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Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by multikolour(m): 7:38am On Jan 26, 2017 |
Flyingngel:then the truth is you are allowing her to control you too much, having a masters is nothing but a certificate. how can she be doing nothing but you will be the one to wash her cloth and cook when you come back from work, you have to man up and change the way some things go on in your married life. am not saying don't give her helping hand but she should do most of the work since she not doing anything rather than sleep and wait for you too do everything for her. BUT PLEASE NO DIVORCE, LOVE YOUR WIFE AND HER BABY AND MAKE YOUR FAMILY YOUR PRIORITY 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by johnson232: 7:55am On Jan 26, 2017 |
SirAweezy:@bold That is what the op already is bro...A woman who isn't working can't cook or do simple house chores...i really sorry for the op... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by Richy4(m): 11:06am On Jan 26, 2017 |
krauss: Why did you think the story was fabricated? |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by MamaTej(f): 11:14am On Jan 26, 2017 |
No one is allow to judge until we've heard the two sides of the story. Thank you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by Nobody: 11:51am On Jan 26, 2017 |
pocohantas: Inspector general pocohantas I'm at your service Ma ! Welldone 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by delishpot: 12:25pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
multikolour: Have you cared for a new born baby before? You cant even sleep at night talk less of during the day. If you think a nursing mother is just sitting and doing nothing, then you are very wrong. I believe he doesn't wash every single cloth of hers.maybe he did when she just gave birth which is understandable if she has only him around her. Typically women who just put to birth need a lot of help. Back in the day her mom and/or younger female family member would come to help until the woman can stand on her two feet again. But these days, husband's may have to put in time if they can't go the old route. But yes, she needs to calm the Bleep down and work hand in hand with the nice man she has married to help the family work as a single unit. Some women don't get to enjoy half of what this brother is doing for her. Some would even top it with slaps and kicks. She needs to appreciate what she has. 12 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by Richy4(m): 3:54pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
delishpot: You are very correct....Most of them offering solution here did selective reading...They skipped the part that implies that the woman was a nursing mother.....And jump into "start taking charge as a man bullshit"...I know how babies wakes up at the ungodly time of the night and start raising an alarm... If he wakes up by 5am daily, that means the baby is not that bad in terms of crying....Though I really hate the fact that the woman was totally capitalizing on what the OP was doing by playing the nursing mother card.... 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by pocohantas(f): 5:01pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
truthsayer007:Come and learn work. Entries would close by next week. |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by spencekat(m): 5:56pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
ojun50:Does it have any correlation with the issue at hand? |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by kaboninc(m): 6:00pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
Flyingngel: Are you a man? |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by Nobody: 6:22pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
Flyingngel, you need to man up ASAP, stop doing domestic stuffs for your wife. She is not working so why should you do domestic stuffs? Instead why don't you hire a nanny or house help for her? |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by Smhart1(f): 6:25pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
That woman go soon start to dey beat you 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by Flyingngel(m): 6:52pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
kaboninc post: Are you a man? Yes. |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by Flyingngel(m): 6:57pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
Catalin post:Flyingngel, you need to man up ASAP, stop doing domestic stuffs for your wife. She is not working so why should you do domestic stuffs? Instead why don't you hire a nanny or house help for her? Thank u. Well the issue of nanny didn't cross my mind because i have a feeling that when the two of us join hand in taking care of our child, it will draw us more closer and the love will b stronger. May b i was deceiving myself. |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by miqos02(m): 8:23pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
hmm |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by tuscani: 8:24pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
Make I park here if I can learn one or two things. |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
Quite sad but you should step up as the man of the house, that comes naturally. She should be a homemaker not a home breaker, you can remind her when next you lecture her on the vows you took at your wedding 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by miqos02(m): 8:26pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
Flyingngel:bros, are you the wife or husband in this marriage? something tells me you are the wife oh |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by Opakan2: 8:26pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
so you didn't notice she was stubborn before you married her.. medicine after death |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by femi4: 8:27pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
dingbang: |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
miqos02:na so dem dey advice? |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by helphelp: 8:27pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
Get a maid 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by Nobody: 8:27pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
Opakan2:I don't think he mentioned it but no one's perfect |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by soberdrunk(m): 8:29pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
#stopdomesticabuseagainstmen 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by Phemvin(m): 8:30pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
Edwinmason:good one |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by miqos02(m): 8:30pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
Tazmode:u can decode my advice from that question |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by babseg(m): 8:31pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
Flyingngel: I believe you . Unfortunately for you , this is where problems will start someone is going to bend for the other or your marriage is going down the drain. But if I was in your case that night. I will just dress up and find somewhere nice to eat 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by jo997: 8:31pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
Wash plate, wash her clothes,,, mba kwa nu... this is highest show of weakness. On a second thought, since you have been doing this for all time, l think is high time you sit your wife down and discuss this issue outrightly with her.. Although you started it earlier by doing house chores exclusively meant for women irrespective of their standing in the society. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by tommykiwi(m): 8:32pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
Flyingngel:Me also get question for U. Na she marry U abi? |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by Opakan2: 8:32pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
Tazmode: people especially women can hide their true character till they get into a man's house, then they become uncontrollable Anywaiz I think the OP has been too soft and gentle with the wife, why she is taking him for granted. Women don't appreciate good, "over loving" men.. most of them want violence and guys they can't predict. it's how they are 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by smart024(m): 8:34pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
Its in a case like this that my people will begin to ask "why is it that its only people without teeth that their maize use to ripe...?" To a point I can't eeven take it when another lady is doing it to another fellow man o... I remember dressing down one lady that even if she use to quarrel her husband, she should wait till I leave the house anytime I visit o... 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Stubborn. by femi4: 8:35pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
pocohantas:Inspector gadjet of our time....I sight you
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