I met an upcoming actress friend who confessed this claim that producers always demand more from their female members than the males. I've also had a chat with a movie crew member who narrated how he made out with a popular A list female actress in an hotel room they lodged when they were on location. If this is true, does it mean our female "sisters " of the screen had to warm the sheets to become who they are today?

I deliberately posted this topic in this section because of the perspective I wanna tackle this issue. Most people are simply too proud to own up to their faults by using this simple word. The men say "why should I apologize when we're both at fault? Afterall she caused it!"
The women say "I find it hard to apologize to a guy, I wasn't brought up that way"
A third group will say "What's the use? What's the use of sorry when he simply can't and won't change. What I'm curious to know is Why is "sorry" such a word for some people? Is it an ego problem or the way they were born?

Finances has always been an ongoing conflict in relationships.From my observations, I noticed that guys are generally insecure around women who earn more than them.They either date the women as giggolos or as mere boyfriends. In both cases they never settle down with these ladies who are under the illusion that they've found Mr Right. Is my observation universally correct or is it just me?

Thanks everyone for your posts. My life is a process. I'm peeling off the layer of shyness bit by bit. As for the damsel in question, we're still friends and we still communicate often on phone

A lot of us especially the shy ones among us have been mislead into thinking that because we have a crush on a babe that she must feel the same way too. Wrong! But in some instances, we may be right i.e she might be waiting for you to make the move and say the word. I've made the mistake once. I met this pretty damsel on facebook who fell in love with my work(I'm a creative writer) and we hit it off. On our first date, as we sat in the cosy lounge of TFC, I almost bared my heart but I never got round to it til we parted ways. We kept in touch on phone until I lost contact. Next time we reignited our romance, she was not only married but also pregnant. Man was I hurt! Anyways, i took it as lesson to always say my mind

This is one of the most impossible and "touchy" topics I've ever written. You're involved with your lover and you guys are engaged to be married in two years time. In those two years she wants you guys to abstain from sex till you marry. Will you abide by the rule?

This is an interesting teaser. I came up with this scenario at work a few minutes ago:
You've been able to gain some form of influence in your neighbourhood and you've caught the attention of President Goodluck Jonathan. He gave you a special invite to Aso Rock. He ask you a simple question after much debate like "What do you want me to do for you?"
What will be your reply?

kudoxs: Your story lacks depth!

Thanks Storyteller. I wasn't telling a story. Just sharing an experience. As much as it is open for criticisms and comments you don't have a right to write rubbish. Anyways thanks

I agree with you @mstik 100% because the average or below average who "enhances" to appear attractive is trying her best to be acceptable. She's only believing a lie.How about the beautiful ones who tow the same line like my friend? Let them go and listen to "Pretty Hurts" by Beyoncé.

It gets to me why people can't be comfortable in their own skin! When they land a new job or earn an extra cash, the next thing is a makeover of sorts. Who told you that the ticket to being noticed is a bleached skin, dyed hair or a tatooed body?
I'm not against makeovers but if it doesn't enhance your beauty why waste your time? I've seen several beautiful n sexy divas destroy their skin just like a client of mine who went from a smooth skinned coffee brown goddess to a fair skinned replication of low quality with fiery gold hair!
What is true beauty to you?
Is it the smile, what makes one unique and exceptional or is it the makeup?

Everyone of us have a screen idol. Someone we fantasize about, we daydream about n even try to "reproduce" in our relationship.
For me it's two very beautiful unique women holding their own in their space.
One is delectable fairskin Nadia Buari and the other is Mariah Carey.I'm so crazy about Mariah cos she inspires me with her signature glass breaking, 9th octave voice.Nadia simply represents beauty to me.She may not be a perfect 8 but she represents class in simplcity.
Who is/are your crush(es)?
If you had the opportunity to go on a date with a celeb; who will it be?

I used to be a guy with very low self esteem.I thot yu need to be handsome and have some stellar qualities to woo a babe.Until I discovered in the Bible that we're made in God's Image hence we are "good"
Thus began a process m still working more than twenty years later!
I met this pretty ebony damsel who works in a drycleaning company in area I work. Each day I pass by her shop on my way to the buka, I'd make a mental note to ask for her number. I've gotten her name on one of my numerous "passings", had become aquainted with her; what was left was to get her number and the game is on but alas I delayed until she left.
It hurts but I've made a mental note to avoid this kinda disappointment.
Have you had similar experiences or success stories.Let's hear it. You just might be someone's lifeline..

Was listening to a discourse on learning on the radio. There was a case of a set of indian students whose age grade was 8-10 years who were made to study a physics course on the computer without the guidance of a teacher and after some setbacks, this pupils began to hold discussion groups where topics bordering on Quantum Physics was being tackled!!

What made these kids so special was they were all from the poverty stricken areas! Learning, I've come to know began while we were still foetuses in our mommy's womb. Otherwise how do you explain why babies are quick to understand language and know music than an adult?
Just curious to know.

She's beautiful, sexy and elegant but she's saucy, crassy n a very bad cook.
The other day I posted a topic like this from a guys perspective.I'm just curious. Why do some good guys attracted to bad babes? Is it because of their audacity,sexual prowess or brashness? Is it really true that we guys need them sometimes?

Dygeasy: Are there chances that as good as you probably are at the moment, you might turn bad anytime soon?

Hmm

MISSYTOSIN: Am a good girl and am not attracted to bad guys.its a matter of choice. Most of dos girls don't really know wat dey want, they ar still exploring. Same thing wit guys too.

MISSYTOSIN: Am a good girl and am not attracted to bad guys.its a matter of choice. Most of dos girls don't really know wat dey want, they ar still exploring. Same thing wit guys too.

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Love your angle honey.

He beats her black and blue yet she makes excuse for him because of the "blind love" she has for him.
I got the inspiration for this topic after listening to "Mr Wrong" by Mary J Blige. Why are good girls attracted to bad boys? Am just curious.

I just listened in on a discussion on the radio about a guy who has done everything to keep his girlfriend but he got nowhere.He has even changed jobs to be around her more but she drifted steadily away from him.
Now I'm throwing this open to you guys. Where do you draw the line in the sand in your relationship with that Special One?

I just listened in on a discussion on the radio about a guy who has done everything to keep his girlfriend but he got nowhere.He has even changed jobs to be around her more but she drifted steadily away from him.
Now I'm throwing this open to you guys. Where do you draw the line in the sand in your relationship with that Special One?

edozie04: Age is ntin bt a number wen d ladies date d likes of aliko dangote,femi otedola,adenuga

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Where is the place of love then?
Will you marry someone like Florence Ita Giwa?

It is said that abusive parents will raise children prone to violent behavior. Aside from this conclusion, Is it possible for a Child raised in a loving enviroment to exhibit Violent tendecies?

A popular secular artiste did a song with the lyrics of this openikg cliché. This days people fall in love for the craziest reasons. Would you allow your sister or someone you know marry a 52 or 42year old man while she's 22years old?

Personally, I'm not against ladies dating or settling down with men who're a few years older but...men old enough to be their father?!! That's a whole new kettle of fish to me. So what do you guys think? Is age nothing but a number in this context of "Father-daughter union?"

Love according to the Word is more than just an emotional feeling but the example we see sround us prove otherwise. I need intelligent contribution of anyone who thinks Love is a feeling n not a Logical decision as the Bible describes it.