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joliyp:
dear am gud.........i suprt trump......wia ve u been?

Should be asking you that question...i dropped my digits with you last week as you said but i'm yet to hear from you...check your mail...i retrieved my line as a result of my misplaced phone.

Only a fool will take the blue pills....do you have any idea of how much is $50m in today's naira if converted?

Mehhhn, i look unto jesus the author and finisher of my faith...i depend on NO man.

joliyp:
lol.........

Justina...how ya??



MeanWhiLe....i so support this new development...go! go!! go!! president trump.

Yayjay:
Okay thank u

You are welcome sweet.

I disconcur with that no 4...once you are married there's NO going back...marriage is a lifetime engagement and divorce is never an option...that's why you should take your time before delving into it.

Yayjay:
Thanks,like I said the distance between us is already affecting the relationship as calls aren't as regular as it used to be, his attitude etc

Make hay while the sun shines.

Yayjay:
Hello nairalanders please assist to advise a sister. Story in brief, i am a young lady in my early thirties, dating a young guy whom we planned getting married together until he travelled out and distance set in as a barrier, now I have another suitor whom I never took seriously until I was convinced of his intentions etc.
The issue here is this, the former who travelled out is one who possesses all the qualities I seek in a man except for the fact that he is still hustling and trying to make it as a man which I really had no problem with as I was ready to stand by him to achieve all these. Next is this other guy , the latter has not much of the qualities I need in a man but he is already made, wealthy etc although never been married no kids as he is more mature in his early 40's also, his English, hmm, very appalling but he is ready to settle down like right now.
Please advise, especially the ladies if in my shoes, how would u handle? Thank u

My beloveth sister, i'm sure you 've heard the old adage that says a bird at hand is better than trillions in the forest but then, ensure you have convincing reasons to why you can't wait for your supposed "fiancee" abroad to come back...make every effort to let him know that you can NO longer wait for him as time is NOT on your side...the reason for this is, should incase he comes back tomorrow and want to do gragra then you can now have something to stand with...my lil bite tho.

The person hovering with the moniker "Theslyone2" has already done justice to that question....screw up and view it.



Cc zeeafrica, see this...

tee59:
Beautiful girls dat ar not good 4 building gud matrimonial homes u means?

A holier than thou talk.

You are sure one of the problems of this country

jonaifame22:
well...... I'm not gonna force things buh if it happens, I'll not ask for strenght to resist the temptation, I'll jus fall sinfully

Ok

Bluezy13:
OP funny o...


Abeg next time, no use "fell" again. Na pidgin..."fall my hand" sweet pass.

To the tale...
You are overstepping your boundary...or rather, you have overstepped your boundary.

The girl is solely responsible for whatever is happening to her. She has the choice of walking outta the relationship. You needn't meddle their affair when you of course know the kind of guy your friend is.

Now, you have suffered for her, you are suffering for her and you are apparently going to suffer for her and then tomorrow, she will hook up with another random guy, life continues.
See the mess you are into

Women matter...run from am. It never ends well. unless otherwise you like the babe.

Ogbeni, i'm sure this message was wrongly delivered to the supposed recipient

jonaifame22:
wat abt it

Nothing

jonaifame22:
so are you taking sides wth my guy or wat?

No, not et-all...the guy on his own part seems clingy and his actions were wrong...but, i'm bent sure you will bleep that girl before this week elapsed.

ZeeAfrica:
well assist me because I do not know how to

I didn't read the whole of your post but i know there's a very mundane, i mean gigantic and cumbersome difference between a "prostitute" and a "golddigger"

jonaifame22:
I won't dabble into the affair as long as it lasts

Truth is, you'd end up sleeping with her cos we know you as a pussy nigga here.

jonaifame22:
I'm self employed, check my pix that shop behind is mine, so say something else

That kind face at your dp

Benita27:
Just as we know those who give girls money to have an abortion but come on nairaland to act all saints.

Maybe you couldn't grasp/comprehend my message and whom it was sheer directed to, but in anycase, have a nice day ma

Benita27:
I don't expect hypocrites to be dear!.

And we sure know the born throways on nairaland

All those people above saying rubbish, trash, i can bet my life you 've never created a topic half sensible as this yet ya' all are yelling trash, smh.

Benita27:
Nice write up.

I'm not surprised.

Captainope:
1. Abortion is about allowing woman the right to make choices about when they want to have children in relation to their age, financial stability & relationship stability. It is the not the place of government to legislate against woman's choices.
2. Raising a child is not an easy task & requires social & emotional commitment coupled with financial resources. As such if a person feels they are not ready for a child, it means the pregnancy is unwanted & resultant allowing a fetus to grow into a child is worse than abortion since the resultant child will grow in a non conducive & destructive environment without the love, care & stability that a child needs.
3. The argument against abortion is a moral argument which is subject to personal interpretation so should not be legislated against. Those see it morally allowable to do abortion should be provided with the means to do so & those who don't believe in abortion should have the choice not to have an abortion
4. A fetus is not legally or scientifically a person or human being so abortion cannot be equated to murder or taking a life since the fetus is not a person nor alive.
5. A fetus is like a brain dead person with no self awareness or consciousness so it is actually dead.
6. Prohibiting abortions doesn't stop abortions, women would simply seek abortions via illegal means which are unsafe & illegal, so it is better to provide woman with safe & legal ways to do an abortion.
7. Abortion prevent unwanted & unplanned pregnancies which prevents child neglect since the mother does not want to have children at that moment in time.
8. Making abortion illegal is also a class struggle since the rich can always go to other places where it is legal & have an abortion whilst the poor cannot do this, but have to resort to unsafe abortions which can lead to their death.
9. Making abortion illegal is more or less compulsory pregnancy which contradicts the quest & fight for freedom.
10. Making abortion illegal will increase teenage pregnancy (children having children). This usually leads to illegal abortions which can lead to death or permanent health defects, poverty, joblessness, hopelessness, and dependency.
11. A woman's right to choose abortion is a "fundamental right"
12. Personhood begins at birth, not at conception. Abortion is the termination of a pregnancy (fetus), not a baby. Personhood at conception is not a proven biological fact. Fetuses are incapable of feeling pain when an abortion is performed.
13. Access to legal, professionally-performed abortions reduces injury





https://gagimovement./2017/01/25/top-10-reasons-abortion-should-be-legal/

ABORTION IS MURDER.

So, people are now detecting your life for you?...@that age bracket you don't know what's good for you…berra wake up and start living out your life as the man you are and stop seeking people's opinion before you take a step, esp on trivial issues like this

Her trap has caught maga na

lanicky:
Hello bro

Yeah, hw body

lanicky:
The fact that you're just a friend.

Friendzoning in another whole dimension

Emmy2009:
So theres this girl i really love now. I met her 2years ago and since then she has been perfectly awesome to me. I enjoy the time we spend and since i started dating her ive stopped jumping from one girl to another and cheating on my relationships and have now fully become focused on my dreams and aspirations because not only because of her constant advices but for some reason she just makes me a better person.
The thing is right now i may not be getting married until like atleast 3years time but the fact is that whether consciously or unconsciously, i already see myself with her.
Anyway,the thing with my girlfriend is that shes not like the most friendly person. Not like she hates peoples company its just that shes the silent type that mostly aspires to be among people shes really close to and funny thing, i also have this problem, if i may call it that. Even with my own family , i like keeping to myself and dont really talk much like the rest
Anyway my girlfriend met my family but my dad has been complaining about the fact that he doesnt like our union because of her character. That she doesnt care and all and he knows for a fact that she would be the kind of person to steal me away and not make me close to my family in the future. And to note, this ish started when he noticed that she calls him like few times a month even though he always wants to be hearing from her like maybe once or twice a week cuz in his own view - he claims that would show she has not only me in mind but the extended family in mind.
Ive spoken to her about it but shes not just the kind that does things like dat cuz from her view that is basically acting fake wich is not really her intentions as she just want everyone to know her realself.
This may not be a big problem for others and i dont have any intention of leaving her because considering our relationship i can dare boast that im a better person since i met her and that i am truly happy. Everyone on earth loves everything about her except my parents who think shes not the family kind that cares. And this bothers me a lot because I actually would have loved if they saw things my way. And im constantly wondering how it would be if we end up together and ny folks are still this way.

Please comment

She's an introvert....dating an introvert is one herculean task you 've got to deal with...you nor your parents can't change her...like she said, if she starts doing what your parents are asking her to do she might be faking her real personality....and from the way you are sounding, i think you are a typical introvert too...the earlier your parents and you know this the better for you cos ditching her at this point cos she doesn't call frequently ain't just enough good reason...introverts hardly call...they are too reserved people...it is worst if the both of you are introverts...so' deal with it.