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mutter:
Allot of women these days buy land and erect houses without the husband even knowing, so men have grown very weary of such moves.

MY dear you took the wrong approach.

A man can plan something for the event of his demise but you cannot plan for the event of the man`s demise. Get what I am saying. This is for my daughters when you are gone.. and then he gets scared and begins to think that the next step is to waste him. Even this has happened often enough.
When you bought the land you gave him the money to buy it for you. At that point you submitted to him and signaled him that he is the head of the family. You also probably had that money because of his contribution in your life. Now you want to develop the land as you deem fit ,no longer through him . How do you compare a plaza with a house. And I guess your husband can foresee what you would turn into running a plaza.
Landed property is different from any other property. The way it is bought also has a certain significance.
Someone changed...YOU Changed.
You are lucky to have a good man that can fend for you. How many men have even one house. But now you want more and more and I hope you do not want to break your home. I had a friend with a slightly similar issue. Today the are divorced and both she and her husband have mental issues. The struggle for the land got very intense involving both families.

Please go back and apologize to your husband and seek his advise of what is to be done with the land. Plead with him to consider what you want and let him take the decision. Then abide by it!

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maryini: Why would you expect them to pay ur fees...their responsibility is to their children first before you.

Doclight: lolz

jealous lovers.

Even in joke, dey are upset.

Sorry abt dat, bt i believe, many are still in nl

Doclight: sorry flakkykul.

Wat happened?

Pls share

Tvegas: Thanks everyone, I feel so blessed to get good insights from wonderful people here.

I have taken to some advise here and improvements are coming. Till she enters 2nd trimester I have told her to avoid the kitchen, we have someone who can help with cooking.

She threw up again yesterday night but I sat with her to make sure she refilled before sleeping. Like @markone suggested I spoonfed her little chunks of pineapple and I was able to get this peppery suya pizza from domino and she took one slice with little seven up like @flakkykul suggested. I have declared war against morning sickness, she must gain those weight and we will tackle it one step at a time. Thanks once again

tpia1: he has a facebook page for his write ups.

Ezemust: u need shekau slap walahi