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lilbest4:
I currently have more money than I know how to spend but I don't give a girl 1 kobo. I'm so far from being broke but my money is mine and not yours go work for yours

No problem sir. I support you 100% as long as you remain a bachelor for your entire life, I have no problem. Good day!

I don’t think the problem is necessarily giving MouthAction. The problem is being hygienic and clean, a lot of men have been traumatised by less than hygienic ladies hence their refusal to give oral later on. As a woman, I understand that it can be quite challenging to keep your vagina fresh at all times as a lot goes on down there. We have periods, discharge, hormones and fluctuating ph levels. On top of that, everything we eat/ drink affects the smell and taste of our vaginas. However, if we can educate ourselves/ remain hygienic then I think more men will be more than happy to give MouthAction. Just an opinion.

jnfoage:
OP, this is not your fault, broke guys this, broke guys that, yet to every single broke guy, there are more than 30 broke b1ches. If all men are to marry ladies of equal financial status in Nigeria, there will be serious population explosion of unmarried b1ches. Broke b1ches searching for guys to suck in the name of standard. Why rich woman no dey ever get standard for broke nigas but always the other way round?

Women are never broke. We are not defined by our pockets, Understand that. Men need to stop being disheartened about women having standards for men. Work hard and be the best version of yourself or don’t say anything at all young man. Being financially poor is not attractive to anybody, even if that woman “loves” you. She will leave you/ cheat on you for somebody who can provide more for her. Simple as ABC. Accept it.

Look at how this man is talking to you like a peice of rag, don’t be surprised when he joins the scamming business. Once money comes, his true true character will show. If you’re young have fun, but if you know you’re ready to settle down he’s not a serious candidate. I can just tell.

alphaconde:
surely but over weak men

well then 80% of men are weak then mr.

PrecisionFx:
Vaginal sex.
Anal sex.
MouthAction.

Are among the cheapest things we have in our society today so it cant be used as a weapon.

It’s still and will always be used as a weapon. That’s the reality of life.

Coldfeets:
Actually Sir, it depends on the age of the vagina.

Yes and No. You would be surprised. Women of 40+ are still very much sought after. Not as much as younger women, but still very possible.

alphaconde:
a woman has no worse feeling than having her pussi rejected by a man.

so dear men make them powerless and reject that pussi that returns the power to u

woman use pussy to entrap undisciplined men and i am not one of them.

alpha conde wrote

Do you sincerely think that will ever happen sir? The vagina is the most sought out thing in the world even before money. As long as a woman has a vagina she will always have power.

Kegels can help.

henryhemon:
A piece written by an old olosho though it's better to marry someone who is older than you with as many age as possible. Others are trash, what worked for you will not work for others and I am sure you wrote this out of frustration

hello young man, thanks for your input.i wrote this with pure happiness and thankfulness. I’ve made very good decisions hence my lifestyle today. Why not share my tips to the younger ladies? I also have this for young men like yourself. Here is the thread: https://www.nairaland.com/4426804/message-young-man

Good day!

tosyne2much:
You mean a guy who truly loves a woman will never ask her for financial assistance in times of financial difficulties?

Which hypothesis did you use to carry out your research ma?

Sir I did not say that. I said he will have to be extremely desperate to ask the woman he loves for money with no other option, before he does. Immediately he gets the money, he will pay her back with interest. A man who doesn’t love a woman, will ask her for money anyhow without a care in the world.

Twoclans:
Martin0 let me add my own

He takes your hard earned money to buy gifts for his main chic and still cannot satisfy you in bed.Common orgasm you will never get from him

very true. If a man truly loves you he will feel very ashamed to ask you/take your money. He will have to be at the lowest of the low to ask you, and immediately he gets some money he will return the money back to you, with interest probably. If a guy doesn’t care about you he will have no shame and take half of your bank account, you will have to beg him to return half of the money back. Women be wise!

PasD:
wow....

Think with logic not emotions. Don’t allow your urge to settle down to make a huge mistake in your life. You’re only 31, you will find someone better for you. My husband married me in his 40s and I’m his first and only wife. Be wise oh! Don’t marry this girl!

If you marry her you have yourself to blame when things go seriously wayward in your home. God is showing you signs now, take advantage of it!

They don’t look that young. Probably early twenties which is age appropriate. Good luck to them.

Happy married life

Acidosis:
You're just a self-centered person. Marriage is not about you or your children only. It's about everybody so quit this self-centered approach of yours.

The same way you're advising women to avoid their age mates, is the same reason a man wouldn't want to settle for a very young girl, that will most likely abandon her old man's dick for younger boys. You want women to settle with their uncles. Same way no responsible man will settle for a naive teenager without life experience, one that will openly throw away her ring in nysc camp and open up her legs to randy cadets.

We all can come up with different self-centered approach, but that won't help anyone. Rather, it will increase the rate of heart breaks even further.

Don't advise people based on your terrible relationship decisions. Some people are having it good with those things you abhor.

Okay sir. Like I said not everybody will agree with me, it’s not understandable to everyone but I sincerely believe that age is the biggest experience. Marriage is not only about myself and children, I agree, but I put that before anything as I should do. Uncle you say? A woman who is 23-24 marrying a man who is 34+ is marrying her uncle? I never knew that sir. Sir, the moral of the story is that we should do things to please our partners but our own lives/happiness must always be first no matter what. It’s not self centred, it’s thinking less with emotions and more with logic. Have a good day.

Choose the guy with more prospects and money.

KOPT33:
Dear men,

If you work hard for your money, why should you settle for bad food?

A woman who doesn't know how to cook will kill you before your time. If you keep eating crap, you're abusing your body. You're not giving your body premium tools to rejuvenate itself. You will just age before your time.

Please, no man should put up with a woman who can't cook unless of course you guys have worked out an alternative arrangement from the very beginning.

If you want to die young, please, keep eating sh*it in the name of love.

Fuc,k any woman who cannot cook and has decided not to learn. They're killers.

Cooking is not a hard skill to learn my dear. In fact when I met my husband at 23 I did not know how to cook anything. Obviously I started learning and within a year I was almost a chef. It’s all about the willingness to learn the skill and consistency. Now the bigger concern should be men who cannot provide for their families, because that’s a bigger issue that most men cannot do and never do. Focus on that, and leave the cooking issues and rantings to the women

They’re ways to be truthful without being too blunt or awkward. Women are sensitive, you should know that.

“Baby your soup is nice, but next time try to add less water as it was a bit watery”

Simple.

I have told you young women to stop loaning huge amounts to men, it’s as if I’m saying rubbish. Then you will cry in the end, hope this is a lesson to all of you.

https://www.nairaland.com/4426699/relationship-advice-young-women

streamsofjoy:
U probably are holding on tight to ur opinion because u have had same experience. U dnt want to believe he's having it good with his older woman. Dnt u think people are different?? The fact that ur wife whom u are 10years older that is already looking like ur mother does not mean it's the same with all women Okaaaaaay?.

hi dear, I’m a woman not a man. You don’t have to agree with me, that’s totally fine.

She looks like ini edo

Damidolly:
That is modern child abuse....the age gap is too wide

okay sir.

My dear there’s nothing like an ugly girl in this life. With the right skin treatment, hair and makeup good food, any girl can be beautiful. A loose vagina is nearly impossible to fix. Either way men are so sex driven, I’m sure most of them will choose the second option.

Like I said most, especially women will not agree with me because it’s not ‘politically correct’ but it’s the truth, and time will reveal it. Show any woman who is in her 50s and up this article and they’ll tell you it’s nothing but the truth. Good luck everybody!

babajeje123:
If I tell you I'm above that nko?

I doubt.

babajeje123:
Whether 40, 20 or 90, age has no impact in marriage. Maturity, trust, selflessness and love are some of the building blocks of a happy marriage.

Okay good luck sir. When you’re 40 come back to his post.

Shedrack777:
she should know she is getting old too quickly

This woman is almost 40 does she look it? I would mistake this woman for a 25 year old. Go and sit down somewhere, how many women her age look this good? Bad Belle.

babajeje123:
In the journey of love and marriage, age is just a number. It has nothing to contribute. I was wondering why you want to know my age.

I can assume you’re not up to 40