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No b Fayose for Southwest carry d matter for head so that the life and properties of his people will b safe; but here in Southsouth this clowns will keep on postponing it until half of our people are either in d morgue or buried.

No b Fayose for Southwest carry d matter for head so that the life and properties of gist people will b safe; but here in Southsouth this clowns will keep on postponing it until half of our people are either in d morgue or buried.

SalamRushdie post:

You be police ?




Guy i pass police oo.

A civil servant like me sleep between 4 to 5 hours everyday, then a president that want to see his country moving fast shld make do with atleast 4 hours.

sarrki post:Is Can now a political party?

They should channel there complain to the appropriate party

The more reason I love catholic die

They hardly involves in politicking.






Guy man, i have been reading ur comments of late here, it is quite unfortunate that you have taken this loyalty too far, may be there is something you are not telling us.
Back to ur comment, has CAN not channel their grievances to the appropriate channel and nothing is done. If this people attack ur village is this what you will say?
One thing in life that is certain is death, we will all die and stand to account to every idle word or action that we undertake in this world. Peace.

Like they say up there, 'he is a state property, we feed, cloth and shelter him' so we have the undeniable right to know everything abt him so that we can knw how to channel our prayer. Get well soon Mr President.

So paying salary is now an achievement? I weep for Nigerian politicians.

Sometimes i sat down and reminiscence on this life realising that one day i will leave this world with NOTHING that alone pain me and also help to check my doing.

yarimo post:FAYOSE is also a very big awaiting PRISONER in Mubi yobe state maximum prison .





Wetin konsign Fayose for Aregbe matter? Una too dey like wahala.

If there is any Governor in Nigeria who i think with his so call financial warchest will make his state the best among committee of states is Okorocha but alas the reverse is the case.

What if there was no Muslims in NigerIa?

pweetychyka post:

OP, I must say this n trust me it won't get down well wit u...cos u probably married her cos she was beautiful

Btw, u made d whole mistake.... i.e u brought it all to urself!
1. Didn't u date ur wife before getting married to her?
2. What kinda work does she engage herself with that's making her forget that she's suppose to be an help-meet and not u!
Y on earth will u wake up very early to engage in the domestic chores when u have a wifey? My dear U have to man up!
3. Didn't u open that portion of the bible where it says 'woman be submissive to ur hubby for he is d head of the home'
4. Abeg who Masters degree don help for kitchen? She has such degree yet she doesn't work! So wats her level of productivity asides making babies?

OP, hold ur ground now.... before it gets out of hand! If she refuses to take up her responsibility, abeg package her back to her parents house

To all d single guys, please learn from this OP's mistake!
Before u get married to any woman, ensure she sleeps over at ur house over the weekend atleast twice in a month.

And if she comes, allow her meet ur apartment unkempt once in a while and see her reaction...

#maopinion



Thank you. We dated but am telling u human being can change must especially when they are married.[/quote]

guccimilan post:





I am a graduate.














I guess she's displaying academic superiority at home.[/quote]

Nwogeh post:Every marriage is unique on its own and there is no advice that work wonders in all marriages. All of us has one or two things to endure in marriage and believe me many men do different things in their family just for their marriage to survive but most of them come out to say otherwise. my advice is, do everything possible to make your marriage work but don't loose your dignity as a man, don't be seen by your wife as being weak, over soft, wicked, over strict or over meek. just try and strike a balance in all. Mind ladies prefer strong men to weak ones. My wife works in a bank, I work in a private company, she wakes 5:30 and I wake 6:30, I provide, then she does the cores but I only, I repeat, I only help out when its necessary that I do so like when she is very tired, sick, heavy or when I want to surprise her, but I always make sure that she understands that I am doing her job so she should thank me for that. Abeg man up, cross your mind and make her understand that you are capable of doing anything to make her respect and reason with you. I don't believe in dominating her off course, her opinion should always count but you have the final say because we are to them what Christ is to the church....the head of the family. If you allow her continue like this, your children will follow suit to disregard your words. If snake no behave like snake, women will use it to tie firewood so act up but be kind and nice while exerting control. For now, capitalize on that thing she did and stop every help you give her in terms of house cores as a punishment for what she has done, then gradually start again with time. Make her to be the one that will be looking for peace. Define your duties in the house with her the day you will talk about it and stand on it. but don't forget that for you to achieve this, you should be able to control your sexual urge because that's one strength they have against us. if you discover their strength and smash it or counter it, they become powerless unless you begged her to marry her from onset.
Women are really difficult and unless you are married, you will never understand. Less I forget, watch this movie with her....WAR ROOM, she will change over night.



Thank you very much. I have so many Christian movie like the WAR ROOM, NOT EASILY BROKEN E.T.C thou she have not watch it i will definitely do that.

miqos02 post:bros, are you the wife or husband in this marriage? something tells me you are the wife oh.



Bros i weak for this ur question oo. I am the husband.

Catalin post:Flyingngel, you need to man up ASAP, stop doing domestic stuffs for your wife. She is not working so why should you do domestic stuffs? Instead why don't you hire a nanny or house help for her?



Thank u. Well the issue of nanny didn't cross my mind because i have a feeling that when the two of us join hand in taking care of our child, it will draw us more closer and the love will b stronger. May b i was deceiving myself.

kaboninc post:


Are you a man?



Yes.

Richy4 post:

NO...I do not think he is a weak man.... He is a married man.. There's a huge difference between marriage and boyfriend/girlfriend relationships which I believe you did not know based on your statement....If he doesn't help around the house who would..The wife is a nursing mother that requires help only that she was capitalizing on his goodness..

@ Op just help the best way that you can.. and any day or time u do not feel like it... just hit the ignore button....When some of them wants to pick a fight, that's how it starts...I remembered cooking for my Ex once...she said she loved it...The next time she came to my place she sweetly asked me to cook again and I did...when she asked for the third time... I did but with an extra 4 spoons of salt and a lot of grandnut oil surrounding the whole soup......We ended up ordering Pizza that night.....Through out our relationship, she never asked again....
If you wanna squash the cooking drama, maybe you might just borrow/ learn from what i did...Cook it all wrong once or twice without being asked some times...Next time she will not bother you again...




Thank u very much. I will definitely put that in motion . I am happy u really understand how marriage works.

pocohantas post:As at April 4, 2015, you said you guys play like babies. In your words, "we play like babies, running and throwing pillows... [b] Finally we promise ourselves to be happy no matter what.

July 19, 2015...she was pressurising you for marriage and you were confused about marrying her, after dating for 7yrs. [b]She said she'll marry you on her own conditions, because she thinks you'll change when you make money.
What conditions?

Fast forward to few weeks later, you proposed a little before Aug 26, 2015.

You said you're a teacher and she's a part time worker in a hospital.

You got married Jan 2, 2016.
This is Jan 26,2017, a little over 1yr and it has gone this sour.
Her character is despicable, but what changed?
Has she always been like this?

I had to confirm this isn't fiction.



It is not. Marriage as i have seen this few months is totally different frm boy/girl friend own. She is good in other aspect but stubborness is deposited in her full circle.

krauss post:Finally, I can now agree that some people can go any length to fabricate stories here on nairaland, but my question is, why do that? smh disappointed.



Well i knw it is hard for u to believe bearing in mind hw fake stories are posted here but i won't force u. I pray u marry someone that will worship u if atall u r not married.

frostylook post:Madam is testing your limit to see how far she can go. Stamp your foot down now that it's still early. Tell her you won't tolerate that nonsense next time and mean it.
If you allow her to get away with this behaviour, you will soon become her full time houseboy and ATM machine. Next time she tries that stunt, don't bother eating her food for a week, let her cook and eat alone or stay hungry to make her silly point. Eat out and ignore her. If that doesn't tighten the nuts in her head, stop dropping food money.
Hian!! Imagine starving the man of the house unto agaracha levels? For what? After being the only one hustling and providing, you will come home to cook for her(a housewife) on top to show what a good man you are? Who married who? Keep saying you are weak and you will soon find yourself as a victim of domestic abuse.
It's all in your hands to step up. Na only talk I fit talk from here.



Thanks very much.

delishpot post:You don marry hitler. Take note it's not because you help her, it is because she is a nasty somebody generally. If she no wahala you for house work, she go wahala you for money or material things. So it is just in her nature. Pkele, where is that other girl you dumped to marry your wife? (just kidding)
Bia Op, what does she do? Let me ask you that one first. If she is a house wife,
Eh, call meeting between two of you and make out new timetable. She is testing her limit . If she refuses to see reason with you (assuming your story is true o)
Do this one thing, when next she does it, go out and buy food, bring it home, eat it all and don't give her. Then wake up and leave the chores undone. When you return, from work, buy take away food, eat and then play with baby. When time to sleep reach, sleep and don't stress yourself about her.

Tell us what she does ie career, is she sick, did she just put to birth without any support except you? so that we can look at the later well o.




Thanks for the advise. Our baby is 5months old. She is not working and i am a Civil servant.

BrownCookie post:What kinda work does she do that you will be the one who wakes up by 5am to do shores?

Does she make the bulk of the income?

I mean, you can help out but this is getting a little too much ie if you are telling the truth in its entirety.

U really need to man up @ poster.


Thank u Sir. She is not working; and i am a Civil Servant.

Martinez19 post: I smell lies

Na you marry your wife or na she marry you?



Guy why shld i lie what will it bring to me. I am not lying.
I knw u can advise me, pls do. Thanks.

multikolour post=: OP, which work do you do for a living?
which work do your wife do for a living?
who provide for the house the more?

I asked this question because from your narration you do most of the house chore, like washing her clothes, sweeping and bathing the baby.

you also agreed to cook the soup but you declined because you have forgotten how to, if not you will have.
from the look of things she control you and every thing in the house, sorry I don't know what to say to bring solution to your problem because you gave us little information.




I am a Civil servant but she is not working thou she has a Masters Degree.

johnson232 post:
Honestly u are a weak man.


Bros, don't judge me like that; am just following d bible that the woman is a help Meet. I do alway this so that she will b happy and not grow old quickly and i love her.

Pls i will make this very brief. Since when i got married to my wife i have tried to be helpful in the home front but it seem she want to capitalize on that.

She has been doing these many times and i overlook, yesterday own got me mad which i begin thinking if marrying is bad. I came back frm work and she ask me to help her with our baby which i did; but when she came she now told me that i am going to cook the soup, which i told her it has been long i did that rather she can tell what what do - like preparing the ingredients then she will cook. Pls note i wake up everyday by 5am wash d plate, sweep the house and d outside even wash her cloth anything she can't.
Yesterday she said if i don't cook which i stood my ground, then we are going to sleep empty stomach and that was what she did.
My people pls is there any wrong i have done. I am a faithful husband, i assist her in anyway i can but she alway want me to submit to everything she says.
Pls help me with ur opinion because i am weak.

Modified: to those that says am lying, well it is up to you to believe but i need ur opinion. I seldom post since 2012 i registered officially here.

If u are not married, pls pray to whatever God that u serve to give u a woman that understand and respect u no matter the circumstances.

Ok now.

La click la toss around

Will our National Assembly Members do that; knowing fully well that many of them are net importer of this fake drugs.

Ok