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Is it no the same kenya that we see on social media where it's either the man is caught committing adultery or the woman huh?...just watch out this week there 'll be another outburst of a kenyan man exposed in a hotel for sleeping with another man's wife...mark today's date.

BiniAE:
not in support. If she dumps u den there's something wrong with ur attitude she could not handle sometimes dont think money is everything .

You dnt seem to gerrit or maybe you are not a nigerian...money or no money you girls don't know what you want...no man can please a woman.

Hmmm, too many pre-wedding pix of nairalanders, it's well.

Your wants are insatiable…do all these for a nigerian girl she will still dump you and opt for the highest bidder

kvngveektour:
op, just so u know,marriage is no longer a big deal cos by just having a few notes,there are ladies who would play wifey for u.cook ur meals, give u kids,Clean ur house.d list is endless

It's easy for you to say...an average nigerian girl wants to marry a well to do man and have a wonderful family but forgetting the fact that men hate liability...all i'm saying is, as a girl who is already clocking 25, dnt let your husband to be meet you at the state of joblessness...have something lucrative at hand and maybe plus your hnd/bsc.

discoprophet:
Strictly bullsh*t..

What do you mean by 'prime'? If a lady finds it necessary to start doing all these only at her supposed prime(according to you), then I smell desperation and you know what desperation does in this kind of situation. What's all these with ladies and marriage sef? You see a lady of 22,23 flaunting marriage talks already. Seriously these kinda stuffs bring out some level of insecurity in them and make them act b*tchy most times.

This is being fake

Oga o, i expect you to think @times before you post....dnt compare your life with that of a woman, the cycle and phases are not the same...the only problem a man might likly face is how to hit it big which i'm pretty much sure you are also at it...thanks for commenting anyway.

dollyjoy:
Not a fan of "Dos and Don't" abegi, life is too short to be spent on obeying norms.

Meaning you dnt have preference

Julietcutie:
nice

Thanks cutie

jashar:
Some points are valid.

Ok ma.

Gurusprovince:
Here is a list of 8 words that express something more powerful than love.

1. “I need you”
2. “I’ll sacrifice for you”
3. “I like you”
4. “I forgive you”
5. “Let me help you”
6. “I am committed to you”
7. “I think about you all the time”
8. “I’d pick you all over again”

Go on and show your partner love by saying these words. They would appreciate it.

http://gurusprovince.com/forum2_theme_112802150.xhtml?tema=11&8-words-that-are-more-powerful-than-i-love-you-in-relationship.php

I hate a girl to tell me "i like you", it's more like a friendzoning word to me

Pandorabox:
What if the supposed girl is still a student?

As a student is it a yardstick for you not to learn a trade or handwork??, some students i know go for part time and learn a handwork every weekend...i'm sure that's why they teach you entrepreneur in school.

marvelck:
When your girlfriend or a girl you like and want to date, start forming 'busy' for you, do you know why she's doing that? Its cos she's busy playing 'wifey' to another guy somewhere. Who has become her main focus, desire and happiness. And when you find yourself in such a situation, its better you forget about her and move on to someone else, to avoid stories that touches. Any girl that truly loves you will always create time for you and her. So, if she is not having time for you anymore, then she is creating and having enough time for another guy (her new crush). Such is common with most naija girls of today. Its left for you not to allow any girl play with your heart or make you feel you aint important.

No one is actually busy, it all depend on the number you fall on their priority list.

PaulKillerman:
D LOL .... Actually bro, I don really cut down on those thrash....

Really??, wow, thankGod for your life...i knew you would change one day

Blessograo:
Nice one

Thanks.

PaulKillerman:
Please there is no cure yet, they only have promising result . there is no certainty, the person tested needs to be rechecked in 5years time, and it worked in only 1 of about 44 persons... So please there is no cure yet

And you still dey go mr sweet and angle 90 for woji

ednut1:
most prostitutes use condoms. the so called normal like u are at higher risk of having the virus. it wont change anything as d drug wont be cheap over here. common anti retroviral drugs no dey cheap or available here. btw this op is a guy from d way she types its obvious. beware o no let dp fool u

We know he/she is a guy.

In no particular order..



At your prime, flee from sleeping with a married man cos that's the time they will come flocking around you...i mean usain bolt yourself away cos you can't bear the consequences in the future(karma)


At your prime, stop playing boyfriend and girlfriend game, for Godsake you are at your prime you don't have time again if he's not willing to take you down the isle unbolt him and let him give other suitors way

At your prime moderate your taste and bring it under control...i mean don't settle for less but be moderate in your choice of partner

At your prime you shouldn't play hard to get....be more open and jovial especially to the male folks cos some of them must woo you, from their make your choice carefully

At your prime, keep your options open even if you are engaged cos there's NO written agreement or guarrantee that he must marry you, reason is because you are at your prime…inshort there's NOTHING like engagement in the bible sef, even mary was bethroted joseph and not engaged to her so therefore, every "engagement is prone to breaking"

At your prime, ensure you aren't idle cos NO man wants a liability as a wife…either you have a good handwork or you are working already

At your prime you must have known how to pray...forget the nature of men, we love you more when you love God


Ok, the above epistle is strictly for girls/ladies who believe in marriage and ofcourse as a nigerian we solely and strongly believe in marriage...but however, if you think you are guilty in any one of these it's never too late you should be thanking God you are opportuned to see this...what you need to do now is refasten your seatbelt and retrace your steps and hit the right mark...


Ok, thank you.

sinaj:
lol
Am not osinachi

So, from where did you curl the sinaj from??

I 'll jejely and nwayorly allow her to finish devouring the food and that might just be the last time she will set her eyes on me

goingape1:
my bae was the one who ask me out!

and our relationship is a strong as a rock but she is not a Nigeria girl!


no Nigeria girl will ever ask you out! those creature have some some mental problem which no know psychologist can detect.

ThankGof for you bro.

Once again i smell hypocrisy here

sinaj:
How many av u asked out nd how did it end up?

Osinachi

Talk2Bella:
Why do ladies feel shy to ask a guy out? You think its only men who deserve to ask ladies out, do you know there are some shy guys out there who might like you but don’t know how to approach it and here’s the shocker you might also like that person but you’re waiting for him to make the first move.


There’s no shame in asking a guy out, don’t play with your feelings, what’s the worse that can happen? He turns you down and so, how many guys have you turned down? Did they die? They moved on right so you do the same.


Do things that would entice him to you, don’t be the regular girls he sees out there, be classy, polite, nice, and do nice things for him also, take him out, buy him little presents, surprise him, spoil him, men do these things for us, we should reciprocate the gestures.


Before you embark on this mission, make sure he doesn’t have a girlfriend; I don’t want you wasting your time, alright? Make sure he doesn’t friendzone/sisterzone you, you need to break out of that shackle immediately because once he starts seeing you like a sister those feelings might be hard to reciprocate, find out things he likes, know his hangout spots, bump into him on occasions, open your mouth and tell him “Guy I like you, I don’t know where this might lead but I’d like to give it a trial if you’re willing to”


Don’t let anyone discourage you that it is the sole duty of a man to ask you out, it doesn’t make you cheap or lose, you just know what you want and how to get it, some men love women who have this kind of boldness, they appreciate you and see you as someone who won’t let them down because your feelings might be higher than theirs.


What are you waiting for? Take that bold step and be happy, and if it doesn’t work out don’t be discouraged you would definitely find the right someone someday.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1IW7wymUJYA


Isabella Ibeji

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/ladies-this-is-how-to-ask-nigerian-guy.html

Any guy waiting for a "nigerian girl" to ask him out should be ready to remain single for life

If she isn't your gf and there was "NO" mutual agreement whatsoever between the two of you and before her arrival, i think she might just be justifiable by her actions.

KVNGGO:
recognise people and their talents. That is respect, if you don't respect others you will not be respected

Ok