s profit goes down drastically.

IMHO there is only one way I would do this. I would do it with my own
authority and would establish one truck. When it was profitable I
would expand. When I had about five trucks I would quit driving and
run them full time.

Now let’s explore some more lucrative opportunities such as dump or
oilfield operations. What makes these more lucrative IMHO is the
earning potential and the closer proximity of the operation. Both pay
by the hour although some dump work pays by the ton. Both offer
long-term contracts. Usually they want at least a 6-day a week, 12
hour a day commitment. Oilfield contracts often call for 24/7, 365
day operation. In either operation you seldom venture further than
100 miles and often much less. This allows you to run the operation
locally. You can use the same mechanic, parts store and such. You
can negotiate and better control costs. You can recover a broken
piece of equipment yourself instead of paying high towing and be at
the mercy of an out of town repair shop. As for which one is better
and why, I quite honestly can’t answer that as I lack first-hand
experience in either operation. The oilfield operations are booming
and pay up to 20% more than a dump operation.

Here is a brief summary of what I think is possible on both. I
believe on the dump truck contract that you could pay above average
wages and net as much as $40,000 - $60,000 per truck. This was on a
DOT contract hauling sand one direction and salt back. This run is in
Indiana and Michigan and is 150 miles one way. I believe a truck
running water in the North Dakota oilfield could net as much as
$70,000 - $100,000+.

I have spent more time looking at the oilfield opportunities. I would
need to go up and work first to gain experience. I plan to do that by
the end of the year. My plan is to go work this for a year or so and
I should be able to save enough to buy a truck and start an operation.
If I had someone that wanted to invest and share in the profits, I
could probably start after three months of learning and making
contacts.

I believe you could start with one truck but two would be much better.
I have scratched this out on paper and believe you could build a
multi-million dollar business (gross) in five years. In three years
you could have six trucks running and by the fifth year you would be
paying cash for new or replacement equipment. You could finance your
equipment for three and four years but payoff everything over two.
The investor could have his money back with interest in two years.
Then he could have an amount equal to the investment capital each year
for the next three years. After that he would be paid from profits
based on a percentage of ownership. This should be more than double
what he received in the three prior years. I believe an investor; my
son and myself could retire off this idea.

The hard part of this plan is housing. To make this work land and
modular man-camp housing would have to be purchased. By doing this
you could capitalize the large sum that you would be spending for
housing. My truck budget calculates $4 per hour for housing. This
would add to the company’s net worth too. Right now three bedroom
modular homes are renting around $5,000 per month with a year lease.
Some want the year up front but all want first and last month and one
month deposit to move in. Land is from $10,000 to $50,000 per acre in
the area and two counties have moratoriums on man camp construction.
You can still purchase nearby land in Eastern Montana for $1,000 per
acre. You would have to use a company van for drivers to travel at
shift changes. The amount of money that would be spent on housing
would allow you to put together assets of $500,000 in land and modular
housing. It would also pay for transportation, maintenance and
housekeeping (to maintain the quality of the modular housing) and
eventually turn a small profit. By the way I have a Real Estate and
HVAC Journeyman license and enough hours in Electrical and Plumbing to
test for a Journeyman license.

If I were a rich man I would get into housing and forget trucking.
With modular housing you could just sell it off if/when the boom ends.
With six trucks and 16 full-time drivers you would spend from
$180,000 to put them up two to a bedroom to $230,000 to put them up
with a bedroom per man if you could find them. Even if you owned
travel trailers and put them two to a travel trailer it would cost
about $77,000 a year in lot rent with a initial investment of $60,000
- $90,000 for travel trailers.

Now you have a general overview of trucking and some idea whether you
really want to venture into your original idea. I don’t know how much
you planned on investing or have to invest. In addition, I don’t know
if this idea appeals to you. Let me know what your thoughts are and
if you are interested. Also let me know what kind of capital you
might have to invest if the idea was sound enough. If it looks like
we might do something together, I can put together a business plan and
pro forma financial projections for you to examine.

🙄🙄

DearGorgeous:
That's easy nah.

1. Delete all their chats and messages.
2. Stop doing those things you were doing because of him/her, or doing together in the past.
3. Stop putting on those wears s/he specifically liked.
4. Stop going to those places you used to hang out together in the past.
5. Stop listening to his/her favourite songs/musics.
6. Replace the time you usually accord them, doing things that you fancy.
7. Purse your passion. Get closer to God and His works.
8. Be extremely busy, to get you distracted.
9. Don't stalk them.
10. Avoid his or her friends that remind you of them.

When you heal fully, and you no longer regard them as before, you can begin to relax gradually on the aforementioned.

Finally, STOP falling in love. Try reciporate on exact same measure you were loved. Don't do pass your self so you wouldn't share premium tears when breakfast is served.

For me, apart from the Love of God and that of my parents, I don't even believe in anyother kind of love.

Hope this helps.

I greet you specifically ma'am, initially I thought the love were balanced but I never knew it's all scam, before I know wetin dey happen my back don dey ground already lol 😂

But it's well, I will also show her that 2 can play this game because she messed with the wrong guy

OkayDaddy:


Anytime you see her, imagine another man on top of her.

Na idleness dey worry you sha.

Lol, una Sabi yab person for this forum Sha but it's all welcome 😁

obinna58:


We’ve all been there
Clear her from your memory, anything making you remember her, delete it, don’t view her photos, don’t talk to her, silence and time will heal you

Never show them you love them, never show them they’re too important to you
Hold the exist door by yourself

That's what I'm doing already boss, no time to check time, but I will come back for revenge

Vongrin5655:
Just smoke weed you'll be fine,not colos o

And bang pussy

TalkTalkTwins:
You are finished bro you cannot unlove them!

Lol, she's already complaining about my attitude, no more attention like before and nigga be banging other pussy already

Chrisjordan2015:
I could give you an advise or two from what I learnt in my early to mid 20’s.

First of all, don’t be in a rush to “kill this feeling”…your brain isn’t stupid. You’ve been emotionally attached and it isn’t easy as switching off the button. What you want to do is to savour the feeling, anticipate it, welcome it, be at one with it and dare I say, enjoy it. Even if you’re a ‘real G’, Cry alone if need be. The more you fight it, the worse it becomes. By now your mind will be playing images of her with another guy, under the sheets. Lol, It is what it is.
Secondly, you should cut off contact. Block her everywhere because when you do, it’ll increase the healing process. You’d avoid temptations to reach out and send a message. So block and move ahead. Note, only reason I won’t advise this is if you anticipate she’d get back and you’d want to revenge because- she will reach out. Might be weeks or months but she’ll reach out. If you don’t and want to move ahead - Block her!
Someone pointed out that more are in front. That person may be right because the older you get, you realize that most people look out for their own interest and you’d be in a better position to anticipate your detour in similar events- in other words, be ready to lose her. Learnt all these in my 20’s.
Lastly prioritize your mental health and peace of mind next time.

Do all these and after some time, you’d be back to optimal levels. Peace out.

Thanks Boss, my plan is to kill every feeling I Have for her and keep her where she belongs, because I think I have made the mistake of having a feeling for her in the first place because she doesn't deserve it

Edipet:
I can bet my two ball that you go still go beg that girl

No sir you are wrong, I dey stand my ground, and she's finding difficult to believe that I can still stand my ground, she will always complain of my bad attitude but who gives a Bleep even though I know I still have feelings for her

Edipet:
Next time, don't love but lust so that when there is issue you will easily forget her

Very clear boss, this people are heatless, someone I should have Keep as a sex mate, I go mumu dey love

advanceDNA:


Na so them be....dem like men wey go dey mumu for them ... sadly, they will dump him for one bad boy vibes nigga that treats them like trash...

B4 e reach over complain level...u rush am with attention again ... Then withdraw again....she will get used to the new pattern.....

Lol, alright Boss, more like what I have been doing lately

advanceDNA:


Go out with other pple.....open urself to new relationships...doesn't have to dating or cheating....but explore more with others..the idea is to learn how to be happy and enjoy other pple's presence..
... And also try to break the pattern/frequency of seeing that person u overlove... if u see Once a week change it to one in two weeks....

Learn to say no to her....just because u can say no even if u have the ability/will to say yes ..

It's not healthy to over love ..... the recipient will take u for granted and exploit ur feelings

Thank you sir for this piece of advise, been on it Sha, I hope it yield the expected results, though she complained that I have changed lol, but she won't understand the kind of hardwork I'm putting in to stop giving a Bleep about her

Micheal56:

Bro find another gal
Her friends go soon give u name
Maybe u do not understand that all human have pride
If she form u form

Alright sir, you made a valid point actually, thanks

Micheal56:


Bro I pass through ur stage too he do me u go still laugh over this because u only disturbing urself her decision is final
Stop the text mak she too know say u are not happy for how she is treating u
Focus on what ever u are doing
Bro the gal u see today give am 2yrs she go don old and new sweet chicks go don come up

I don't text her that frequently anymore, we just there, trying to leave her PATA PATA seems so hard, and I wish I can stop loving her and turn her to just a sex mate because her sex game is superb

iInjureHerYansh:
Lol bro lemme tell you my short story.
Girl wey I disvirgined myself. The moment I stopped giving her money she broke up with me.
If a Virgin can do that then na non Virgin no go run you? Lol

My man there is zero benefits in loving a Nigerian girl. I repeat zero benefits. The only thing you will get from loving them is a chronic heartbreak.

These girls don't love you. They are all out for their own survival. It's all about themselves forget all those sweet name calling and those cooking and different sex styles all na bait to make you believe they love you. Many men have fallen for their gimmicks and I'm glad one don show you shege. I believe you were among them "she's different" "not all girls are like that bla bla" gang.
He sweet me as you experience am first hand. Learn and move on.

Everything you said her is nothing but the truth, I thought I have made it in life lol, I was thinking she's different from the others, omo they broke my heart


I just want to kill this feeling and move on

Micheal56:

Bro u don't need a new heart
Be a man bro
Watin u Dey talk
If u lose concentration for a month it might affect you for a year
Think of your own life say how your future won be or u don mak am for life ?

Na true you talk sir, I have moved on but I still have the feelings, I still Miss her a lot

Micheal56:

How old are you
Is this ur first experience
Bro more bitter experience dey front

Yes it's my first experience boss because This is the first time I love someone like this lol.


As for many dey front, I rather bend than to Bleep up like this again, even marriage no sure for us again like this

Micheal56:

Watin be ur problem
This is why I advice guys to have little of playboy attitude
U Dey see useless gal instead of u to move on u Dey reason how to unlove
Send her more money so she can love u back

Lol😂 funny enough I used to this, send her money anytime we had issues just to say sorry and weyrey go still dey form and act like she is the air I breathe, I wish I can be given a new heart and remove this current one because this one don jonz