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Danhoys:
My son is 17 years, and I got him a smartphone not too long ago during his birthday.

We're now in the tech era, and I was hoping to get him exposed to tech, and consequently stimulate his interest in programming.

However, I was going through his phone this morning and found some hardcore porn videos.

He's currently in school now, and I want to seek the advice of NLders before taking any action when he returns.

Is 17 years too young to own a smartphone? I sincerely doubt. What's the best way to handle this situation?

Thanks!

We've all being through this point in our lives, it's puberty, you are feeling trapped, hormones are raging, it's up to you and his father to sit him down and tell him more about this growth and time

oxiide22:
your son want to become gay

Why are you attacking Danhoys all through? first on the Angola thread, now this. Besides he didn't say gay porn, he said porn

Mizfabulous18:
https://igberetvnews.com/1382178/akwa-ibom-prophet-arrested-sodomising-12-year-old-boy-photo/ ..now this is what I always talk about it enough that we have heterosexual men raping women abeg we dont need gays forcing people too

Yea.... Like we didn't see two stories of straight rape yesterday on this forum, one is 70 year old raping a 5 year old girl, the other a 40 year old raping a 12 year old girl.
Nice try, come up with another reason to justify your homophobia. Rape is terrible, gay or straight.

Brendaniel:
And some folks want us to legalize homosexuality in Nigeria...

Yea.... Like we didn't see two stories of straight rape yesterday on this forum, one is 70 year old raping a 5 year old girl, the other a 40 year old raping a 12 year old girl.
Nice try, come up with another reason to justify your homophobia. Rape is terrible, gay or straight.

emmyN:
I take my words back, now unquote me. The last person I would want to have a conversation with is a gaybriel

Mad that I called out the hypocrisy?

Living05:
Did you bother to read the first paragraph?
The law decriminalizing same-sex relationships was adopted in 2019 before Biden won the election

Most just want to vent so I'm not surprised

Efuaye:
Joe Biden is working.
There will always be gay but it should not be institutionalized or forced on others to accept!

No one is forcing you to accept or be friends with them, just tolerate

Tolexandre:
when some fools rape your boyfriend or husband,you will know

So all gay men are rapists now? Got it

emmyN:
I can stand the sight of women burning in their lust one for another, but for a man, tueh

Don't be a hypocrite, if you choose to hate, hate them both, don't condemn homosexuality and praise lesbianism because lesbian porn turns you on, the same way gay porn turns some women on

Mizfabulous18:
just keep quiet if ur gay be gay ooo but u gays should stop trying to convince people to be like u after all u dont see men forcing another man to like woman

Lol, No one is forcing anyone to be gay, just live and let live

Mikelarteta:
They have finally bowed to pressure. May God help us.

They didn't bow to any pressure, if only you read the article, the law was stated in 2020 and to be put in motion starting February 9

blinking001:
Are people really born gay?

The internet is free to explore, you have the tools in your hand, carry out your personal extensive research on the subject rather than adhering and following the herd

Say what now?

bepositive11:
Keep being ignorant. So a man and a man or a woman and a woman can have a child. Nonsense. Children also get different needs met by their father and mother. You don't need to have a degree in a subject to study it. Not replying again.

Like single parents don't exist. Have a great day

LordReed:
You are such a phony baloney. This same you who posted a 2017 video where a trans male athlete was forced to play with females because he was born female is now claiming otherwise.

People grow in humanity, I remember Obama being an extreme homophobe but look at him today

Bansempire:
yes that's because you're one, if you dad didn't get your Mama pregnant you wouldn't be typing this shit,

If both my parents were gay and a lesbian, I will still be born.... Seriously, do people like you still think this way?

bepositive11:
There's "I'm in love with x" and there's "I love x". We're in love with our romantic partners, but we love our friends. Anyway, it's a complex concept to grasp.

You don't need a degree in psychology to know that homosexuality is not natural. Man was built to mate with woman, not with man; neither was woman built to mate with woman. Our biological make up says it all.

You too, have a great day.

You have none so therefore, your stance in nature is relative

Draslo:
Homosexuality don tey inside life. Don't drag Joseph Adetokunbo Biden into this. I hear say na wetin our people want dey use enter Yankee be this as per asylum things. People get mind, I swear.


Say na double standards but I don't care. Only women should be homosexuals.

If you hate them, hate them all, don't be an hypocrite because lesbian porn turns you on. I know women who gay porn turns them on

Bansempire:
see tHis Gay ass mofo, you dey fear to talk say you be gay

Why should he be scared? It's not something to be ashamed of

Timiofak:
Good morning homophobes. I told you guys months ago, that in your lifetime. Gays would be everywhere. And there would literally be nothing you can do about it.

Angola has always being in the forefront of human rights. Windeck really opened my eyes to their culture, homosexuality was never a crime there, I hope to visit Luanda this year

bepositive11:
When there's only emotional connection, it's platonic love. That's what you get with friends. I have emotional connections with my male and female friends, but that doesn't mean that I'm in love with any of them.

Please, stop arguing about sexuality having nothing to do with sex. You say sexuality is attraction, yes, it is sexual attraction. A combination of emotional and sexual attraction. It's impossible to be romantically attracted to someone without sexual attraction. Without sexual attraction, it's friendship.

Are you saying that gays confuse "being in love"/romantic attraction with friendship?

About anal sex, I don't care about what people want to do. My point was that man and man / woman and woman are not made to be together as a couple. It's not natural.

"In love with any of them".... Yea buddy, i'm not sure you know what love is, your first comment before this rendered it to moot.
As for human sexuality, the internet is free to explore and if you have no psychological degree, I can't validate your stance on homosexuality as you deem it unnatural.
Have a great day though

Agboriotejoye:
Won't you say thank you

Thank you sir

Agboriotejoye:
https://ballotpedia.org/History_of_Donald_Trump%27s_political_donations

It’s smart. It’s called being an intelligent person and a great business person. ... But the truth is that, you have to be able to get along with—if you’re gonna be a business person, even in the United States, you wanna get along with all sides because you’re gonna need things from everybody. And you wanna get along with all sides, it’s very important

Agboriotejoye:
Google it. I can't do everything for you.

I did, nothing came up so the source please?

Agboriotejoye:
Ignorant soul. Trump is racist because the media said so. Meanwhile they will never tell you he was one of those who sponsored Obama and even once sponsored Kamala.
Smh

Source please so as to verify your comment

bepositive11:
There is platonic love and there is romantic love. Romantic love involves sex. I just can't comprehend how a man can be attracted to another man, and a woman can be attracted to another woman romantically.

Btw, your statement that I shouldn't think about sex when thinking of homosexuality is absurd. Guess what? Sex is in the name homo*sex*uality itself!

It's called "homosexuality" not just homosex, sex is an action, sexuality is an attraction. Sexuality transcends sex, it's the emotional connection you have with someone, I know of two gay couples who haven't had sex since the premise of their relationship, one online, the other in reality and homosexuality isn't only anal sex, there's frottage, mutual mast, beishing etc. Yet again, straight people have anal sex, why aren't you bashing them too?

FuckHomophobes:
Looks and personality? Hmmmm I'm curious, how do they look?

I'm literally just confused. Did the guy just profile and stereotyped us like we are all feminine?

bepositive11:
Are you gay? How did you become gay? I really can't understand how it happens. Sometimes, I wonder if it's a psychological issue. Two females having sex is one thing, but anal sex is not natural. If it was back in the day, before all these lubricants were invented, men won't be able to have sex with each other at all.

The goal of sex is reproduction. Anus is for excretion. It wasn't made for sex.

For the love of Pete, try not to think about sex when you think of homosexuality, then you will find your answer, it makes you look like a pervert when you only think of sex when you think of homosexuality, it shows that sex is the only thing you see women for and nothing else especially as an hetero, women are just objects to soothe your sexual whims.
Also research on the male gaze, if you condemn homosexuality, condemn lesbianism too, don't support one because you enjoy watching and condemn the other because it disgusts you because I know women who love gay porn (female gaze) but hates lesbian porn too, it just makes you look like an hypocrite and straight people have anal sex too yet no one bats an eyelid but two men, the world goes to an uproar

psyco:
private yet they want to sanction a whole country because of it.

It will force Nigeria to stand alone. Must we rely on foreign aid, focus on bettering your country, it's a sovereign state

12inchess:
This is my problem with America. When did America even allow gay marriage. It's not up to 20 years oooo. Yet automatically other countries need to tow this line right away and immediately. Give other countries time as well and let it happen organically. If you're really serious about supporting LGTBQ in Africa provide support to groups already fighting that fight. They already exist even in Nigeria. But it seems they have other agenda.

You don't get it. This memo is against anti gay countries, there are lots of countries whom don't support gay marriage but they didn't create sanctions to harm gay people, he's against the ones who created laws to purge gay people, not gay marriage and you are right, we have lots of foreign NGOs fighting for gay rights in Nigeria, e.g ISHRAI, TIERS, Greenville etc, they all have foreign aid. This is just public support

anonymous1759:
Gays hide themselves in Russia like in Nigeria. Biden should face his country. Are you Gay? If you're go for deliverance it's bad no matter how you try to paint it . I'm not judging you though only God can but I'll never support it.

Yes they do but they don't have a law to jail people who are gay, gays may move with fear from homophobes but the police have no right to arrest them if caught in the act

angelfallz:
well if you just stopped reading, there is no way for you to understand. Forget your bias and read to the end including the links. If you can't do that then there is no need to continue this conversation.

Pot calling kettle black. Why don't you forget your own bias and see past your hate. So you are gonna use a book endorsed by a disgraced right winger to support your hate, real smooth. There are health hazards in all types of sex, not just homosexuality even the coital imperative have it's ills