Business › Re: If Given ₦2m To Turn Into ₦10m Within One Year, What Business Would You Do? by fluffydec12: 8:46pm On Sep 27, 2025 |
jaxxy: Very simple question but I don't a direct answer to it. |
Travel › Re: Living In The USA - Life Of An Immigrant Part 1 by fluffydec12: 6:52pm On Aug 29, 2024 |
[quote author=Taal17 post=131746719]Read up on family immigrant visa. Only his siblings who are adults can file for him under that. However that route has a wait time of over 10 years
Nothing can be done from step mom [/quote Thank you. Thanks to everyone for their contribution |
Travel › Re: Living In The USA - Life Of An Immigrant Part 1 by fluffydec12: 5:25am On Aug 29, 2024 |
[quote author=GboyegaD post=131741285]Try Google and talk to immigration lawyers. I think it is possible iff the married the step mother before the son was 18.[/quote
Thank you! He has a good communication with his step mum, she used to come with his dad to Nigeria yearly till he died last year. So how can he leverage on that |
Travel › Re: Living In The USA - Life Of An Immigrant Part 1 by fluffydec12: 5:22am On Aug 29, 2024 |
Taal17: I can't tell you of chances. His Dad is late Step mum he has probably never met and neither did she raise him. He's an adult who is married. Visa is based on him and his own circumstances His dad used to come to Nigeria with his wife and their only daughter, tho the dad has other children in the US. As the first son, his father's properties here in Nigeria was transferred to him by inheritance. He has a good report with his black American step mum, but how does he leverage on the good communication he has with the step mum |
Travel › Re: Living In The USA - Life Of An Immigrant Part 1 by fluffydec12: 11:18pm On Aug 28, 2024 |
Taal17: No Thank you, but can an invitation letter from the step mum, hold any water for visiting visa. And what are his chances with a visiting visa? |
Travel › Re: Living In The USA - Life Of An Immigrant Part 1 by fluffydec12: 7:54pm On Aug 28, 2024 |
Taal17: No, his Dad is late. He is also an adult now. There is nothing he can do to get citizenship through his late Dad.
There are other pathways to get to the US. e.g student Can he get green card through his step mum that is a black American and still living in America? |
Travel › Re: Living In The USA - Life Of An Immigrant Part 1 by fluffydec12: 7:51pm On Aug 28, 2024 |
Taal17: No, his Dad is late. He is also an adult now. There is nothing he can do to get citizenship through his late Dad.
There are other pathways to get to the US. e.g student Thank you ! |
Travel › Re: Living In The USA - Life Of An Immigrant Part 1 by fluffydec12: 5:58pm On Aug 26, 2024 |
Good day, pls don't read and pass your advice would be of great help on this matter. The father to my sister's husband lived and died in the US, he was a citizen .
However, due to family intrusion(father's family didn't want their son to marry my inlaw mother) my sister's husband was born outside wedlock, so the dad didn't make any move to help his son relocate because of so many family problems, little communication
My in-laws father was married to an American woman who is still living in the US, she is a direct opposite of her husband towards my inlaw. The question now is what are his chances of being able to relocate to the US, can he get a green card as a child of a dead citizen( my in-laws father was buried in the US). Pls we need clarifications, pls don't read and pass, help! |
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Politics › Re: Nigerian Presidential Election 2023 (Live Updates And Monitoring) by fluffydec12: 1:14pm On Feb 25, 2023 |
Richardonald: Inec trying to frustrate East form voting,
As of 12:43 in a whole ward in Idemili north Anambra no inec staff..
People already leaving Same thing is playing out in Benin city, |
Politics › Re: Nigerian Presidential Election 2023 (Live Updates And Monitoring) by fluffydec12: 1:00pm On Feb 25, 2023 |
In Benin voters are being disenfranchised, most polling units that has large population have no materials and no Inec official on ground in those polling units. Benin city result is being manipulated with this their strategy . |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by fluffydec12: 5:45am On Dec 14, 2022 |
[quote author=naijainstinct post=119131928]NAGGW....
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Business › Re: I Mistakenly Borrowed From A Loan App #15,000 To Pay #19,500 In 2 Weeks [Pics] by fluffydec12: 6:34pm On Oct 05, 2022 |
[quote author=luluosas post=117197398]Can you imagine the rubbish? Any, just go to Sterling Bank and collect Specta Loan with a very very low interest. For 1 million loans, you will pay 96250 for 12 months. Can you beat this?
sterling bank, do they give loans to non sterling bank account holder? |
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Jokes Etc › Re: The X-Family°° IAAPMOO's chat room. by fluffydec12: 8:56pm On Aug 23, 2022 |
college news am soooooo happy about your progress, it is the lord's doing. Good to hear from you ! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by fluffydec12: 8:16pm On Aug 12, 2022 |
pls is something going on in Institute of rubber research in Benin city, Edo state |
Car Talk › Re: Has Any One Ever Purchased A Vehicle From Owode Market? Share Your Experience by fluffydec12: 10:01pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
[quote author=TPound post=1156111 Thank you! |
Car Talk › Re: Has Any One Ever Purchased A Vehicle From Owode Market? Share Your Experience by fluffydec12: 9:15pm On Aug 11, 2022 |
pls dont let that deter you. Pls how much will it cost me to buy a Nissan versa 2009 model Engine sir? |
Family › Re: My Narcissistic Brother by fluffydec12: 12:18pm On Jun 11, 2022 |
CaveAdullam: Even if you leave the house, your parents will still be under his torment, and probably will hasten their way to the grave. Both environment and parental upbringing play important roles in the life of a child, so let's assume that something went wrong along that line. No need to digress.
Meditation is not timidity, the essence is to accumulate tranquillity within so that you can be able to have enough energy to counter external chaos. So, don't think confronting your brother is wrong, since he's unable to act like an elder brother and a mature adult you must treat him as a child while seeing him as an adult.
Adults only change by their volition. Therapy, counseling, and advice only work if they choose to allow it. The best thing is to match their level and counter them there. There is no need to talk too much.
To treat toxic people, position yourself at a level of power where you can trample on their toxicity, don't take it likely with them, and feed them with their spoons. Counter toxicity with toxicity. If their degree of toxicity is 1 make your own 2 or 2+ or 2 pro or 2 max...doing this will make them steer clear. Narcissistic and toxic people don't respond to words of hope and encouragement, what they care about is themselves, and it is that image of themselves you must destroy. The more you try to make them see reasons with you, the more you elevate their ego, and the more they think they are worth shit. They normally misconstrue this as you being afraid of them. So, the best thing is to counter them, especially in tough scenarios like this where you can't simply avoid them.
Your brother is a pet snake turned wild, you can't destroy him because he's a pet and can't allow him to roam freely because he's now wild. The best thing to do is to cage him. Match his toxicity, block his freedom... "Just dey give am wotowoto, fire for fire".
Thanks. OP take this advice, this person is a pro in dealing with entitled and toxic people. since your mum is petting him, dont speak to your mum rather make your dad understand this and get him to join forces with you so that your dad can curtail your mum's continuous pampering of an adult baby that has refused to learn. |
Jokes Etc › Re: The X-Family°° IAAPMOO's chat room. by fluffydec12: 12:19am On Jun 06, 2022 |
Egoat: No shakings bro. I bam. Thanks for your concern. It is well...I am short of words, infact i am just confuse. |
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Romance › Re: Why????????????? by fluffydec12: 3:08pm On Apr 12, 2022 |
AstroG is this you  ? Happy new years, hw are you? you forget me shaaaa |
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Jokes Etc › Re: The X-Family°° IAAPMOO's chat room. by fluffydec12: 8:23pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
Collegenews: Amin o Jesus. Thanks so much babe. I am sincerely grateful.
Botherman. I don't even know if to laugh. I am not a writer tho, I don't even know I have a pattern gan. I only write what's in my head and while at it I go "saying this will make things clearer" so I dive into whatever would make my points clearer. Good to know you like it sha. I just hope I won't overdo things. Thanks maman.
Haqhaqhaqhaq Fluffy.
If you ask me? It's all coincidence. In the past four years, there is no single year I haven't been asked to pray against accident. Ayaoba wasn't even in the picture at allall then. It's all norms. You can't be on motion on an average of 10 hours a day and wouldn't know that the worst would happen someday, someway, somehow. It just was unfortunate life made two unrelated events happen simultaneously. Anyways, the simple truth is, Ayaoba sights are working perfectly good and I've never thought of the possibility of my involvement in her case being the cause of my current predicament. It just hasn't crossed my mind yet, I swear and I wouldn't do anything differently if the hands of time could be taken back. 100% serious. Hallelujah.....God has not given us the spirit of fear but of power, love and sound mind, Gloryyyyy! |