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I have a girlfriend whom I started dating barely 2 years ago, we both work in same institution but different departments, do I really love her? We started by strafing along the line she developed feelings for me, she loved me more, I had no relationship then we started dating. Deep within her she knew it was kinda pity love.

Pressure from home to settle down with someone from my state and all that, I'm gradually losing it with her, I got to meet another lady from an entirely different tribe and I'm attracted to her, she is a "good girl gone bad" type of girl. I know fully well I have no future with this new girl but I want to be with her.

My girlfriend is a very nice lady she doesn't deserve this at all. I wish I could love her more, I have tried and I'm still trying. She don't deserved to be hurt, people in our work place know we are dating and I don't want her to be a laughing stock amongst our colleagues, she doesn't deserve this, I'm in a fix

Cutehector:
Sometimes I don't know which to believe.




Somewhere in the bible says dreams aren't realistic, unless the ones revealed by God. And I ask, how can one knw the dreams revealed by God

Hector Wen u dream severally and those events play out, u have no option than to accept that it is ur lot, whether it is from God or not.

Cutehector:
Sometimes I don't know which to believe.




Somewhere in the bible says dreams aren't realistic, unless the ones revealed by God. And I ask, how can one knw the dreams revealed by God

Hector Wen u dream severally and those events play out, u have no option than to accept that it is ur lot, whether it is from God or not

My dreams are always revelations, I don't dream often. Last year I had series of dreams which defined where I am today, most of my life decisions I get their confirmations in dreams, these revelations are not all in black and white, I have to do decoding nd deciphering to get the msgs, some I succeed some I fail. All of a sudden the dreams ceased, I got scared.
I have a lady friend whom I wish to settle down with, though we've been barely 3 months old. She is good, nice and beautiful, we both working same institution,
All these while my dreaming ceased I have been praying to God to bring back my dreams, I'm not a righteous person. I believe He hears my voice, last week my dreams returned, I dreamt about an investment move which I have not made yet, I felt good.
This morning I had one nasty dream, in the dream I was discussing with my lady and we started misbehaving in the course of the misbehaving I asked her who has she misbehaved with? She called the names of some dudes I know and she revealed to me that she is still misbehaving with some of them, wow! I was taken aback. Only for me to discover it was a dream. Since I woke up, I have been disturbed, I have tried to decode and decipher the meaning of this dream to no avail. I don't know what to do, I know there are Josephs here, plz help me

winnerjoy:
can you tell us what kind of arrears you are being paid to help you out.is it promotion arrear or earned allowance

Promotion arrears

Frenzydili:
ok.u have to verify if d first credit alert was d original amount u were supposed to b paid.if Yes,u have to report to ur account department cos dey will definitely find out if not today mayb in d future.pls n pls dnt strike a deal with anybody n don't pay d money into anyone's account except d establishment's internal generated revenue account.talking from experience.

Tnx

Stoical:
So you are one of those they short pay me for them to get double? I don catch you at last... Flintil/flintrony #umunna...

Biko kwa my broda no b me oo

Frenzydili:
Are u on ippis payment system? Ur answer will help kno d step to take.

We are not

echelons:
Better get clarification form your office.

If it's a deserved pay, go ahead and spend it.

If it's a mistake, find a way of making reversal.

Anyhow you want it, if the money is not meant to be credited to you, the bank will eventually debit your account for it, and it will be most painful when you had already spent the money.

Ok, tnx

I work in one of the federal government facility, we were all expecting some arrears payment for some time, it finally came, we were all happy.
Something happened I got another alert, the amount is close to what we were paid but not the same.
I was not called upon and nobody else got that second alert.
Plz nairalanders should I return or notify the system I got such such alert?
The arrears is close to #120k
The second alert is little less than 100k
Plz advise a member