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Bbsharon:
Thanks dear

Hw u

Bbsharon:
Thanks dear,

Sm2u dearie

BSC holders be trembling cos of this since the time immemorial

BSC holders be trembling cos of this since the time immemorial.

Sighs

Nigerian girls hardly call...

Thanks bro, and wishing you same.

I think it all boils down to mutual understanding and agreement between the both parties...and most times the fault could from the guy..

Lets look at it in this scenario, you met a girl and ask her out, she agreed dating you but with the " no sex" condition attached to it, you agreed but later on you cheated on her without her consent saved cos she told you no sex till marriage, so, in this case who's fault is it?, i think it's the guy's....

Bottomline, inother to avoid all these shady story that touches the heart, i'd implore we date somebody who holds the same view and believe with you, and be ready to meet and agree with his/her terms and conditions.

saderry:
Before coming here on nl, I already discussed that with him. I did that just last week . He was very happy that I opened up to him And promised to renew the feelings in me. And since then he intensified his calls.,msgs, sending romantic songs, and using the "I love you " phrase like water. But I just don't feel the same.
Thanks for ur replies and time.

Still do as i said...btw, you welcome?

I hate that sh!t, op are you still a kid that you must drool?

Wetin you wan see??

Imhandsome:
see her yama yama laps sef

Lol.

saderry:
Due to some factors, we now live several miles apart. And we see like every 2 to 3 months. And I'm still not missing him.
When u say take a break, do you mean seeing once in a while? Not taking calls or what?

Wow, i think you should make him understand that the chemistry is no longer there rather staying with him in pretence that you love him.

saderry:
I've been in relationship with this guy for close to 4 years now. I'd not dated anyone else before but I can boldly say this guy is amazing.He’s a wonderful person and I’m lucky to have him in my life. He is sweet and caring and accepting all of my (many) flaws.

it’s not that I don’t care about him ooo but that special feeling of “I love you, I need you, I want to be with you” has kind of evaporated from my heart. Everything he does or say now irritates me. That spark is not just there for me. AND I DON'T KNOW WHY.

please believe me when I say I'm not seeing nor eyeing another man. In fact the yearning for guys attention is not just there for me. I'm enjoying being alone and peaceful.

But on the contrary, the guy shows me so much love and check on me several times daily. And I still don't know why I'm not heads over heels in love with him again(i used to) . Dunno if sth is wrong with my head or I'm possessed or sth. I even pray everyday that God should bring the love back to my heart.

Have i fallen out of love? Can I bring back the feelings? What should I do? Coz I don't want to lose him. I don't want to end the relationship. I don't want to do anything I'll regret because this guy is truly in love with me.

Someone should please talk sense into me . Thanks.

Cc: lalasticlala

Just take a break and miss him, then the feelings will resurgenerate, ensure you guys dnt see each other for the time being until you start feeling this vacuum/emptiness of him in you, then you can now sort for him...and if you still do not miss or feel that vacuum/emptiness in you, pls move on.



Note, do this by his consent...if he truely loves you he will wait, but if he says otherwise, pls break up and move on...don't force yourself to love or beg somebody to love you.

saderry:
I've been in relationship with this guy for close to 4 years now. I'd not dated anyone else before but I can boldly say this guy is amazing.He’s a wonderful person and I’m lucky to have him in my life. He is sweet and caring and accepting all of my (many) flaws.

it’s not that I don’t care about him ooo but that special feeling of “I love you, I need you, I want to be with you” has kind of evaporated from my heart. Everything he does or say now irritates me. That spark is not just there for me. AND I DON'T KNOW WHY.

please believe me when I say I'm not seeing nor eyeing another man. In fact the yearning for guys attention is not just there for me. I'm enjoying being alone and peaceful.

But on the contrary, the guy shows me so much love and check on me several times daily. And I still don't know why I'm not heads over heels in love with him again(i used to) . Dunno if sth is wrong with my head or I'm possessed or sth. I even pray everyday that God should bring the love back to my heart.

Have i fallen out of love? Can I bring back the feelings? What should I do? Coz I don't want to lose him. I don't want to end the relationship. I don't want to do anything I'll regret because this guy is truly in love with me.

Someone should please talk sense into me . Thanks.

Cc: lalasticlala

Just take a break and miss him, try this, it work wonders.

NO DISCRIMINATION...






Happy new month to everyone.

CooL

maxti:
Pix looks like someone in Elelewon. Oil mill bus stop

Elelenwo oil mill bus stop ke?

Campus relationships usually ends at the school gate.

blueseacats:
Mathew 18: 20 . Church is not a building dear Nigerians .

Get understanding spiritually, any gathering in the name of jesus is a church my brother.

Thoniameek:
The assembly of the brethren doesn't necessarily means church

In my opinion it simply means being around like minded people - iron sharpens iron

Smh, some of you have myopic mentallity abt this church, christian and bible we are preaching...where 2 or 3 are gathering is a church my sister, as far as everything is in the name of jesus.

leofab:
you miss church and you automatically becomes a candidate for hell yet church goers lie, cheat and partake in other religious vices and yet they will make heaven? From your judgment that means no one can make heaven...

What are your reasons/motives for missing church??,,,and by the way, the op means total ignorance from the church/assembly??

Reiyvinn:
Nowhere did I ever state that. You obviously weren't following my posts well...

I asked in this thread if one could lead me to right God, religion, Book & hagiography and Firstking01 said he had an encounter with GOD. I drew his attention to the fact that people of other faith claim to have had encounter with this GOD too, he says his God made him give his life to Christ while the other I poster the author presumably claims that his God him have faith in Lord Krishna (his Supreme GOD), so the delusion remains:

Which is it? Who is the true God? What makes you think your God (not the other) is Supreme?

From the way you are responding to issues here i think you really do not want help, you are just being sacarstic.

Why would a young man that's full of dreams and aspirations go and date a baby mama huh…smh, dating a baby mama has the tendency of making your speed of success in life to be retar_ded.

Hmmm, pathetic i must confess.

Girls are careless sets of creatures...i'm yet to see a girl who's not careless.

pussyAvenger:
shud be wise while doing it.....a relationship that puts a huge strain on ur finance is bad news

That's only when you are dating with your heart.

woodboi:
I wish guys would learn... No mercy in that zone, pull your cards well.

And in-between the guy might break up with the girl after school, 85% of school relationship always end at the back gate.

Very true, and most times the relationship dies after the return of a new semester...been there.

Would this still stop people from falling inlove??, guess the answer is blatantly "NO"

Reiyvinn:
Bro, I've heard testimonies from guys who are Muslims and trust me, there are some that are extremely "miraculous" that you would just want to leave your faith for theirs. However, in every religion, there are those who have had encounters that have cemented their faiths for good. Buddhists have had encounters with Buddha, Hindus have had encounters with Brahman, Eckankar have had encounters with Sugmad, the list goes on and on bro. What I'd say about your case (as I would say of all the others) is "It was unto you as you believed"... Faith with a blend of luck saw you through bro. *wink.

You no understand eh...nothing like"luck"...it was a supernatural encounter...i mean one on one with GOD...uptil now i'm still in awe since 2008…bros, kuku give your life to jesus cos i was once like you until i encountered HIM(JESUS) and my orientation and mentallity about GOD entirely changed.