There's this thing that I don't understand

Should we guys always be responsible for all the calls in a relationship Cus some girls do feel like it's guy responsible to call them three times a day ....some will even have call cards but to push it through the call it's a vet difficult thing to do for them....so am asking should the guys always be responsible for the callings in a relationships?

Not really... But I feel when I call, I will only annoy the man.. Some men don't like their gf calling them..

anybody should make these calls whenever THEY feel like doing so... if their partner has an issue with that, let him/her find someone that will act as they desire.

yungfritzzleDee:
There's this thing that I don't understand

Should we guys always be responsible for all the calls in a relationship Cus some girls do feel like it's guy responsible to call them three times a day ....some will even have call cards but to push it through the call it's a vet difficult thing to do for them....so am asking should the guys always be responsible for the callings in a relationships?

is the boyfriend a telecom customer care agent?

Even at that,if the feelings ain't mutual. It is not worth it bro.

TrapQueen77:




Not really... But I feel when I call, I will only annoy the man.. Some men don't like their gf calling them..

some men don't like their girlfriend calling them

where u hear that from?

my girl do calk me regularly
mata fact, she calls me more than i call her even though she still a student

rawpadgin:
some men don't like their girlfriend calling them

where u hear that from?

Well, I experienced it...

Nigerian girls hardly call...

Its a 50/50 thing jare

I call, he calls....... and d happiness is there




Pls KINDLY check my SIGGY NLders: D

Why should he be the only one calling? They should call eachother so the love and attention wouldn't be one sided..

me I just purposely stop calling for long duration
I text/chat more now till she improve a bit

I know she hasn't gotten a job yet so I do send her credit once a while...
funny enough she is always angry when I don't call, and expecting my call all the time.
Long Distant Relationship no be joke oo(i just hope we end up in marriage), though she do come to my place, I will still send her transport...

many Nigeria ladies don't like calling(if they are student/no yet working is even worst) but if you don't call they will accuse you of neglecting them

Relationship is between two people who made a decision to start and be in one. It involves understanding,sacrifices etc between two people. The phone call is just one aspect of it that can make or mar the relationship. When you don't call as you should, there would be a problem and to some, when you over do it, the projects you as a weakling who has low self esteem and so on...
It doesn't matter who do the calling more or less because it all boils down to Understanding both parties have in thier relationship. Some people guy/girls of immature minds take relationship for a game of hide and seek. But I believe a mature relationship should not have a question as this topic because the people involved know their roles and what they should do to strengthen, and make their relationship work.
You may want to say what if one party don't have the call credit/money to place calls, that's why one should play his/her own part they way they should and take responsibility and be independent or dependent on.
Don't let someone else play your role...

TrapQueen77:



Well, I experienced it...

that guy most be a weirdo