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Romance / Re: I Need Help Fast! I Keep Falling In Love With The Wrong Guys by flexz007(m): 7:49am On Dec 17, 2015
beleza:
I am not in a good situation at the moment. I am in love with a guy who has a girlfriend.Before you judge me here is my story.I am a lady in my late 20s, pretty, funny, lovable and a good christian but the major problem I have been facing since I knew about dating is the kind of guys I get attracted,they are usually cool but unserious,have commitment issues, are emotionally unavailable and just want to sleep with me.I am very emotional and I tend to show my feelings towards a guy so soon.Secondly I have never had a relationship that lasted more than six months.

In my 4 years in the university, I didnt have any relationship, not that i didnt want but guys were not just coming.My friends always felt I should have a lot of admirers because of my looks but the reverse was the case.After school, the few ones I tried to have,turned out sour.One was my former fellowship pastor so I thought he will be serious as he was old enough for marriage.This was about 4 years ago.I was disappointed when I realised that he was just after sex.He started acting up, withdrawing, saying I was disturbing him emotionally and that he is tired.Later, he said we should do friends with benefit, I just cut him off totally. This was a supposed pastor trying to take advvantage of my weakness.

A year later in 2013 met another dude.It didnt last up to six months before we broke up due to our numerous differences.he also didnt make a commitment, the major thing was that we liked ourselves.It took me a long time to get time over him.fast forward to this year met a very funny and inteeligent guy.we met on an online socialnetworking site.he is in his 30's and he seemed just like my perfect man. There was this connection I had with him and we could talk about anything at anytime.snooped on his social media accounts and I didnt see any signs of a lady or girlfriend so I felt the coast was clear.Only for me to ask him one day and he says he is in a relationship,even showed me her photo.I had already started having feelings for him, it was hard to turn back.We were so attracted to each other and it was to hard to resist him even though I knew he just wanted sex from me.Dude travels out and isnt communicating like before, even though he told me his gf is in nigeria but I wasn't convinced.

Our major fallout was when on my birthday I didnt get message fro him until a day later, I decided to send a nasty message to him saying he was just after my body and all.Dude gets angry, I started apologising almost immediately, this happed in October.he just reads my messages doesnt reply doesnt pick my calls.Since the incident happend, I havent been myself, I have never begged or apologised to any one like this in my life, I have cried almost everyday for the past two months, I cant concentrate at work.He recently came back but didn't tell me but I found out on my own.Went to his house a few days ago unannounced just to apologize, He got more angry in the process saying he warned not to come without telling him.He said he has forgiven me and also apologized for leading on but ended up saying he has issues with people that dont trust him.The worst part is he knows I love him so he is doing this to hurt me more.

I just cant get him out of my mind, I think about him everyday, I am in a dilemma.we never had sex, we just kissed and touched so I dont understand what is going on. I still sent him msgs yesterday but he just read them and didnt reply.I have uninstalled my whatsapp because of him so I cant send him msgs.At this point, I am fed up, I don't why love treats me like this. I need your advice asap cry cry.
hmmmmmmmm......... May God help us all, kindly pray to God for help, he is the ultimate. Can we be friends? If yes add me on whatsapp with 08067066579
Romance / Re: Help, I Jus Noticed My Dicck Has Curved 2 The Left. by flexz007(m): 8:36pm On Nov 05, 2015
Attach long ruler and lace it up with a sneakers lace for some days
Celebrities / Re: Could It Be Donjazzy Is Using Us For Rituals Tru Music, See Who Jantamanta Is? by flexz007(m): 10:06pm On Oct 28, 2015
afolag:
no be him brother stand for corner?
We go see who janta go chop first.


I my been heard??
, Unfortunately someone will hit and someone will lose which side are you
Romance / Re: I Had An Unprotected Sex With My Girlfriend. What's Going To Happen by flexz007(m): 5:55pm On Oct 13, 2015
Wait, let me consult the Oracle.
Forum Games / Re: Is This Cat Going Up Or Down? by flexz007(m): 8:09am On Apr 09, 2015
If u study the staircase closely u will realize that the cat is coming DOWN not going UP
Romance / Re: Help: He Had Sex With A Widow Three Days After Her Husband's Death. by flexz007(m): 10:15am On Apr 03, 2015
Newton 3rd law of motion, some1 will eventually have sex with ur mom, write today's date down and mail me back when it happen
Politics / Re: Buhari Won But Not Presidential Seat, Read This by flexz007(m): 7:48pm On Mar 31, 2015
Are you from this planet?
Religion / Re: Appraisal: Are Our Prophets Right About 2015 Election? by flexz007(m): 7:33pm On Mar 31, 2015
Forget prophesy "It is audible to the deaf and visible to blind" that GMB will win this election to me it is just mere projection that any man can predict
Romance / Re: Check Out Photos Of Girl Who Slept With Her Boyfriend’s Best Friend In Warri by flexz007(m): 11:00am On Mar 26, 2015
This picture is not new nah I have seen it more than a thousand time online
Celebrities / Re: See What This Female Fan Is Doing To Rapper Vector's Crotch In Public(photos) by flexz007(m): 11:03pm On Mar 23, 2015
Ok I have seen it, what els?
Celebrities / Re: OMG!! Lady Gaga Forgets Her Trousers As She Steps Out In T-shirt(SEE PHOTOS) by flexz007(m): 10:57pm On Mar 23, 2015
Who told u she forgot her trouser?
Health / Re: Please Help! How Can I Help Him Stop Smoking Weed? by flexz007(m): 11:17pm On Mar 21, 2015
Add two tea spoon of granded pepper to the weed, am sure it will work
Celebrities / Re: Scary Photos Of Dancehall Artiste That Got Goat Horn Implants by flexz007(m): 9:19am On Mar 21, 2015
Please kindly show him the way to the nearest zoo
Politics / Re: Social Media Reactions To Aisha Buhari Statement On Edo Prostitutes by flexz007(m): 1:54am On Mar 21, 2015
I heard that Edo Girls are crossing the border every day to go to Italy to prostitution. But #BabaWhenYouGetThere make it stop

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Politics / Re: Social Media Reactions To Aisha Buhari Statement On Edo Prostitutes by flexz007(m): 1:52am On Mar 21, 2015
[color=#006600][/color]Truth is bitter
Fashion / Re: Before & After: Girl Bleaches Skin And Abuses Dark-skinned Girls..lol by flexz007(m): 9:48pm On Mar 17, 2015
What is her Nomenclature?
Politics / Re: Badnews For Those Shouting Sai Buhari, It Is Over by flexz007(m): 5:19pm On Mar 17, 2015
Yinmu,,,,,,,......................
Politics / Re: Boko Haram Has Legitimate Grievances-obasanjo by flexz007(m): 8:29am On Mar 17, 2015
That's what happen wen a man drink too mush ORIGIN

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Romance / Re: My Neighbour Has Been Crying Since Thursday, Then I Decided To Help Him(photo) by flexz007(m): 7:33pm On Mar 15, 2015
Hehe...... I thought as mush, the picture look familiar, anyway It's non of my f***kin business
Romance / Re: My Neighbour Has Been Crying Since Thursday, Then I Decided To Help Him(photo) by flexz007(m): 7:31pm On Mar 15, 2015
Karma.......... Kindly ask him if he haven't chop someone money for betting before
Romance / Re: I Just Made Love To A Married Woman Today. God Forgive Me! by flexz007(m): 5:36pm On Mar 12, 2015
Newton's 3rd law of motion. For every action there is equal and opposite reaction. "That is to say what u sow is what u reap" Even law of Karma back it up that what U sow is what u shall reap. No be course Oooooooo
Romance / Re: Ladies & Their Craze For Butt Pads... by flexz007(m): 5:22pm On Mar 12, 2015
Sometime u have to be content with what u have
Education / Re: Do U Remember Doing This While U Were In The University... (photos) by flexz007(m): 5:09pm On Mar 10, 2015
[/color]Shaking my head seriously.....................
Maybe he did dis at home during ASSU strike
Family / Re: How Many Did You Survive? by flexz007(m): 10:27pm On Mar 09, 2015
Hum! My mum don't need any of these Items, her right hand palm is the ultimate
Jokes Etc / That Awkward Moment When Someone Nominate You For The Next Suicide Bombing by flexz007(m): 1:32pm On Mar 08, 2015
Lol

Romance / Re: Which Of These Statements Make A Lady Feel Happy The More? by flexz007(m): 11:46pm On Feb 19, 2015
9. If she is desperate for a husband
Crime / Re: Cultist Killed In Ilorin(viewers Discretion) by flexz007(m): 11:35pm On Feb 19, 2015
Everyday for thief one day for the owner.........
Politics / Re: Boko Haram Story Will Change In Two Weeks – Jonathan by flexz007(m): 11:29pm On Feb 19, 2015
Yinmu....................

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