₦airaland Forum

i have a friend whose husband is a known flirt to her and to both families (husband's and wife's). The wife has tried all she could to talk it out with the man and things are not working. not too long ago my friend found a guy she likes and someone who cares about her love life, in short they fell in love and have been seeing each other secretly. according to my friend, they kiss and romance but have not done the main thing and this seems to give my friend happiness cos now she bothers not whether her husband goes to girls and comes. The problem now is that the man's tradition forbids it and my friend is worried what will happen next and the husband is unrepentant, so what should she do?

does this also apply that kissing and romancing between a married man and unmarried woman; and a married woman and an umarried man is adultery?

See it is very easy to say but very difficult to put it in action, what of if you happen to be the legal wife & all you are producing is female & the prostitute CHILD is a MALE indirectly what is going to happen? I'm not in support of not accepting the child as others have said because the child is innocent of everything but it takes the grace of GOD {because many tribe cherish Male Child than Female}My only prayer is that God should give us favour in our marriages both the male & female because it happen to the two parties
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The wife has 3 girl children and the prostitute gave birth to a girl also. The man still flirts with women of various ages, young and old women which i think is caused by greed because he is always interested in getting financial assistance (borrowing without paying) from the girl friends which has come to the notice of his wife due to threat from some of the girls when requesting for their money. but presently, the man is behaving as if he is sober becuase the wife gave him the condition that she will leave if he doesn't leave all the girls. Pls what should the woman do?

What Should A Woman Do If Her Husband Had A Child Outside Marriage

A man impregnated a girl he met on few occasions without realising she is a prostitute. The girl gave birth to the baby and the wife didn't know until the child was 3 months old. Meanwhile since the child was born she has been in the custody of the good samaritan that helped her when she was in labour. The mother refused to take responsibility of the child and has
since continued with her prostitution. What should the man's wife do?