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Zeedarh:
I'm not even married
Just felt that was a necessary point too

owk.

Zeedarh:
9. Stop trying to destroy other peoples relationships/homes.

ur sound asif sm1 z tryna destroy ur home

Misternas89:
1. Most singles especially women see spinsterhood as a shame, looking at the mirror like "MY AGE MATES ARE MARRIED AND HAVE GIVEN BIRTH TO CHILDREN. My sister don't be in a haste, trust God to bring pass his will concerning you at his own time. IT IS BETTER TO BE SINGLE THAN MARRIED TO THE WRONG PERSON.

2. The best of God cannot be rushed! Dear, don't rush and marry anyone that comes along, having waited for a long time, it may lead to an error that you will live to regret. BE PATIENT AND BUILD YOUR CHARACTER. Read Psalm 64:6.

3. Don't involve yourself in pre-marital sex, thinking it is the best to compel a man to marry you, IT IS TOTALLY WRONG! Discipline your body, Don't buy into that lie of the devil that says "SEX IS LOVE". Sex alone will never make a man stay committed to you. TELL HIM TO WAIT TILL THE NIGHT OF YOUR WEDDING.

4. DONT WORRY, BE HAPPY! don't feel sorry for yourself, don't allow sorrow to break your heart because you are single. Worrying will make you look 55 when you are just 25. Don't say to yourself "ALL MY FRIENDS ARE MARRIED WITH CHILDREN"..Please don't worry. Always dress beautiful, glow with sense of pride, be fulfilled, and stay HAPPY.

5. DONT BE JEALOUS OF OTHERS, dont feel bad because your friends are getting married, "Oh we finished school together, now look at her married and am single" STOP IT. Rejoice with them so that your miracle can become REAL ON TIME.

6. DONT compare yourself to anybody because GOD IS ABOUT TO DO SOMETHING BIGGER IN YOUR LIFE. Don't give up on God because God will never give up on YOU.

7. You must not allow the desire to get married rob you off your existence. If I may ask you, WHAT ARE YOU PRIORITIES? WHAT ARE YOU LIVING FOR?? dear set a goal for yourself and work towards it, marriage is important BUT IT IS NOT EVERYTHING.

8. Give God his rightful place in your life, Fear the Lord. YOU WILL MAKE IT.

9. You can kindly add yours too

coming from a muslim, he even qouted psalm, is der psalm in koran?

misspicy:
see why i have always been teling this romance section boys to stop debasing girls.....now this one has learnt something from you guys......mtchwwwwe

its nt only wat i 've read here...am also experiencing it nw wit gift...yes dats her fvckinq nam€....did u follow my thread??

Favolly:
Alright

cooL

Frm wat i 've bin reading here and wat friends have told me, coupled wit wat m experiencing nw, i doubt if i will eva love a gal wit all my hrt.

Favolly:
I just opened this thread to find out what it means to 'derail self esteem for love'

Odinma!

it means to swallow ur pride and go agnst ur vows...

ssoftapple:
HMMM this brings back hurting memories to me, chai boyz have love o

am presently passing tru one nw..chai, dis tin called love eh.

Dirkcoyt:
Hurt bro? Did I you say hurt? I've never dated a lady all my life! The thing is I'm not an emotional being to both female n male, its all about the way I see life, and what have been true so I rarely pity you, if I help you is out of humanity not your sorry case.

Its all about have a fling or fwb, the sex just come no I love you is posited before sex. You get such lifestyle?

gud, buh gotta raise family one day, and u must love dem, wnt u

Who cares?, and Bleep off, we all knw u here.

MrCork:
....brother...I be honest wit u an I dont mean to sound rude....if thats yor real face on yor picture profile..females will not tink twice to dumb u..REAL TALK...(no ofeense)

KashyBaby:
Hell yeah! American English to be precise why u asked? I bet u Neva heard abt my country

i 've heard bout ur country, bt nt soo intimate.

KashyBaby:
Yes boo...y? Juz to make it clear ---> I am a Filipina

wow, dats great...u guys speak english

MrCork:
...I all most cryed but I mistakenly trasssfer £20,000 into the wrrrong acount but ther is u..cryn becus female dumb u...so wot?.... ma profesionnal opinion..u r weak!!(no ofeense)

lol, am nt weak, and no gal can dump me.

Johnnoah1st:
we trained our heart differently, so u dont compared urs wit mine, i have d total control over who i loved and who dont want to love at any moment.

ok, ur life sha.

Dirkcoyt:
Bro I wrote them off long-ago, I lost emotions that made it more difficult to connect, and if I try to its called arrogant.

ok, nw i see wer ur coming frm. She hurt u badly, bt u gotta let it be in d past nw.

TrapLORD:
OP have you tried chasing money instead?

nope, teach me hw?

Dirkcoyt:
You still giving 1/2 bleeps about what these hos thinks about you brother? Take a long walk of freedom cause they aren't worth your time.

u cant entirely write all of dem off u knw.

MrCork:
...weak?..real men donot fall weak...bro do u where womens cloths?? (No ofeense)

dis ain't weak issue bruv

IamLEGEND1:
I pamper myself till I die.

ifa hear.

Johnnoah1st:
falling inlove heplessly is like jumping from a plane in d sky without parashoot, trust me u gonna get badly hurt by d u fully land, i controled my heart 100% i choose to fall in love when i want and can also log out of love when i want.

bro, i dnt entirely agree wit u, smtyms u do it pretentiously, u claim to av control over ur hrt, bt u knw deep dwn inside ur hrt ur craving and yearning for dat gal. See, love is one tin u dnt have power or control over.

IamLEGEND1:
no time to dull bro.
Ignore harlóts.... acquire currency.

den wat wud be ur fate wen money finaslly arrived

Ok

flokii:
bro... just chill

at least you are well and able... your true love you soon... I decree ni o... m not guessing

some are disabled, burnt, ugly etc. etc. Sope ti eee

give thanks

heartbraker:
anyway, tanks, i will luk into dat.

nope, goan try it, wen it works, come tank me later.

flokii:
get Him over and over again... lol

Ok....

flokii:
get Him over and over again... lol

Ok....

flokii:
get Him over and over again... lol

spiritually speaking...i 've got HIM.

flokii:
get Him over and over again... lol

spiritually speaking...i 've got HIM.

Estharfabian:
Aweeeee!

You should sell Your heart tho...You'd just end up being heartbroken...

I Already sold mine at Jumia... At a special price!

wnt do dat any reason.

flokii:
you need JESUS

i 've got HIM bro, so, wat next

Monalisa185:
oya start learning to let go...

how do i do dat

IamLEGEND1:
I dunno.

u no dey get feelings for gal??

dgalon:
i'm currently going thru same emotional wahala as u. this is not the first time..to me i used to let go of everything in public but deep under i still cares but, what choice do i have? as a guy i embrace my hobbies (movies, playstation, music, browsing, reading and being jovial) at time like this more than ever..it help me relaxed, reason rationally and be in control of myself, it worked for me all the time. you can also tried it, good luck.
life is too short to waste your time on someone that doesn't see you the way you see them.

tanx bro...i'd adopt ur method.