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Papikush:
It's in the blood

Papikush:
Marry someone you can't live without? Then you are definitely going to die when she leaves. Trust me she will leave especially if she is like the dummy below me. She will dump your ass in a twinkle of an eye

KVNGGO:
you cannot stop someone from being who they are

Stealthideals24:
First of all, I don't want to use this account to discuss my relationship, because one can dig out my identity. Still, I don't like anonymous things. I have seen people throwing insults around here for ages; I may be tempted to reciprocate. Please advice only if you have something good to say.

I'm in love with this girl, and it has been like this for about 3 years. I'm virtually responsible for her education. I pay for anything you can think of that she needs. I like meeting her needs, because I love her, but she is now going too far. Let me narrate the cases.

She is from a poor background. I understand this and want her to succeed at all cost. I spend at least 5k as her pocket money weekly. This should be enough for her upkeep, but I guess she wants to meet up with other campus parole like clothes and shoes. So, she wants more. Her course mates know that I have money to spend -- this is enough to make her want to live big. But the truth is that I can't keep doing this if I have to have savings.

She is not that strong academically, so I try to help her get rid of distractions: whenever she needs to go home for foodstuffs, I go to her parents, and take the materials to her in school. She always beg me to do this, but anytime I go to her school, I spend more, as I can't afford not giving her friends small things.

Why I chose her

I have sensory hearing impairment in which I have to listen very well and read your lips as you talk to me. This has nothing to do with audibility at times, it is a matter of certain nerves picking up correct speech. She understands me for this, and won't get angry if I ask her to repeat her words.

Her parents are farmers. My parents were also farmers. So, we understand each other very well. There are jokes I would crack that will make her roll on the floor, which you won't laugh to if you hear them. This is because of our same background.

Also, she is not promiscuous--I can vouch for this.

Why I want to leave her

I don't have savings because of her. What if she continues with this lifestyle after marriage? How will I be able to satisfy her if she thinks I will keep spending like this after marriage, judging from my income? You may want to say that we may not end up married. I just don't want her education affected at this important stage. Though if a door closes, another opens. But still, emotional impact may be detrimental to her study for a while, given that she is a very emotional girl.

My type of being

I'm not ruled by emotions. My brain function still on alert while in a very deep relationship. That's why I can contemplate breakup and move on in no time. Anytime I'm faced with this excessive spending, I start thinking of breakup, but where will I find someone that will understand me like her? If she will ever be mine, she still has 2 years ahead. Should I see this as investment, or marry another woman while still helping her?

Laveda:
Be like nah to Mr okponku.

Actually most of them don't care about your pussy, some would even come to the hall during exams and be like "what do you think you're writing? You better see me later"

But that girl mumu sha.

ritababe:
lol

optional1:
Whatsapp Phone is bad.....

Aiholi:
Eyha.. Are u crushin on her already?

Aiholi:
Who's Rita? Ritababe?

optional1:
remember u told me never to bring/say anything abt myself on public forum like NL.... So am learning frm it..


Noting is been hiden my dear so relax........

optional1:
lol..... Nairaland has taught me how to lie in some issues so dont b surprise......






He dare not try it.....

Newbeginnings:
young man hahahahahaha

Interesting... Don't worry I didn't expect you to give me in real detail... The way you answer me tells me a lot (if not all) about you and that is how I will relate with you...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Newbeginnings:
Everyone is a meet helper when they solve their own problems...

You can't be everyone... so Who are you

Newbeginnings:
Who are you Firstking01?