mutter:
Allot of women these days buy land and erect houses without the husband even knowing, so men have grown very weary of such moves.

MY dear you took the wrong approach.

A man can plan something for the event of his demise but you cannot plan for the event of the man`s demise. Get what I am saying. This is for my daughters when you are gone.. and then he gets scared and begins to think that the next step is to waste him. Even this has happened often enough.
When you bought the land you gave him the money to buy it for you. At that point you submitted to him and signaled him that he is the head of the family. You also probably had that money because of his contribution in your life. Now you want to develop the land as you deem fit ,no longer through him . How do you compare a plaza with a house. And I guess your husband can foresee what you would turn into running a plaza.
Landed property is different from any other property. The way it is bought also has a certain significance.
Someone changed...YOU Changed.
You are lucky to have a good man that can fend for you. How many men have even one house. But now you want more and more and I hope you do not want to break your home. I had a friend with a slightly similar issue. Today the are divorced and both she and her husband have mental issues. The struggle for the land got very intense involving both families.

Please go back and apologize to your husband and seek his advise of what is to be done with the land. Plead with him to consider what you want and let him take the decision. Then abide by it!

:oA woman actually wrote this jesu!oko opo ooooo!!! smdh,madam this is bullshit

Doc happy new year,pls I am planing to get pregnant this feb and I so much desire twins,is there any drug to help me or anything I can do to increase my chances.I already av a daughter

Pls doc is there any drug to help with getting pregnant with twins,I am conversant with d ones written online,just looking for the best option.planing to get pregnant by feb.thanx

I beg u in the name of God pls stop doing that,u re not just hurting her physically u re killing her self esteem and she wld even expect your daughter to accept that from her husband, because for the fact she is not protesting against it shows she feel its normal

Oluwafifehansimi
Oluwademilade

stinggy:
Ikumapayi
Kokumo
Beyioku
...
Brb

Dis ones are abiku names o

Dnt know if its because I am a village girl but I find local names more interesting and lovely,so I have some to share and u are free to add urs
OluwaFimidaraire
Araoluwa
Inioluwa
Tanitoluwa
Monjolaoluwa
Oluwasekemi
Oluwashindara
Momooreoluwa
Oluwafiadunsaiyemi
Fiyinfoluwa

My phone:mi Amor
His phone:my dear

Pls go to d hospital now and complain! Safe delivery dearie

maryini:
Why would you expect them to pay ur fees...their responsibility is to their children first before you.

I expect them to pay my fees cos dats what they promised my parent and I even deserved it cos I worked for it as slave 4 3yrs.trust me u dnt want to hear more dan dat

My cousin's wife showed me hell,I ate fishless head of fish for like a year before I decided not to take it frm her again and she refuse to give me fish or meat to eat for a week,well sha after I gain admission I sharply went back to my house even though we cldnt afford 2 square meal ao much more 3 nd I ddnt step my feet in their ous again till date.the worst they did was not paying for my school fees worth 15k nd their kids schoolfees was 50k per person(oro po ninu iwe kobo),I knw one of them wld b reading this cos they re nailanders.when I look back nd rem where I am coming from I just smile cos it has been d lord's doing

Guilty as charged

Mistakenly drop my phone num on fb wen I just opened it,he was d first friend I added on fb,he called me to remove it dat its risky,we started as friends nd later met in an eartery closer to my house,I even brot my sisters to hide somewhere (one needs to be careful)well sha I realise he was not bad,from dat day we started dating,we got married in 2012 and we av a beautiful daugther.

Doclight: lolz

jealous lovers.

Even in joke, dey are upset.

Sorry abt dat, bt i believe, many are still in nl

Jealous lover kee, guess u ddnt understand what I wrote,he wasn't a lover

Doclight: sorry flakkykul.

Wat happened?

Pls share

Thanks,read his dairy ma ni ooo,so I like his kind of person and I contacted him asking if he wld be my e friend he accepted but mayb he tot I wanted something more, so he send me an e-kiss and I told him not to send me such cos my husby wld feel bad.dat was all ooooo

I doubt if there is any,I made one last 2weeks and lose him again,tot we wld b good friends but guess he ddnt think dat

Hbd grandpa!

Tvegas: Thanks everyone, I feel so blessed to get good insights from wonderful people here.

I have taken to some advise here and improvements are coming. Till she enters 2nd trimester I have told her to avoid the kitchen, we have someone who can help with cooking.

She threw up again yesterday night but I sat with her to make sure she refilled before sleeping. Like @markone suggested I spoonfed her little chunks of pineapple and I was able to get this peppery suya pizza from domino and she took one slice with little seven up like @flakkykul suggested. I have declared war against morning sickness, she must gain those weight and we will tackle it one step at a time. Thanks once again

Thank God,she wld give birth safely ijn and she wld continue to b source of joy to u in d name of jesus (amen)

tpia1:


he has a facebook page for his write ups.

Pls post d facebook page I missed dat too

Na wa o,just sad for her and nau u re richer

Ezemust: u need shekau slap walahi

Heard abt it frm my elder brother,and since then av been a regular visitor even my husby dey jealous cos I cnt do without checking within 1hr guess m an addict

She wld get better,just let take fruit nd if possible get her 7up it helps to reduce d vomit cos of d gas.

Mine was lonely too cos I grew up in a mission house,where we get nothing less than 10visitors in a week,infact d following day I was crying dat I want to go back home .

Wow!nice thread,happy ending

:oPple working in ireland re in big shit

Penaltyyyyyyyyyyyyy omg!

This tension is crazyyyyyyy