Finances has always been an ongoing conflict in relationships.From my observations, I noticed that guys are generally insecure around women who earn more than them.They either date the women as giggolos or as mere boyfriends. In both cases they never settle down with these ladies who are under the illusion that they've found Mr Right. Is my observation universally correct or is it just me?

Average Naija guy no dey dull o even if Bill Gates na your papa

Bro it is just you,if my wife earns more than me I see nothing wrong in it,after all itz the same house that the money will enter

It depends on the both parties involved, some guys wont mind if she's humble n respectful.

go n marry if u love ha n stop coomplaining. abi u wan die in poverty

The bigger her salary, the richer she is and the better for us. The better for us, the sweeter our love. the sweeter our love, the longer our family live together.

That should not be a problem

rich girl poor boy things.

that pacesetter novel, what was the plot sef.

its even on amazon, amazing:

here's another, peeps want to console themselves, nothing wrong with that anyway:

There’s this poor boy, he loved a rich girl. One day the boy proposed to her and the girl said, “Hey! Listen, your monthly salary is my daily hand expenses. How can I be involved with you? How could you have thought of that? I can never ever be in love with you. So, forget about me and get engaged to someone else at your level”.

But somehow the boy could not forget her so easily. Sometime 10 years later, they stumbled into each other in a shopping mall. The lady said, “Hey! You! How are you? Now I’m married and do you know how much my husband’s salary is? $1,700 per month! Can you believe that? And he is also very smart.” The guy’s eyes got wet with tears on hearing those words. A few seconds later, her husband came but before the lady could say a word, her husband seeing the guy, said, “Sir you’re here? Meet my wife.”

Then he said to his wife, “This is my boss, I’m also one of those working on his $100 million project. And do you know a fact my dear? My boss loved a lady but he couldn’t win her heart. That’s why he has remained unmarried. How lucky would that lady have been if she had married him. These days, who will love someone that much he said to his wife. The lady looked in total shock but couldn’t utter a word…

Life is so very short that it’s just like a mirror. You can only see as much as it reflects. So don’t be too arrogant and proud of yourself by looking down on people, because situations change with God anytime!

Don’t ever underestimate anyone, because everyone has potentials!.We Need to learn!

http://astoldbytope.com/2012/12/a-message-for-the-single-ladies/

My boss loved a lady but he couldn’t win her heart. That’s why he has remained unmarried.

this part doesnt make sense however, imo.

Na inferiority complex dey worry dem...ain't norrin wrong wit ur babe having so much money dan u...if a guy be thinking like dat..he is an enemy of progress...

i dey find rich GF, where i fit see one please, tired of being a maga hahahahah

jideomowunmi: Na inferiority complex dey worry dem...ain't norrin wrong wit ur babe having so much money dan u...if a guy be thinking like dat..he is an enemy of progress...

Then you're clearly not old enough.
Its a recipe for disaster. For the first 10yrs, the understanding from abinitio will try to hold, but from 10yrs nd upwards, its all magic, esp if d man have unsuccessfully tried nd failed to bridge d disparity in income within that time frame.
Needless to say, its also one of d active indicators of infidelity among blue collar women. They're always drawn to elite status of men their age nd class (mostly colleagues at work) whom they consider 'smart' nd 'more a man' than what they have at home.
So there goes the problem Ms. If you were planning on it, ditch it. Despite its best intentions nd promises, time always runs out on this kind of marital structures.

Lol why is money always the main issue tho. If you like her u like her no need for long thing.

on point!

MrsBreezy: Lol why is money always the main issue tho. If you like her u like her no need for long thing.

Lenzz:

Then you're clearly not old enough.
Its a recipe for disaster. For the first 10yrs, the understanding from abinitio will try to hold, but from 10yrs nd upwards, its all magic, esp if d man have unsuccessfully tried nd failed to bridge d disparity in income within that time frame.
Needless to say, its also one of d active indicators of infidelity among blue collar women. They're always drawn to elite status of men their age nd class (mostly colleagues at work) whom they consider 'smart' nd 'more a man' than what they have at home.
So there goes the problem Ms. If you were planning on it, ditch it. Despite its best intentions nd promises, time always runs out on this kind of marital structures.

U sound more like u talking from experience.... ...talk to me..

jideomowunmi:


U sound more like u talking from experience.... ...talk to me..

I read. Alot. Its the shortest route to acquiring knowledge nd wisdom.

You should try that more often

abeg i agree with you joor
dat one is just blowing English
didnt even understand the crap he typed

jideomowunmi:


U sound more like u talking from experience.... ...talk to me..

Lenzz:

I read. Alot. Its the shortest route to acquiring knowledge nd wisdom.

You should try that more often

Meaning u r dumb abi..? eh ya...Pele sogbo...mtchewww...I shud try and do wa often... for ur mind na u don throw bomb abi....?dont make me start ooo