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Eko

The only problem we have is tribalism

And Jesus wept

I don't know what all this afonjas see in marrying an old Haggard evening news paper oyinbos while my igbo brothers marry the fresh ones

Nigeria my country

Modernist:
Op how's the girl now, is she still yours?

yes bro, we are still cool with each other

generationz:
Werey

Do something about your phobia for commitment though.


I have seen this thing destroy actual families when the father fails to deal with it.

lol, well noted ma'am, thanks

generationz:
His direct answer only proves she's not a price in his life.





Simple and short.


@ Finnese001

You have other women in your life and have serious commitment issues, right?

I can visualize you heaving a silent sigh of relief with that question. right?


You have definitely hurt her feelings.



From all the emojis and how your described her it shows she loves to communicate indirectly and doesn't like offending people. She would Rather be passive aggressive than fight directly.

Right?


Now the ratio between how much you hurt you hurt her and how much she will hate you is proportional to how many desperate men are available to wife her this instant.

No ma'am, I didn't heave a silent sign of relief but instead a louder one. Thank you

Fountainofyouth:
I sincerely and honestly loathe men like you, no offense.

I equally loathe desperate ladies like you too, looking for who to commit

Cee9:
@op what was your motive for dating her? because if your motive was clear enough to her, she wouldn't have asked such questions..

Bro the relationship in question is not even up to two months old, we were just loving up, trying to know each other very well, I can swear by anything that I haven't even touch her, how can she be talking of marriage at that stage?

Na them them

Xmen149:
Your answer would have been,"till that time comes".
Besides,if you both have a defined rship from beginning this wouldn't ave popped up,e everyone will know their standing

Okay bro, maybe next time

Debramaye:
I admire your honesty

Thanks dear

damtan:
You shouldn't have given a direct answer. You could have played on her mind.

I thought of that too but i decided to come out straight

iClef:
Your reply is lit. I know the mind game she was trying to play. Luckily, you escaped it.

She wants to act as if lots of men are lined up asking for her hand in marriage, but you're the one stopping her.

In the future, if you don't marry her, she'll curse you by saying, "God will punish you. You are the reason I'm not married till today. When men were asking for my hand in marriage, I rejected them because of you and now you've wasted my years in life."

With your reply, you've bypassed it. Though, she will use it as an opportunity to cheat.

From today, have it in mind that she'll cheat, but you don't need to worry. Get yourself a new girlfriend and keep her as "just friend."

From today, she'll shower you with lots of love, but it's fake love just to keep you on the side while trying the other options. Whichever clicks for her first, she'll marry that one.

The good news is: no one will blame, curse, or blackmail you in the future.

The bad news is: she may infect you with an STI one of those options or admirers will give her.

Starting from today, use condom or abstain.

That's all.

Thanks so much bro, i really appreciate

iClef:
Nice chat. I wish I can chat like you.

Lol, I'm just being real

Ryan03:
why go into a relationship with a girl when you know you are not sure of marrying her?

Must all relationship leads to marriage, i love her but marriage is the last thing on my mind right now, so if she wants to marry, i will endorse it, even attend the wedding self

pansophist:
Oga you de learn work? Your girlfriend don migrate to another dude lap. The message na to see your reactions, and most probably, use am against you if make her feel guilty or responsible for breaking your heart

You sef come F up join, you de tell her make she no turn anybody proposal down, unless she no like the person. Good then, she like the guy so make you park one side.

Take heart eh?

Lol, I'm not pained bro believe me, i don't just want anybody to hold anything against me, prior to this question, she has been referring to my mum as her mother In-law, do you get the thing??

YorubaKing:
OP, you're indeed too immature for a relationship. Focus on your life, abeg.

Yea i think so, thank you

IceColdVeins:
Its apparent that op and peepz dropping comments don't understand women's school of thoughts and motives behind questions they ask.

Three scenarios might have triggered the question in no specific order;

1. Judging by her overkilling use of love/heart and emojis unneccessarily after the question, it might owe to the fact that she is already weighing options of leaving you for another guy ready to settle down which is unlike you and just wanted to document your reactions by tipping you off.

2. She's just trying to see how far you are willing to take the relationship, hence, she expects you to encourage her to ward off other potential suitors in a manner of territoriality.

3. The love is just turning her head and she was trying to create a delusion to spice up the relationship, yeah some girls her crazy like that....and I love them.

Your response to the question would prick her emotions in any of the assumptions above, try to work around these scenarios and do the needful.

Bro I'm kind of confused here seriously, are u saying i should have asked her to Wait for me when I'm not yet thinking of settling down, what if after asking her to turn down all her potential suitors just because of me and later it didn't work out for us, what do you think that will happen??

LordKO:
Her action is in order, although she ought to/has to courteously tell you off - of course, kudos to you for being sincere with her about your intention. You don't want/think you want anything serious with her (which is not a crime), while she's in need of a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. She has her priority right, so let her be. No victor, no vanquish.

Thanks man

Amakavula:
You don't know it already, you no longer have a girlfriend. Someone else's wife

Lol, you're funny though

Blackivy27:
Nothing to say. op doesnt get women.

Lol, my dear I don't want to break anybody's heart in future

Freehuman:
You're a pain in the ass. Go and make money!

No bro I'm not pained, just that i don't want to make a promise i might not fulfill in future, besides I'm not yet ready to settle down

Hello NLanders, pls i have this discussion with my bae last and since today she hasn't chat with me, i even text her but she didn't reply.
So my question is, did i do anything wrong by telling her my mind?

czarina:
This is a major milestone. Happy birthday Sir.

Daddy deserves a nice Swedish-Deep Tissue massage, connect us, it's on the house

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Massages with happy ending, if you know you know

NwaAmaikpe:




Your husband is such a polite gentleman. His kind is rare and he thinks so much about how you'd feel and that's why he won't tell you truth.
That is so wrong of him but Hanty, NwaAmaikpe is here to serve you that long hidden truth.

You are a pathetic cook and he is being too civil to say it. Dude cares so much about it not coming off the wrong way so he'd communicate indirectly and expect an intelligent you to get the subliminal message.

Sadly you don't.

Your colleagues only tolerate your meal because it is free. I don't think they'd eat past a spoon if they were paying for it.
You also don't expect them to criticize it because very few are like us.

I once had a colleague back then who always brought food for me. One day I decided to give it a try.
I tasted the beans and it was like raw carbide mixed with Cameroon pepper.
Anyways, I was courteous enough to tell her to send an assassin instead of trying to kill me with food.

Ewa should be the easiest thing for you to cook....so if he keeps requesting for Iya Basira's ewa, it is so that it can help neutralize the effect of the remaining of your edible poison in the rice and stew.

Please be a virtuous woman.
Be a wife,
And be a mother to that poor man.
It's not fair that you have to send him to Sokoto to get what is in his shokoto.
It's also not fair that you waste his resources to build office relationships.

It is from clapping that the best dances emanate.
Today, you feel obliged to feed your colleagues.
They now eat daily from your cooler. I hope very soon they won't be eating out of your honeypot as well?

"It is from help me hold my gown, help me hold my gown that Azuka found out the colour of his landlady's pant".

LEGENDARY

Jgoldie:
Matured love.....awwwww

Epitome of beauty