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FluidQueen:
This is Old. Really cliche.

Hogwash.

Women and men should alike should never Get involved in marriage without BOTH of them developing some kind of financial independence. So, he's allowed to flaunt his Money and i shouldn't ? Because? Is that what your bible tells you? I don't care how long you've been married but that thing you are in is a SHAM. You obviously love his money and the things he buys for you. Not him.

okay dear, with time you will learn. Have a nice day.

Never listen to what men say, do the completely opposite.

Men want women with no makeup and weave : in reality they will cheat on you with the woman who is dolled up

Men want financially independent women: they will use you and your money and leave you to date a woman who needs them.

Men want a woman who’s good in bed who knows what she’s doing: they will use you up, turn your vagina into a borehole and marry a virgin.

Men want a woman with a nice bumper and boobs: because they are good for sex for now, but long term is a big no no. They will marry a woman who is slim and moderate, who will look good over time.

Read in between the lines of men, and do the exact opposite of what they want.

FluidQueen:
God!


Nairaland keeps regurgitating sad people with Screwed logic.
What happens if Something happens to Your husband's financial Well? And it eventually dries up and leaves him jobless and broke?


You'd be left with nothing! You'd be a sad, Depressed mentally retrogressive Woman Who's too lackadaisical to Stand up and fend for herself. He's your husband, not your father.

Stop spiting independent Women and Go attach something meaningful to Your life.

I can guess you’re under 25 and not married. I specifically said date a man with a career not a job, there’s a huge difference. You can be somewhat financially independent, however when you are married tone it down. When you are married, your husband is there to take care of you, not screaming miss independent. Even if you have money, never flaunt it in his face. Marry a man who is above you financially and who can take care of yourself and children. I’ve been married for long my dear. You will learn when you’re older, take care.

As a married woman, I can kindly say.

Women please love is secondary. Marry a man who is financially secure, a man who has a career not a job. Marry a man who has money, because love cannot carry a marriage especially when you hit that 10 year mark. The love will fizzle out.

Men marry a woman can take care of your children and home. Marry a woman who can make your house into a home. Stop looking for Miss independent because in a marriage you’ll realise that she’s taking your role as a man, therefore causing problems.

Not everybody will understand this, but with age and experience you will understand. Money is the biggest cause of divorce.

HoodBillionaire:
old man of 32 claiming 29
scam

razzaite

Olamide is definitely 29. Stop it

Not proportioned well with her body, it’s just all over the place. Too much of everything is not good please. With age it will look horrible.

The black race will soon be extinct. Just saying, cute baby though.

What exactly is wrong with masturbation if not done in excess?

1. Are you financially steady enough to take care of her and family, if you eventually get married?

2. Are you ready to commit to this young lady for the rest of your life at 23?

3. If you’re not ready to marry her now, are you ready to receive the pressure from her and family in the next 2-3years due to your closeness in age?

4. Are you sure this is love and not lust?

5. Are you mentally prepared to face the challenges that come with marriage/ a serious commitment at 23?

6. Do you still feel the slight urge to explore and live your life before settling down?

7. Are you just genuinely unsure about everything?

Sit down and ask yourself these questions. If your answer to no7 is yes, then you are not ready. Focus on your life you are still very young.

If you’re having this problem now that you’re not married it will only get worse. Sort it out before you get married.

British people are evil. End of story.