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On how guys dread the friendszone

Nnfe:
I am an introvert..and I really don't know how to open up more.

Lolxx, are you male or female?

AvsGot007:
I don't think the dude got any problem and I disagree with most of your posts

1. it's good to be desperate especially on his own kinda issue and good be in haste SOMETIMES in life

2. I don't think he's too young to leave his parents house, the dude said he's 18 years for Pete's sake! I left home when I was 16 and it's a blessing cos I learnt some life stuffs earlier by being alone..... and thinking outta box...with all he has achieved already, I think he's too cool be an average 18 years old dude you see around everyday!

3. don't always tryna be a sage man! he only mentioned his friends level when you folks are doubting his age, so he's not comparing any life on here and he's outta league already...so I don't think there is any competition either

4. who doesn't fear tomorrow,you?....anybody sure of his/her future on here?...so I see no reason why he shouldn't take quick measures and do his best now at his age

5. he's not giving up on admission, he only want to get engage with other things for now till he figure out his way back to school! I think I haven't seen any of his age folks thinking this way! give kudos to the dude pls

my advice,i think the guy knows what's out there already before posting this....any you guys should stop telling him how you lived your life when you're at his age,in fact how many of you folks are doing good right now? the guy is really thinking outta box and he's brainy I think he'll get the control... I mean let him try his luck on the street first so that he won't get to live life like most of y'all!


cv lankykid

NO loving, caring parents that has your interest at heart will allow you leave home at that age bracket, most youths i know today that left their homes at the age bracket came back as prodigal sons, that's always the case when you think you 've grown and want to start living alone without proper orientation about life you end up like the prodicgal son in luke:15



As for your own case at 16 i can't really say much cos i'm bent sure your case and his ain't the same....and as for him wanting to leave his parents when judging from all angle everything seems alright financial is something worth questioning....if he was maybe above 20-23, would 've left him to his fate...



I actually have alot to write but i got other things to attend to....yes i agree that uncertainties are certain in life but if you set your targets and priorities right then there 'll be NO need of fearing tomorrow....in totality, dude need a counselor and someone to guide him through.

jboycrb:
How come u knw my gf's attitude?

I even know her name sef.

misspicy:

Where is Mercy

Where's naijanoiy ?..

truthsayer007:
See fear, you had to write this to defend yourself of the big female dragons on this thread coming to devour you .

Nice write tho.

Lol, fear you say?....well, in articles like this you have to put on your bracelet cos you should know that people must come with their questions and contrary opinions esp if the audience is wide like this thread on fp...you know say bookroos full nairaland, if you want to doubt me create a controversial thread make e hit fp, kuku fasten your seatbelt cos you go answer question tire



Thanks anyway for stopping by, mucha gracias

Everblazinggg:
Was in elekahia before but now in eleme.....daddy Francis church

Oh, think i might know you cos i'm a well known youth in our branch...let's make do on whatsapp??

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misspicy:

Tfu

Everblazinggg:
I thought as much. When you said you will be in lag mostly august at ajao estate I felt it might be TMIP.

Which cpm branch do you worship with??

Divay22:
Even number 1

Yes

Everblazinggg:
Hmmmmmmmmmm.......you attend CPM stadium road? Daddy Marius church?

Yes dear.

All of the above.

misspicy:
Same here.
Someone like my former roommate who got married last year November.
Mehn,the girl is on another level,She is married right now,and I never hear stories, so firstking01 all these ones you typed are stories for the gods

Smh.

daewoorazer:

[color=#995500]Next year is near sir[/color]

Ok.

Everblazinggg:
Are you a CPMite?

Wow, hell YES...How did you know ....TMIP i guess...we won the best choir again ...Tell me about you dear??

vicben27:
gay alert!

Lwkm...gay?

List of your problems.....


1.You are desperate and too in a haste to make it in life...


2.At 18 you 've already concluded leaving your parents house to stay alone...you are too young for that, you still need tutor and parenting at that age...this decision is wrong.



3.You are comparing your life with that of your friends that has gone far ahead of you...you must not succeed the same time in life...we were born the same manner but destined to succeed in different manner....life is not a competition, wait for your turn why you keep planning for the best.


4.Fear of tomorrow...you are not too sure of your future that's why you are taking desperate measures....do your best today and leave tomorrow for God...


5.At 18, you are already giving up on admission, smh...you need to hear other people's story....




My advice, pick the current jamb form and prepare well for the exam, you will pass...chose a course that's in line with the kinda business you wanna start, i'd advice you go for computer science since you have a knowledge of it...i'm sure your parents e
will still be willing to accomodate and pay your fees for the next 7years which will just make you 25 years, an ideal age

daewoorazer:

[color=#995500]Too far... Weneva u are in Lagos, do call in bro[/color]

I'm resident in ph....will be in lag next year.

jimbson:
The dude said 18 nillion naira....

Woudn't mind dropping my acct details.

DoreJoe:
Did kind of write up dey sweet guys

And he dey sweet you too ba

daewoorazer:
[color=#995500] Lol bro... Wch state are u from brother[/color]

Akwa ibom

Start pleading the blood of jesus and speak in tongues.

ngwababe:
I have seen worst girls than all you mentioned and they are all married. No be tree marry them, na still una men. So faashi, what is not good for you, is good for another man,inugo??
All the good girls you know, how many of them don marry?? I have virgins who are not married yet!

I can bet, goan ask what the men who married them are passing through....pray you shouldn't fall victim.

daewoorazer:

[color=#995500]Like I said, your opinions are your legal properties, guard them all by ur heart

However not, my opinion is of d fact that love is a spontaneous process, when you are ready, it grows involuntarily, quest is a bad word there[/color]

Ok, let me leave you to your fate.

creepsyme:
never had a heartbreak in my life... I never said I dont care about guys... I said I just dont care..

Ok, now tell me, what exactly do you not care about?

As for me, i believe in showing results and start living out the life rather than keeping fake resolutions.

daewoorazer:

[color=#995500]You should ofcourse know, folks like us wen married,fall and crash in love.... Without running my lips, we give our best to our wives....until then, #zanga[/color]

Meaning you still have a portion of your supposed "stiffed heart" reserved for love i guess?....and btw, i'm sure you know you must quest for it??

creepsyme:
I dont just care.

You gotta convince me cos i dnt believe you a dime...i pressume you are an adult and either you musta passed through school or still schooling, and plus coupled with some natural environmental factors that are inevitable in life, so, spare the sermon of "i don't care about guys"....unless you are battling with a messy heartbreak.

Lalasticlala nice one, chop 1 like....i no know say you fit create thread like this cos of your anonymisity nature

creepsyme:
dunno nothing about guys...

My bad , asin you dnt have brothers or you haven't dated before?